Have you ever missed someone so much that it hurts so deeply yet being unable to do anything about it?

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babbers47

The person who answered your question first should be suspended for answer like that as he is no help whatsoever and to call you a name as well is idiotic and ignorant. I guess you are actually feeling this way and wanted to know that its not just you thats suffering. Well i can assure you that millions of people are probably feeling this way right now too. As they could be missing an ex partner or a partner who has ahd to go away or unfortunately like me, are missing family and friends who are no longer alive. If you are feeling that way, then i hope you feel better soon or find it easier to cope with soon. Take care.

Silva

Yes..My mom, she passed away on March 15th of this year.
Just a half hour ago I was going through some her laundry and I smelled the pillow cases and they had the "mommy smell"
I sat there smelling them, inhaling her scent. I sometimes feel like this feeling of loss will never go away. I miss her SO much.

Champagne 3 suspended again !

yes - when my husband died at the age of 35. We'd been together 10 years, i was 26. I thought i would die but life goes on.

Also lost my dad and nan that same year too

Bull's No 9

I greatly miss one of my best friends that emigrated 9 years ago, he was more of a brother to me than a friend, we email almost everyday but it will always feel like a big part of me died when he left, more so than when my brother and father died, we weren't very close the last 5 years before their demise.
Suppose I will be on the receiving end of more "gay" banter from MJ and his cronies for my answer but there is nothing gay about having close friends who can read you like a book.

Celine

Yes, and I still miss my fiance deeply. He was in a car accident and was in hospital for a few days and then he passed away. It hurts so much I can't even describe the feeling. And I will never forget him! To watch him die and not do anything about it made me feel that I was helpless.

Sydney Harbour

There are many days that I miss my family, especially my mother, but there is nothing that I can do about it yet. Soon, I hope to be able to bring her over here to live permanently.
It's all a matter of time and alot of patience.

louise r

Yes my dad he diedof bowel cancer 10 years ago

Skyli

Yes, right now I am hurting. Missing many people but there is nothing I can do.

sins

Yes, off course! Some people you just let out a sigh of relief when they leave, even if they have been the biggest part of your life for years.

Others.. they might have been a small part of your life time-wise, but they leave marks deeper than most. And when they are gone, it takes time to heal.

All part of life's up and downs. I hope that if you are, you will feel better soon.

AznBoyz

Yes I have and still am. However, learning to deal with it or control it is best. It's hard when the person you truly have feeling for is thousand and thousand miles away.

ROWAN S

yes, it's hard. best to try and distract, it can be easy if you really care about someone just to think of them, but it's better to go out and do your own thing. and keep trying to take your mind off it and then tell them how much you miss them and all the funny /nice things that happened to you that day. If your just far away there are ways now to seem closer, email, webcam, phone..

cheri

Yes and the song Some broken hearts never mend by Bobby Angel says it all

brainlady

My dad- when he died suddenly. I'm learning to cope- but he was my best friend too. I feel physically sick sometimes when I wish he was still here and realise I won't see him again. I just think that he would want me to carry one and be happy and it helps me get by.

tulip

yes

insane_mad_maniak

yes, i am currently in that situation and have been for about 2 years now.

Bianca

Yes,but if it's any help the feelings subsided over time but still comes back and hits me unexpectedly.

amsterdam

I thinki most of us have felt like that at some time

sebe

yes...I lost my dad and then my mom two months later....I miss my brothers and their families in South Africa every day....been over there in November and probably won't go back for another 5 years...it's really hard not seeing them for so long....

Away With The Fairies

Oh yes.

Lesley

Yes, my dad after he died, my ex after he left, it's not easy. strength, sister. x

imavirgo85

yeap he is libnany
his name is adnan

Tinkerbell

Yeah,am in that situation now have been for over a yr now and wil be for over another yr yet and it breaks my heart every single second of every single day xxx

Col

Yeah ;