A good husband or wife?

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-One Love-

basically being like best friends would be. and understanding each other very well. and don't forget r-e-s-p-e-c-t.

jovvijo

A good spouse is someone who understands that their partner is human too and just as liable to make mistakes as they are, but loves them anyway!

heavy D

To understand each others shortcomings and still love each other !

MB1810

I'm single, but looking at my parents marriage over the last 24 years, I would have to say PATIENCE is a key ingredient.

Chinese Proverb: Patience is power. With time and patience the mulberry leave turns to silk.

Thomas

The ability to to communicate

DouNad

Him doing the dishes, ironing, cooking, fetching the kids.....
Giving Myself time for, shopping and having cocktails with the girls!!!
But seriously
Respect for each other. His/her honesty. Giving in the relationship and not only taking, helping out from time to time.

roxxybean

respect, honesty, committment, communication. being able to accept each others flaws, understanding the other person. splitting up the housework. being friends.

Sparky

they need to be your best friend.

moon

The ability to not want to change, what you fell in love with, in the first place
Ladies, if you met your man in a pub - it's most likely that he enjoys going to pubs.
Men, if you stole your wife from some other oke - it's most likely that she will be stolen fro you.
Or vise versa.

nimesh

Understanding is the prime factor to be either good husband towards his wife and good wife towards her husband. Other factors follows too... love, affection and so on.

sweet - angel

obey your marriage vows.

when you get married you make a promise in front of God and your family that you will love and respect each other, that you will stand by each other thru sickness and health, for richer and poorer.

my hubby is a wonderful husband, he is always there for me he loves me unconditionally, he cares for me if i am sick he treats me with the same respect that he wants to be treated with. he is my best friend and my partner. he understands me better than what i understands myself.

and i believe it is all because we honor our vows.

Kay

consideration and respect for the other person. compromising so each person can get the most of what they want. just being plain nice and polite, why should people be nicer and more polite to strangers than to their own spouses?

ruralsouthwell

Teamwork - each one thinking for the other and making life easier for them.

andy

respect for each others:

opinions
behaviours
limits
lifestyles

bean

it helps if the other person is comitted to the relationship ... then communication.

jo v

I think roxxybean summed it up nicely.

peppa-ann

Dear Fallen***

Nothing makes a "good" husband or wife in marriage.

* to accept each other's faults and shortcomings and to help each other rectify the problem areas.
* to make sure the excitement of being with each other NEVER dies.
* to accept the changes that follow, with each other, when the ageing process begins. Very difficult to accept when it starts happening!!!!
* lastly, to genuinely LOVE each other.

luv
peppa-ann

Vango

Being a team player and being lovingly supportive. Good communication also goes a long way.

Lady G

Both must be: Willing to compromise, honest, love no-one else but each other (romantically speaking, of course), mature, religious (same as the spouse), still adventurous, and a lot of other things.

General Proud

relationships boil down to one thing at the end of the day.

communication.

if you can openly discuss and communicate with your partner, there is nothing you cannot overcome together.

unity

Respect
With respect in a relationship everything else should fall into place.

Brian

One that submits to your needs entirely.

And bakes pies.

poepies

I'm not yet married, but in my relationship with my fiancÃ© of five years, I saw that the following aspects are highly recommended:

- Respect for each other
- Trust
- Understanding each other
- Never ever lie
- Being a companion
- Supporting each other
- And loving each other, no matter what
- Excepting each other, without trying to change each other
- Always giving and never expecting to get something back
- A 100/100 relationship (not 50/50)
- Enjoy sharing in each other's happiness, sadness, and faith
- Communication!!!!
I think this is just a few things to concentrate on!!!!!

MR CASH

Hello this is MR Cash

The ability for her to be able to listen to what Daddy is saying.
Doing what daddy says and be able to accept the punishment that Daddy dishes out if she is naughty!

evan sensor

cash money this is and the devorses to transulateit to u i have more money

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