perfectlybaked
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Not insulted, but hurt.
I wouldn't suspect anything other than ulterior motives, to that move.
If I'm not enough advice, I'm probably not enough romantically, so I wouldn't get it if my girl "needed" advice from another man, unless it were a professional. |
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stig
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In my opinion, & I am not a jealous type, my woman having contact with a former partner is unacceptable. It's a real slippery slope, & it could easily change from just asking for advice to meeting for coffee, to a dinner date, etc. We are only human & imperfect by nature. |
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Tsepo
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What would they think about me? yes i would feel insulted and if you did it the second time i would leave you. |
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Ash A
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I am a female but if so YES, you just dont do that... |
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Alex Johnson
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yes thats dumb |
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thexfilez
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yes |
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Et3rn4l
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depends. If I could have helped you I would feel insulted, if the problem was out of my skill I wouldn't mind. |
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Linn
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I could.But even if I was not the jealous type, it is wiser if you do not get so attached with this other man. I mean do not hang around so much next to him. Physical contacts do make people become closer and before you know it, you ll be closer to him than to your own man. Ask your daughter or sister or anyone girl you can relate with or a son is OK too, as long as they are adult, to accompany you when you need to be around that man asking for help. Do not spen over 5 hours in a week alone with him. |
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Sins
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Definitely. Especially from the ex.
But if it is a trusted friend or family member that your guy is comfortable with, then I would guess it will be ok to ask for help. All about the ego. ;-) |
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Yumiko T
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sometimes I seek help achieving orgasm from your sister, since you are my wife, do you mind? |
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Joppie
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Yes for sure
Cause id er you don't, trust me or don't believe in me. If you need a different opinion go together |
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The Blue bull
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It all depends on the situation. If the problem does not involve your man, then I will if you have not consulted with me first. It will not be wrong seeking help from another man or your ex if you are friends. That is why friends are there for. I know there are certain issues which can not be discussed with your partner for valid reasons and I am sure your man will be big enough to understand that. |
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Shady Maksimous
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i would feel insulted unless it your ex was REALLY your last option then i would take that into consideration!! |
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unreal hero
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Depends on what you are seeking help for. If it's something that I could have helped you with, I would feel pretty upset that you didn't come to me first.
If it's something that I wouldn't be able to do for you, then it's fine - so long as it's not an ex though! I think a lot of guys wouldn't like it if you went to an ex for help. |
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Teardrop
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im a female but if i can help with the problem but u ask 4 another person than yes i'lll definatly feel insulted , put it this way if that boy cares about u than he'll feel more jelous than insulted |
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.....as long as the ex doesn't expect attention thereafter, I won't be insulted....(but why do I have to answer this one?) |
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Blouspook
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Not at all. I would accept that you know you can get the help you need from the other guy and for some reason or the other, not necessarily from me. I would be thankful if he could help you. |
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cheri
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If it is something your man can't do or just end up not doing, i would say no, but if he can actually do it on his own then yes he would feel insulted |
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rahul
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no, if u r goig to do a good job with him |
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emmybob3
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it depends on what you need help with. some boyfriends aren't bothered at all by exes, especially when their girlfriend was with them a long time ago. i am best friends with one of my exes and my boyfriends just had to accept that. he helps me with all of my problems but i no longer view him as my ex anymore, just my friend.
your boyfriend will probably feel threatened and insecure but do your best to reassure him that it's HIM that you want, not your ex. |
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