How can a western raised woman make an Egyptian man happy?

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Dryest Flame

men are men and women are women in every where nothing up normal

sherif

u can't.we r psycho dominance loving walking creatures

Hope

Tarre, it's been so long xoxo, nice to see u again.

First things first, he chose YOU right, so i have to assume, it's you who makes him happy.... i think the rest would be how to get closer to each other and my answer would be, it's a combined effort, both of you should start trying to figure each other more.

I don't beleive that, for a marriage to work out the couple have to blend in together totally. "Differences", make things exciting, u look forward to yr partner's reaction from a new experience and he or she in turn adds new things to their likes and dislikes...... Other than that, take yr time to learn what he prefers in terms of food and atmosphere and hobbies, spice things up with yr take on his "norms", it would be fun but most importantly, "memorable".

Good memories make a good long solid marriage.

Mabrouk.

DaniFalalala

OMG! If your not making him happy, leave. The egytian men I know are very male dominant. Not cool in my book...but if your down for that, how bout emersing yourself in his culture. He'll appreciate it.

Sister Silky

gf its gonna be a long hard road.

btw...just to get one thing out of the way, many egyptian men are in their 20's and snagging way older women off the internet and stuff in order to make money in america and send it back home to the real wifey.(the economy over there is pretty horrible) hopefully this isnt ur situation.

anyway, they like women who dont talk too much and never say no. they like a woman who is a freak in the bed, but coveres her body up outside (they are insanely jealous creatures).

expect to be the mommy wife and sitter for this guy because they wont clean up after themselves, will make u work and not lift a finger to help.

egyptian men are basically as pig as a man can get so be careful.

there is a website called egyptsearch.com and its filled with women in this situation. go read some stories. its filled with women who married egyptian guys and a few of the women are having trouble keeping him faithful.

i was married to an egyptian from the ages of 18 to 28 and it was a nightmare. i was beaten a lot, even at 7 months pregnant he danced on my face in front of his aunt and granny, he cheated on me and had a baby behind my back (something normal for them as they can have 4 wives), he took my money and claimed he had none to pay the bills, then twice i was cleaning and found $5000 under the bed and then $10,000 in a cabinet. after he moved out i found a box of western union receipts in the attic where he was sending all our money to his parents and sisters in egypt...something that all do.

being married to this man i met many egyptian guys, even worked for them in their diners, and they all married amerocan women and they all drove them insane. they are the biggest womanizers and i have seen them cheat flirt and weven try with me even after i knew their wives.

they dont like to speak their mind and are quiet shady people.

i would seriously keep my eyes open because ut of all the egyptian/relationships i have seen aroudn me in the past 12 years, only a few were good...and those few were because the wife had converted to islam, and basically cowers to his every whim while hadning her cash over each week. as long as u give them everything they want, even if it hurts u, this will keep them happy. these woman have literally become brainwashed...

they take on arabic names (check out laila up top) the religion (now look at 4thestra, the blond haired girl shouting out allah swt..note these 2 girls are western and say they are happy yet u see they changed their names and religion according to HIS culture), everything....these men do best with meeker weaker women who leave their lives behind and become an egyptian woman for him. he will not change to please u but u must change to please him.

my ex left me, his 29 yr old wife, for a 500 pound 52 yr old hag because her house burnt down and he wanted her insurance check. she even told me, there are times she wants to leave him but then she says to herself, who else will have me?

i work in the bellydance biz now and have many many arabic friend, lebanese, palestinian, syrian, iraqi, u name it and they will all tell u (as they have told me ini many conversations) that egyptian men are the effing worst...all they care about is sex women and money. they lie all the time too and are basically the lowest class of the middle eastern world.

now when u have other arabs telling u this, then it must be true. i even have a handful of egyptian friends who say the same thing and refuse to live in egypt ever again. when u go there, its all gimme money gime gime gime.....and sons in america are expected to rear his family. when my ex moved here his family had nothing. now, they have a lavish flat, car, and lovely things with MY money!

like i said, the economy there is horrible...people are literally going hungry and there are no jobs. plus, a man cannot marry an egyptian girl unless he has dowry, and has set a house up with a car and furnishings for her and has gold to offer her at the wedding. thiese men cant do it, and so they flee to america but in the end, they go back. i also know a lot of egyptian men who marry women here and then go back home to visit without her and secretly marry an egyptian woman and have kids with her!

this happened to 2 people i know...one of them in my ex;s family

Popeye

I'm already happy.. marry me and you don't have to do anything

Sarah k(is all about simplicity)

be yourself, try to understand his culture and show that you like it and want to fit in. suprise him with your moves of a smart and prestiges woman. Listen to his problems, sometimes when you sit together you find that your problems are the same.

LivÃ¡n

Loving him, but what will he does for make me happy?..... ;) is funny when you find that your prince is fool and is not who you were thinking.

marlowe d

Get to know him. Like with any other man. Communicate. Peace. :)

TAREK

learn to cook Egyptian cuisine, have mutual respect, talk with him, and keep a good sexual life!

4thestraightpath

Make things in order. Allah SWT first. Then marriage. Then self. The rest will fall into place. Make him your world.Choose your battles. Happily married to an Egyptian for almost 3 years. InshaAllah many many more..

Kyle S

Well, communicate with him about what he wants.

But never do anything degrading or abusive to yourself if that (in a twisted way) would make him happy!

Aldonbonn

be loyal

SyLvEsTeR

a normal egyptian man likes to be king when he comes home. no arguments, dont mention ur wants and needs , choose the right time if u want to askk for anything, of course u should cook gr8 food, and do the dishes when u finish. lol ! also never ever raise ur voice over his, just make him feel peace when he comes home. but at last, take care, if hes not very conservative and strict in his religion, he very likely to marry another woman!!

Ayisha AKA Turkish Princess

I donno those marriages usually don't work.

Made of Honor

Do what he wants.
Love is not from where you are love but it is who you are.

Firefly

I am a Western raised woman and my Egyptian husband and I have been happily married now for almost 4 years. We have a child and another on the way. Things are difficult in the beginning, especially getting used to the cultural differences. As any marriage has its normal difficulties, a multicultural marriage has even MORE.

You must have a lot of patience for each other and be willing to accept a lot of things that sometimes just won't make sense to you. He must be willing to do the same. Example, as a Western woman we are often direct, we say what we want or think, whereas in his culture, a girl doing this (and sometimes anyone doing this) is considered to be rude. While it might seem perfectly respectful and normal to you, to HIM it could appear to be harsh and inconsiderate. You must be willing to say 'ok, what just happened, what did you THINK I meant by this, let me tell you what I really meant'....and go from there.

It will take time but if you have respect and a basic love for each other you can work through the issues in your marriage. I would HIGHLY recommend living in his culture for a while to learn more about how and why they do what they do. That is a great start.
Best of luck.

english rosethorn

Offer him the chance to get back to your country and live there. The men who mix with foreign women are looking for another passport.

lets have fun

try to be more egyptian
like do all the house work
surprise him

Beetlejuice

Put on a black sheet and burn some incense.

tod w

carefully

jacqueline4481

Toys! Lots of toys!

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