How u feel and react when someone criticize you ?

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desperado 5

it depends from who and if its to build me or just to let me feel bad,,,at all it depends

Sahar

i think about what was said, if it's true and they do have a point, i try to change to the better, or the least apologize, if they have misunderstood or misjudged me, i explain myself

malroymck

Anger at first, but then I have to look at things from their perspective, and see how I can improve

i fart silently in their general direction.. then if it stinks.. i glare at them and say "well, you don't have to be rude when you're being a jerk!"

and wander away...

pinkyismygirlfriendniluvhur

some random fool?

and 90% of the time they are the only ones who would criticize

then I would not care

yahooligan

depends on the situation, i am very sensitive, so i usually cry, sometimes i get very angry & lash out

Maro's mom

depends on the intentions of the person whom do

Joey T

Laugh it off.

I feel a little self-conscious about it, but if you can't allow another person to have a different opinion about you, then it'll just destroy you inside.

LacyLove

I get really mad and feel worthless.

Then I usually feel just like hitting them.

Then I cry.

Then I hit them again.

relator hallas

i give him a big smile it burns him believe me.

telluwat

i have learned there is positive and negative criticizm

if someone tells me my hair looks nice then laughs, yea I get mad. or hurt depending on if i like my hair.

if someone sits me down and tells me that my clothes or attitutde needa adjusting and they are hoping to help in that department, then I feel appreciative but I would need to know the basis of their opinion.

it really borders on who is telling me and what they are creticizing me for.

and my mood.

Aya88

Usually my cheecks turn to be red, and I feel really hot as if someone has poured hot water on me!
Sometimes I act cool, and other times I defend myself.. But, the result is that I always cry when I get to be alone/when they leave...
Thatâ€™s the disadvantage of being so sensetive...

sk8a_hata

take it with some salt and learn from it

p.s. if they criticize you out of anger it's not criticism just anger

Jay-d

Hi, am likely to feel very sad i would advice you ignore them

from jc

sani

i wanna hit them

fatbrat64

I always take it personally! I wish I didn't, but I really don't think anybody likes to be put down. It is hard to not criticize them back, but I step back realize after looking at them they have no room to talk.

Luna

For me it depends on the person. If it's a friend a feel slightly angry and ignore them for a long while, even if they call me everyday. My siblings, I retort back and usually send them crying to there rooms.

Danny42378

I don't let it bother me.

I usually feel better then anyway, since the someone is out cold.

fukingruvin76118

If it is constructive criticism then I thank them for the help, it is not them I give them a verbal beating for being a d*ck!

lonewolf

justonpc, At first I feel bad but then I think to myself, well I"m alright just consider the source !

Frances A

i get real anrgy and dont let go of it 4 ages....
but i over react at every little thing.

muchioooooooo

for what?????instead of that u shud ask urself what will others react when u do the same..if all ppl do this..damn sure this earth is worthly better place to live on instead of mars..keep it cool,maitain ur composure,ignorinf is the best....if u react the offender will surely gain somthing out of you..dont make them feel that their deeds are worthy...k?

zanthus

remember this. Noone has the ability to control your emotions except YOU. If someone insults you, just waive it off. They are just trying to get a reaction, and if you DO react, they win !!

mwa

If they are saying it nicely as a helpful hint, than I will listen.

If they are attacking me, I listen quietly and say 'you are entitled to your opinion' and I refuse to argue over it.

If they are attacking to an extreme point, than I will hang up the phone or walk away.

holy crap, its the cupcake!!!!

i just ingnore them, or criticize them back, or just fight them with my homies when i get a chance , sometime, i rob in the night or when i ever get a chance.

DrIG

It depends on how they do it and who does it. Criticism that is meant to improve or change you is great. Criticism that is meant to embarrass or make you feel badly is terrible.

cometlady89

if its constructive i take it to heart.if its not i just brush it off.

Lance F

It depends on their intention. If they do it just to annoy me I point out I'll destroy you. If it's out of care or concern or meant to help me I take it in stride.

EssentialOfficeSuplies123

Try not to be bothered turn round and say ive done my best sooooo.....

RASSBERRY WHATEVER!

Si-Lynn

i obviously dont feel good about it, but i brush it off easily thinking that its not me, its them who have their own personal issues and they rather pick on somebody than confront their own insecurities.

spicy n

i get defensive thats cause thts what i got living at home and i had to constantly defend myself.

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