Can you hate someone just because they remind you of someone else?

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Spiderman

No that would be stupid thinking huh?
Now why do they do that so much?
Oh don't play that song, don't buy that, don't go in there.

booooooooooo!

Scared of their own damn shadow

You are all better than all this.
Do you know how many people in the entire world are praying for your betterment everyday?

AstugfarAllah Azeem I always wonder if you are all worth of even one of our prayers. Al hamodullah

Do you know how many people around the world are crying for you all and you all just sit there and do nothing! AstugfarAllah Azeem!

starfish

Hate is a strong word.

I think it would be quite superficial and shallow to "hate" because some one does not fit your ideals or they remind you of someone you dislike.
That sounds very immature as well..

GlobalMan

If you feel like you've given him a "fair" chance....then, hate away..

***But on the other hand, you might want to consider that you're stuck with that person everyday.......try to find a middle ground perhaps..might make your office life more bearable :)

Zoggers

YES

My husband always tells me ; Zoghbi calm the F down how come you always think people are trying to destroy you!

Tribal Angel

well .. it does happen but i remind myself they're not the same person ....

loool @ ahaaaa uhuuu

i'd tell them "7aaaaaaaaa"

jason evans

ya i hate John Mccain, he reminds me of Bush

Josie

Poor girl ... what a fix!!!
I agree with you, if you have an aversion to someone, anyone else that looks like that person is bound to get it too. Having to work with such person must not be easy ...
I suggest you tell this guy as soon as you feel that you can do; how annoying his noises are and how it gets in your nerves (if you are in a position you can do it, of course) , then, if it doesn麓t help, go ahead and tell him that his behavior reminds you of someone you really don麓t like. Bet that message will go home ... and for now, ask God to help you not hate him as that is such a heavy feeling that takes away our happiness.
Good luck G. ...

Male Muse

Hmm... they say 'never judge a book by its cover'

But in your case, not only the cover but the substance matches too : )

So, you have all the right to love or hate some one... for what so ever reason.

But my dear 'President' remember that love begets love and other wise too : )

Learn to have a good working relationship at work and try not to show your personal emotions.... at times the not very obvious traits of a person are allot better than the obvious/ visible ones.

And at the end of the day.... Who knows....... : )

Aliz

Yes, it is possible, but in your case I think you hate him because his behavior seems to be the same as the person you hate.

Halawa

hmmm I dont know about this guy yet.... but sure hate him why not he sounds mean anyways just dont spit in his food thats nasty

Kate (the 10th)

Yes it sounds logical to me.
Besides you're the Ghannouge you can do what you want and get away with it

Austin S

maybe

Ow, my spirit..

yes i am like that too i hate anyone who reminds me of myself,
there legit feelings

Averof L

sure!

Kuwaiti

u have the right to hate anyone its ur right as human to think whatever way u want as long as what u think doesnt negatively interfere with other people's lives

What the fudge!!!!!

You should not be so judgmental... why not give him a chance... You never know maybe you'll even fall in love with him...

Sidwell

yes it is normal to dislike someone because they remind you of someone else whom you dislike intensely.

X-GIRL

yes you can, I used to hate people because of their look.

I used to walk in the street and say to my friends I hate him, I hate her (him and her are people passing by and I don't know em)
I hate him, hate her, hate him and so on

and once I kept saying about one guy that I really hate him and can't even look at him and all these sorta things, after he talked to me and said that he would like to know me more and be friends, ( what the heck)
anyway yes it happens, you can hate people because of their look or because they remind you of someone you hate

Aussie the 2nd

It's because he is still eating your food isn't it....you must learn to share girl ! lol

Is this Mr $20k a month you are talking about ..? Is THAT what you hate..?

ergrdgr

i'd say yes

tmgchatter@live.co.uk

snoopylover564

Yea I guess that never happened to me before but if they have the same traits I guess you can hate him

Tia

mmm yeh... it's perfectly an acceptable feeling to hate someone because they remind you of someone else!!

I hate some ppl cause they remind me of other ppl!

I even hate some radio stations because they remind me of the ppl who remind me of the ppl I hate lol

Jimmy

"the hate" word isn't the oppsite of "the love" word
both of them are a degree of care .. when you love someone u will care about him and when you hate someone you will care about him so
the best in this case just keep urself in careless mood with him .

luv n los

well even tho he might remind you of someone you hate its still not a reason to hate him if you think he nags too much stay away from him and those stupid sounds he makes at you? well that just means hes a dick and needs a life just ignore him and hold your head high there's no need to get mad over someone stupid! hope this answer helped.

MKEman

Yes, it's perfectly normal. We form opinions about people very early, long before we know them well. Often those opinions are based on things these people say or do that remind us of someone in the past. However, we often don't make the connection to the other person as you have, we just know that we have an opinion/feeling. So kudos to you for the awareness.

This guy is doing something that sounds annoying by itself. It sounds doubly-annoying if you have to relive it again with a new person.

The same is true of positive feelings. Often attractions between men and women are based on reminders of someone in our past. We remember the feeling, but not the connection to the past person.

arpsy

:) Yes you can hate someone at the firts impression if he or she remember you someone else, but you should give that person the opportunity to show him or herself by the time and then you will jugde if you will hate him or you were wrong..give that chance may you get a good workmate who can make your work easy..if at the end result that he is as the person you use to hate then let it go and just ignore him. Give that chance yourself to meet him well... you will never know what will be the benefict of that opportunity.

Tool7

you have no depth

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