Do you tell your beloved ones about what you hate about them ? like habits ...etc?

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DagNaggit limpuladerfy II

I feel like I could! I have a brother who is an alcoholic.and most of the time he abuses my mother and myself, I could blow at any second !! but what can you do ! Not much . Like that person said here that someday you will miss that person ! But its so hard Now! Peace

Alex

Hate is a very strong word to use. There is nothing that i hate about my loved ones (my family & friends). There are some things i dislike that my Egyptian Grandparents disagree with & we have discussed this. For example they didn't like the idea of me answering questions on here they thought this was a bad habit for me to do, my father explained how/why i enjoy & they have accepted the reasons though my grandfather locks my laptop away sometimes when my father is not around, this i dislike. I respect his doing this as they tell me i am too young to use the computer when i am alone.

THE-GREEN-VISITOR

"My true friend is that one who tells me about my defects" is one of my favorite quotes.

I really love it when some close friend of mine tells me about something that needs to be worked on in my attitude or personality . This shows that he really cares for me provided that he tells me so while we are alone and in a friendly way.

And when the roles are reversed and I have to play the role of the adviser, I try to deliver my message in an indirect way, that's not in a verbal way, I think this is the best way to advise someone.
I remember a story whose heroes are Al-Hasan and Al-Husein, the grandchildren of our beloved prophet Muhamed, peace be upon him.
They saw an old man while he was performing the ritual ablution, they noticed that he didn't perform it well or like Muhamed's, peace be upon him, ablution. And as they were young youth and the man was an old man, they had to give him a piece of advice but in a polite way.
They came to him and told him "Hey uncle, we're brothers and everyone of us thinks his ablution is the best, can you please see us and judge who's is the best?" and they began performing ablution just as it should be, and as they end, they gave the man a good lesson in such a pretty way.
This is just what I mean and this is my favorite way of giving or receiving a piece of advice.

last pharaoh

to close people who will welcome it

Janice

Yes, I hate that you are always right, Hasefar!

Honest2afault

No, what you hate now, you may miss deeply later.

Sultan Shalfat the Adventurer

Yes sure.

Except older people (Mom, Dad, Uncle,...etc.) out of respect. And ladies, for safety reasons !!

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Balsam

I say it, but try to do it in a nice way.

manell

yeah.
it requires a deeper level of relationship though.
and ofcourse you have to reassure your partner that you still love them despite of your peeves about them.
thats healthy.

steven e

never.

Ruby

I tell only my husband lol

patrona

atta GIRL if they shaped up...!!!
they wouldn't have to Fall out,!!!
K,P, JURY DUTY,!!
SOME WHERE THERE SHOULD BE
some attention if you have to wait on LINES,!!
THATS THE TRUTH child BeLoved for REalllll !!!

Gigi (i wish i could)

yes because i am honest but i am trying to say in a polite way

Debi

No, because I love them despite their flaws and I hope they feel the same way about me.

mu lee

not even close

The Clown

sure..... But for only who will accept it from me......
Now ........ Do you accept it from me??? ...... bcoz I have a long list for you....... an Empty Long list :D ..........

numbsain?

Well now then they wouldn't be beloved now would they?

Love is never getting to say "You're stupid."

You always hate the one you love.

Love is a many tentacled thing.

Everyday I make a list of all the things I hate about my beloved and then I crumple up the paper and eat it.

Harleigh

sometimes. Depends on who it is, and whether the "fallout" will be worth the aggravation.

Ranoush(ppl thumbed me down:p)

ouch again_enta mesta2sadny wla eh?!

that's my problem,i usually don't have the courage,i think i might hurt them,even though they are ok with it and we agreed to be frank,i just can't point out sth when i'm full of flaws..

Doris Worthington

No, of course. You want to hurt their feelings!!!? :o

stef

Unless their habbits, etc. directly effect your life, then no, I wouldn't. It usually only causes problems, and who needs more of those, right? Anyway, don't we all have to live with each others imperfections? The Good Lord knows my husband has to live with mine!!! and I'm glad he does.

â™¥sweetyâ™¥

rarely i'm not too confient not too giving but i'm honest

tetyana

I always say,what i think to everyone. Why should i lie? If they don't like it to bad.

Moonrise

i show them that i dislike a certain behavior without referring to them.i give an example that isnt related to them.
it's an indirect way that doesnt hurt.
it usually works.

dreampo

i don't hate things about my loved ones they are all special to me besides i am not the judge and jury here.....now if you cut me off while driving and give me the "bird" I will break the birdie off................

Abdullah

i think u suppose to ask this q in another category?it isnt related to egypt.

rabena ye7meek wtsafer

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