Do you believe in arranged marriages??

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â™« Chloe â™«

Some arranged marriages work, and some don't. Some choose to get married that way by choice due to lack of social interaction...

I don't agree with it totally but i'm not 100% against it. :) ya3ni with and against.. i can't make up my mind about it...

Although one thing is on my mind concerning this.. Aren't the dating sites a form of arranged marriages? They do offer choices of men or women and their characteristics and personalitites and what they studied and all.. like you're choosing from a catalog.. and yes the couple would meet afterwards whether in the presence and knowledge of their parents or not.. It is different from the ordinary dating process where the couple know nothing about each other and just start dating,.. and making an idea of how the other is.. normal dating.. ordinary.. it might work and it might not.. while in the arranged marriages, as much as the concept have the idea of being too serious and away from emotions, only ppl who happen to be open-minded and mature have the ability to involve their emotions truly and sincerely.. and of course the potential to make it work and make the best of it..

When it should occur, whatever age but of course not when the girl is younger than 18 and even 20. Only if she has the reason stated above: lack or no social interactions and activities.

Am i making sense? it's not a good day for me :(
Seriousness woke me up and responsibility and duty have been my breakfast..

BÃ©lier

No. I don't. Except if the bride is very very ugly... He he! But that's not your case sweety.

JOSH

No i am against taht one because it will be a facke marriage oii beleive taht couples should study each other for some time then decide if they can get married or not...

Aussie

As a principle I also don't believe in them but have to agree that it can work out for the best...love can grow !

Our way can't be seen as an outstanding success when you look at the incredibly high divorce rate so I would be the last to criticise .

webby

no, in principles. I believe that people should meet, it has to "click" between them before they contemplate spending their life together.
I also feel that it's hard enough to share your life with a loved and chosen person so it must be harder to do so with a stranger.

But, I've seen successful arranged marriages so maybe there are exceptions to this rule.

prpllvr4evr

I used to think that A.M.s were wrong, old fashioned, and unnatural, but then looking at current marriage and divorce trends... I mean, with the A.M. you get stuck with someone who you may not like at all which could eventually lead to learning to love the person. This could build a great relationship. Or not. A non A.M could do the same but since you are not stuck with the person right from the jump, I think you kind of try to make things work even if they are not, which might actually add to the problems. Personally, I like my own trial and error. Let me pick my guy, use my sense, and see what happens. But if you are trying to become a world power or just a more powerful clan then hey, by all means, your marriage should probably be arranged.

Kate

I don't believe in arranged marriages because they usually don't work out due to the lack of compatibility and most of the time the lack of love

No88oN

In Middle east that's common,due to the tarditions and so on

My opinion Arrange marriage is good as long it is just a way to meet someone
But u can never marry someone that u dont know,or never spoken with,never seen his or her feelings ,personality..etc
Because if u didnt then u rely on probabilities that it may be good or bad
And marriage is something that should not have any risk because u chose the person whom u will live with ur entire life unless u want divorce and hurting ur kids by this action

lord

a big NO.
no general views, its a rejected idea to me.
it should never occur.

fatma

hey beautiful

i believe in them (as in ive seen them happen b4)

whereas my view differs for all people.... weather the brideand groom accept it the its fine.. whereas if they are both or either one against it i thinkit is wrong....

jovvijo

I used to think they were silly, and I must admit I would be unhappy if I was wed to a stranger.
However at the same time I have met many couples who are happy and love each other but who started out in an arranged marriage.
Guess it depends on the couple.

gloria

i totally don't agree with it although it is possible that love can grow. I think it shouldn't occur and that everyone should have a say on who they love.

eve

sure i dont,im totally against it but u should tell that to my grandma who never stops to get us men.....i wonder how are there not married girls with alll those men.........hehehehhe and they all hae the same features:good looking,rich,decent.....but sure half of these things are not right

shlly_mm

ABANDONED

i dont agree with them because if the people have no feelings for each other then it could cause problems in the future.

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â™¥Hebaâ™¥

never

Halawa

I believe they are very wrong and I have never seen an arrange marriage happy... The man usually cheats on his wife or vice versa.. because you can grow to love someone by being with them a long time but you can never make yourself inlove with someone. I think there is never a reason to arrange a marriage.

Fly Baby

No, but I believe that you and me are meant to eachother.

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