How do you know when to trust people?

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Siva Kumar

People whose speech is not liked or enjoyed by you, but still you feel that they say it for your welfare are the people worth trusting..
you need not even trust back people who trust you, but make sure that their trust on you is justified

Eman G (awayyyyyyy)

I don't trust people quickly and i don't know if am right or wrong moreover if i trust someone then its not 100%.
I only trust Allah then my parents & brother.

FraSpa

Anybody who knows me know that it takes a long time for me to trust, LOL. I only trust my wonderful mother and my wonderful 4 older brothers 100%. Anybody else, it takes me awhile to build trust with them, especially to 100%, which I've only had that with one other person besides my mother and brothers.

There's not a designated time to trusting somebody. It varies. There are people who I can sense immediately that they're not trustworthy and I'm usually right. There are people who it may take just a few conversations to trust them. With others, it may take a few months. It depends on how well you can read that person. Sometimes, there are people who you entrust them just about certain subjects. Then there are those who you thought were trustworthy, but showed they were not. There are certain signs to see if someone is trustworthy, such as, if they reveal other people's secrets and observing how they treat others because it may be a reflection on how they may treat you.

It's just a matter of praying and trusting in God to send trustworthy people & to follow your feelings about the person.

I AM DIFFRENT . . .

i used to trust people ...but now ... i cant trust any

the last one i trusted was my best friend for 8 years

guess what ... he didnt deserve that trust

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if you want to take your chances ... then wait untill you see his reaction in a situation where you can figure out if he can be trusted

usually dont trust people .. who talks alot about other people

people who tell you others secrets ... and claming that he says that because he trusts you ...

zenda

I don't trust people easily, I need a lot of time to tell them my secrets plus i lose trust easily too.I have a friend (close one) i was hanging out with him and told me someone told him a secret and he want to tell me but he told me keep it secret so, i decided to not trust him because i felt he can't keep secrets.
If someone trust me, it is not must i trust him because i depends on the character and the personality.
And usually people take 3-4 months to trust each other.

samy n

from thir doing

rnwallace07

The longer you know someone and they know you, there will be a time come when either of you will need to trust the other. It is hard to pinpoint a definite time because of the differences in people. Listen to what the other person says and does. Have there been any lies? Have you met their family members? Be cautious when first extending trust - you can do it for little things. If it is favorable, then it can build up more and more until there is complete trust in each other. Honesty and communication are the two main ingredients of trust.

Juliet(still waiting hahahah)

it takes alot of time to trust people and it depends on the persons himself

Egyptian Pharaoh Rossoneri 4ever

When I know them well .

Fatima

You don't trust or mistrust people; you accept them from who they are...human beings.

Aizen Saske

I trust nobody, except Allah. I always second guess people, and their intentions. If someone is nice to you, they want something from you, and if they don't care about you, it means you have nothing to offer them.

Mohab

Peacefully salute
Really that's a good Q.
Prophet Muhammad PB-UH said: Ù„ÙƒÙ„ Ù‚Ø§Ø¯Ù… Ø¯Ù‡Ø´Ø©
For every first meeting like mysterious every one feels.
& he advised us to save our humanity by not losing the honesty & he predicted the time that trusted people will be tyrannized & who say the wrong will be heard like killers of the prophets whom settled in Palestine & try to name them selves as prophet Israel....more like---all politics---.

You know the right Arabian when he says "I'll do" that's a disaster & shame to renege his promise.
For sure we are not true Arab.
& yes, like bad west says may "we are terrorists"
Some will believe & some not believe my words.
May I'm true & may not but
Muslim is smart & high knowledge so you can trust some one after you see his face like Prophet Muhammad PB-UH as Jews & Christians said; if any one unconvinced so enough that past Jews & Christians witnessed.

But as example the central security forces when they be loyal for their boss that foolishness, where is his mind to beat people like that riffraff or rabble way.
He hurts his society may his family.
Thanks a lot
Mohab Muhammad

r0csteez.

Well, In my opinion.. it takes awhile. You can't trust someone really quickly. Ya know? It's hard to trust someone. I know it is for me. You should really get to know the person first. And if someone really trusts you, not necessarily you should trust them back. Just because they trust you doesn't mean you have to. But, if you do want to trust them.. you should really really get to know the person. You should know how they act and if they would actually be there for you. =)

Jenny1256

If they tell the truth and always trust you then you should trust them back

dj_sakberg

Trust no one, Mr. Mulder.

Kevyn

If you know a friend that you don't know a lot about, or if you do, try to know them a little better. If you want to see if you can trust them, try giving them a test. Don't tell them that you don't trust them with some of your stuff, because they will get offended. Just give them a small test to take care of a small object. For example, if you have a pet, tell them you want he/her to take care of your pet for some time. Try to see if you can go out & play or hang out with some friends. When you come back, check that everything is place since you left. If everything was fine then that means you can trust them.

tbs

depends how much you hang out with them and if they are honest.
mmmm 3 or 4 weeks

Stephanie

It takes a lot for me to compleatly trust someone. I know that I can not trust many people. There is only one person outside of my family that I can trust. I know I can trust him becuase he has proved to me more than once that I can.

ftard789

i personally take a long time 2 trust some1, somethin that helped me is as soon as they start trusting me with their personal secrets, its wen u can start trusting them, also, u shud look at their past, to test how reliable the person is. I know doin all that is over thinking it, but, u dn't wnna tell ur secrets to someone not worth trusting, cuz then u might find ur self stuck

james e

trust only your family...

Sarah

I take my time trusting people,
and I don't really trust anyone 100%
I am really good at reading people.
I think it depends on how trusting each person is,
to determine how long it takes for both of them to trust each other.
I don't think you should just automatically trust someone just because they trust you. I think you should take your time trusting them.

Sijo M

It is up to each person. Trust is really made by long term dealings.

Mary M

Well, once you can be able to talk to that person and react to the person well, it's easier to interact with them. Once you have that feeling with her/him then that's when you should[you don't need to] trust them.

jace m

when i can tell them a secret

wvu101

I don't know how everyone else feels about this, but here's how I do the trust system. My deal on trust is this: I believe that if I have got to know someone and I consider them on good friend that I go out with level, then I trust them. If they should do anything to defy my trust, then I no longer consider them trustworthy. I usually never trust people again if they tend to break the trust bond. Some people that have a history are hard to trust, but I tend to usually not judge people based on their past, I believe in giving everyone a chance.
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hope that helps!

Sunny

I don't trust people easily, I need a lot of time to tell them my secrets plus i lose trust easily too.
Well, In my opinion.. it takes awhile. You can't trust someone really quickly. Ya know? It's hard to trust someone. I know it is for me. You should really get to know the person first. And if someone really trusts you, not necessarily you should trust them back. Just because they trust you doesn't mean you have to. But, if you do want to trust them.. you should really really get to know the person. You should know how they act and if they would actually be there for you.

It takes around 5-6 months to understand and trust someone.

yanez

It takes time. If you think sum1 deserve your trust then try to trust them back.

tinydancer

When you don't have to wonder when to trust them ;)

ËšBenn_

(8) don't trust a hoe, never trust a hoe, won't trust a hoe that won't trust me.

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