Girls what will be ur reaction if your husband hits you ?

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~ Noha ~

OMG !
I wish I would never be placed in such a situation â€¦. Ameen
:(
And I wish things would never reach such thing like hitting â€¦ coz Iâ€™m not provocative (neither barda w ten7a :D ) ; when in an argument ,if I found the person infront so outrageous , I try to calm down and to postpone arguing to some time laterâ€¦.. for both of us to be in better mood.
To answer your question ; I dunno what exactly my reaction would be,
But all Iâ€™m sure of is that : I would never hit back or use insults
But also â€¦I wonâ€™t spend the night with him in the same house.
Iâ€™ll go to my dadâ€™s house right away !!
And I wonâ€™t be back unless he really regrets what he did & promises never to repeat it again
However, I wish that this would never happen â€¦ coz I donâ€™t think I can bear such thing ,PLUS itâ€™ll decrease my love to him
:(

Dryest Flame

for the first time im confused to answer cause its already happened to me but in some time life must go on may be all of your answers because you never been in situation like that but believe me b4 marriage my answer was as yours but after many thing changes you have kids if u dont work many things to think of may be i was negative may be some time i regret may be i didnt love him as b4 may be there is now millions of walls between us but i think thats better for kids he also regret he change but there is many things between us we are very good now but as i told u it build many walls between us

zoro

A man who hit his wife or any female is not real man, he is weak.

Rodiii..

i liked dryest flame's answer so much.. she's been to it..
80% of the answerer girls said they would hit him back... i say, in your dreams..
cause simply if he hits you that means that he is in a hysterical shape and you just cant hit him.. its like trying to hit a speeding car!!

if that happened to me, simply i will leave him..
cause hitting and cheating is unforgivable to me...

iman(mooney )is brincizza

As Noha said,i don't want my husband to be abusive this is one of the things im gonna ask a guy if he asks to marry me someday..if hes abusive,im sorry...i don't like a guy hitting aaaaany girl.
unless he has a actual smart true reason to okay but cause he feels like it,no...he better not feel like hes a "MAN" if he thinks hitting a woman will make him feel manly my dad in the begining of my parents marriage used to abuse my mom even when she was preg. and (7amdulilah) my mom actually is still here till this day.now my dad doesnt hit anyone (7amdulilah) but my moms american and most of the americans would have been left my dad if he abused them and my mom stuck with him till this day finally they worked things down and things calmed down,because my dad used to be jealous and over protective of my mom in there begining marriage. and i would never want to be going threw that in my future marriage.

carol_who shines

If he hits me ., He should remember to never again turn his back on me again .

Radical Vampire

Hit ME ?!!!
HE can't do so....
In islam it is prohibted.........
Plus the woman should be smart ...how to absorb his angers and his frustrations
but if after all he did it.....the first time ...i give an alert
At the second time if he did it....
I will go to ma dad's home.....no way to return till he apologize....
If i returned back and he did it the third time
Khalsa finito....No way to return back
Kello betemano
LOLZ
but the smart woman and sweet one...she will know how to avoid these things and suppress it
Catcha !!!!!!!!!!
=))

love love love

i will tell my opinion
its 7aram to hit the wife
if the husbnd is upset from his wife he can

1. not talk to her
2. sleep facing outward instead of facing your wife
3. sleep outside of the room
4.beat the living daylights outta her

7ala is fluffy ?

My reaction would be 'Bye bye husband'.
I warned him when we first met that if he ever hit me, that would be it. No matter how much i loved him i just would not put up with being hit, because if they do it once, they will do it again.
I know i'm not easy to live with, we all have our faults, & i did once push him a bit too far, but i was trying to sort something really important out for us; anyway he looked at me, leaned over me & then turned & ran out the door. He said later that he really wanted to at the time, but still had the sense to leave, thank goodness.
A partner i was with some years ago did hit me, & he frightened the life out of me, i had to leave. He kept finding me wherever i went, it was a lot scary, never again.
I'm lucky i have a good man.

Eman G (awayyyyyyy)

ya lahwyyyyyyyyyyy
I'll kick his *** out of the house.

warpedhybrid

Hit his *** right back!

Arabian Dune

To duck?? and try to evade the blow??

NakedRei

Knee him in the balls, then when he's hunched over in pain, kick him in the face!

kryp2nyte

real talk girl we would be both going to jail i would have to cut that fool, i am no mans b*^$#@ for no man to put his hands on me, i would be in shocked an speaking for my self, instant reflex i would of took everything in the house an through it at him would be trying to kill him i can and will not allow any man to put his hands on me. i would have been that crazy B*&^%$,.

or you can tell the fool to leave the house until you regroup, and the next time he would put his on you tell him that you will lock him up with out a problem, u do not have to put up with that from your own husband.

I<3LA

i'd hit back then run away and never come back.

Breezy

well, after i picked myself up off the ground.
i would 1st call the ambulance for him
2nd figure out if he's stupid enuff to try and keep fighting
then i would pistol whip him with my .45

samstonedredlock

chop his arms off.

lil' miss attitude

talakni

Bent Masr

I'll just hit back and then kick him out of the house because this is one thing that i won't let any guy or even my husband (when i get married) do.

bubba's mom

DIVORCE after HE regained consciousness!

My husband knows that I think Elena Bobbit's only mistake was throwing "it" out where someone could find it to sew it back on! I would NEVER tolerate someone hitting me!

samy n

it is the best chance to make him under many laws of mother suzan,to make him hate the moment that he knowed me on

Necromancer of Egypt

i 'd kick his a**

Girly Girl

Hit him back to defend myself, leave him, & never come back

â™¥Sugar Bearâ™¥

Sue him for all he's worth. Which won't be much after I roll his car down hill into a tree and rip his clothes to shreds and throw his stereo out the window. But I will keep his dogs.

Moonrise

i hope this would never happen.
but if it did , i would hit him back , and turn him out of the house and my life !

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