Egypt Chicks: I need your opinion on this...?

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Zoser

Ok, I will answer that from a long experience, Never never get married to anyone and you feel you are doing a sacrifice or compromise,, (it does not matter if someone else feel you are doing that) BUT , the most important that this idea should not be/ near your mind,,, why?
In life sooner or later you will have some dispute /argument with your husband as any normal married couples,, the first thing will jump to your mind the compromise /sacrifice you did,,,, and you will mention that to him (black mailing emotionally with it) THAT is a normal reaction of any Human,,, There will be a feeling of superiority always upon him to be used when it is needed (we are not angels or prophets)

Now telling you stories :
As christian Egyptians females would compromise to get married (as the numbers of suitable males are not that big),, One of my friends wife, gave him really hard time just because she was making more money than him,, although he was a dentist she was telling me always (well I was a very successful engineer..) that she let him raising the children at home (not to work) and she even monitored the house's phone publicly and told him.... another story, with other couples who invited me to their home and the wife (who I know more than the husband) told me to stay for the night , I was so embarrassed that her husband did not ask me so , and when i told her I had to leave she told me (I am the supporter of this house,,, he did not have the right to say yes or no)
As relations worldwide are the same between men and women,, I was setting with my American neighbor in Florida,, the husband went to sleep and the wife (who was as old as my mother) at 3 o'clock morning screamed on him while we were watching tv , that I thought I did something wrong,, the guy came running after waking up,, she asked him to scratch her foot as she was so fat to reach it, when I told her that she humiliated the guy in front of me , she told me she was working and he did not,, and she gave him 20$?daily,, so he should help and serve her..

I can tell you 100 stories,, if the woman (or even the man) does not feel his partner is as equal to her/him,, there will be always problems in life

Good luck
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Lilly : i think you did not get the point, there is no problem if the woman / or the man is having superiority qualities than the other,,, THE MOST IMPORTANT IS not to feel sacrificing/ or doing comprormise,, and have this idea in his/her mind (that a sacrifice / compromise was done) that is it..

Popeye

In Egypt we call him "Parachutte" or "Tayyara ma7roo2ah".. nazel zay el 2ada el mesta3gel.. a3oozubellah men di ashkaaal

Sir Schördinger the 3rd

He's his wife's *****.

Sαмsooмα {ραℒєς†îиîαи ✌ }

maybe she lovess him

love is blind

i guess in this case
it is REALLY blind

Moonrise

kul foula laha kayal!
you cannot know the inside story .
perhaps she loves him , feels inferior to him bec she isnt good looking , sees in him qualities you arent aware of , couldnt find someone compatible , etc
i hope she will find her happiness with him.

Lily of the Valley

it does not matter if they love each other...
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@Zoser- and from your long experiance you should know that there are always exceptions!
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@Zoser- i do understand what you meant and i stay by what i said.
if we would think only about the POSSIBLE negative sides of anything in life where would that lead us to? then no one would ever think about one day sharing his/her life with another person because of the things you stated.
i am sorry that you had the ill luck of witnessing only bad sides in the stories that you told. but believe me, the bad examples are the true exceptions. and the good ones always outnumber the bad ones.
what are we supposed to do? to not let anyone close to ourself because we may get hurt? to miss everything beautiful in life because of the fear of one possible failure, because of the fear that we may get hurt?
NO. no one will convince me that those who do not trust others, and hence think that they are not getting hurt , live happier lives than those who trust even if their trust in people may not always be justified.
believe me from my experience - one moment of true happiness is worth hours of sadness... one smile is worth hundreds of tears...

♥Lovely♥ ♥Diamond♥

There's nthg called marriage for the sake of marriage.
It has to be based on love & understanding AND on equality (social, educational, you name it).

Tribal Angel

how desperate is she .. seriously !!!

no i wont compromise //

mesho f

sometimes, these days the girl is forced to marry at anyway, so she trying to pick up a man to marry as long as he is satisfying the minimum requirement of marriage.
some times, the girl marry for not to be 3anes, so she marry the first one she meets after certain age,and may be she pay for everything, which means she but a man.
don't judge any girl near from 30 and didn't married for doing anything to marry specially in our arab countries

Mr Blank (rest his mind )

we have a saying in Egypt ' kol wa7d demagogy mery7ah " in English " Everyone makes up his mind on his own " So as long as she is good with that , so it's ok, but I state depending on my knowledge and experiences in life ,, there must be equality in marriage.

el mofatesha KorombA

maybe love is the answer ?

Dryest Flame

marriage based on that is not a good relation she pay every thing f3l parachute its obvious she will always treat him from up and if she didn't do that now she will do it soon cause he deserve that the one who cant afford marriage and responsibility so why to marry from first its not an equivalent marriage look its not about study issue cause many aren't good in studding but they are responsible but i see a un responsible man here who want to marry lol that's funny but it will be a cruel experience cause i think she love him but its not real love or she is old enough to who want to marry any man but the one who cant pay even his rent so when they will have a baby who will raise that's so mad relation

I AM DIFFRENT . . .

the problem is that we measure verything by mind ... money became the measuring point for people and men !! ... maybe they loved each other ... i know it will painful for him to feel thats he is not the master and he is level 2 because he has less money ... but again you gave a million dollars and married someone who have another million dollars ... what would two people who does not leave each other do with all that money ???? for both of them to accept something like this ... then must be a true love story ... or he is fooling her ... if its a great love then its beautiful ,,, even if they had a hard time later and a problems every seconed ... they would still have their good memories and that would be better than to marry a man you never felt anything towards him .... i mean ... married people after a certain time they began the circle of life and problems enter their life .... if you loved the one you married then problems will happend after a month ... if you didnt love him ... problems will start after the seconed day (nobody fights on the first day :D) sorry ... i just needed to say that :D , anyway .. other reason is that when you fight ... if you love him ...then ull be having a good reason to go start and make it up ... if you dont love him ... why would you go for him ... everybody will be waitin for the other to say ok ... i surrender to you and let the life pass on ...

bloodymarry

send my congrats to the bride or the groom
ymken metgawezah so3'ayar 3ashan ta7'doh terabeeh le omoh we teksab feh thawab ...lol

Adam

i just dont think it will never work out.

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