A fear that love will fade away?

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Slipper man

Silcon and Roses will come and go
My hand will shake my and my brain become slow
You were so beautiful when I first met you
But now your eyelids droop and your nose is all skew

However I remember that you love me without fear
Even though the hair on my head is less than that in my ear...

OH CRAP - I suck at this poetry thing... - I dont know the ANSWER!

Kris K

True love never fails and always lasts, however, what we humans classify as love is very different to real and deep love...Love is a decision, not a feeling, not a sexual desire, cause all these fade, but real love lasts forever, even if your partner, becomes, old and ugly you will see beauty within them, thats true love...

Reb Da Rebel

Ha, ha!

That sounds a bit mean, and the only cure I can find for that is knowing that you'll look no better at that age. There arent exactly many hot young things waiting in line to be with a wrinkly old man unless his pockets are super deep and they are shallow kinda girls...

T.I

I think the idea of spending my life with my man & seeing him age and waking up with him by my side everyday, excites me and makes me love him even more.I long for that.

Ayiza

If you spend your time with her all the time trust me you will not see her aging.

Its like when someone gains weight they don't see it the people around him don't see until someone outside his circle points out "damn you have gained weight" then everyone notices that he gained weight.

So my advice to you spend as much time as possible with the person.

Liberal Mind

Love is blind, atleast when you are in it you can't see that far but if you do, it can be one of two things; either you are not really in love or you are scared of it (for better or for worse) - either way you are not in love! I repeat, you are not in love!!! The moment you become logical you shall realise that. Simple reason: Love conquers all.

Joellie H

Maybe that person isnt right for you?

cheri

One loves that partner for who and what he/she is, and for what you are when you are with him/her - not for what they look like, and then he/she will always be as precious to you as she/he was when you both were young - lol Zim age is a question of mind over matter, if you don't mind it don't matter

pura_rosa

That is a very shallow outlook on love, real love never fades

notshygirl

True love NEVER fades.

Sins

You will slowly become old and ugly with your partner, and neither of you will realize it.

Besides - one gets so use to the way someone looks, after a while you don't see it as often anymore. And it takes more than physical beauty to take your breath away. To me love is not a forever guarantee. But if you love someone's mind and soul, and that grows with the changes, then the physical body can be old but it will never be ugly.

LOL@Slipperman. There goes the royalty cheque...

phoenix_chi

Maybe your partner is thinking the same about you, so you'll both be old and ugly. No harm done. At least you'll have each other...

Dee

I can see myself on the elderly home's stoep with my hubby, telling stories we can remember. Like how we met and our first night together....I can totaly see us. i also don't think you have the right partner yet. Keeep looking, and remember, you are also gonna turn grey and toothless...not only your partner.

the ferrari man

If you fear this, it was never, or WILL never be love. Your relationship is downgraded to infatuation, and that will always fade away.

MsichanaMrefu aka TaLLady

Wow!!
I guess it hasn't occured to you that you yourself will get old and ugly, unless of course, you highly prescribe botox.

All the same, listen to the song or read the lyrics by Musiq Soulchild - 'Just as long as your love don't change'

Your fear should be being with someone who doesn't know how you got those wrinkles, and not the person who saw you through your good/bad days. Truth be told, she/he'll appreciate you more because she would have seen you overcome!!

Good Luck!

Duisend-poot

Love is always in the Air. Makes no difference if you or your partner have grey hair and look like a right pair of wrinkly's. You hardly notice how old your hubby is getting. Keep in mind that as your partner is getting older , so are you. Love is all that counts, love and respect and that over-rides everything else in a marriage.

Snorkie

It is not true love then Zim if you fear things like that.

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