eve
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well i think that the what she did before being with u is none of ur business but she have to be honest,it's wrong to lie,but sometimes people might lie so that not to hurt the ones they love,anyway forgiving such a lie depends on how deep ur relation is |
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Ranjeet Kumar
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I will also tell her that i also lied about my virginity... |
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JOSH
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I dislike liars, thats why i will be clear with that person that i will be with , so she will be clear with me and i will so with her, no need to lie about anything between couples to be in a win win situation loves and trust are the best |
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mintymoon
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leave it. life is too short for mere quibbles. |
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Jovy T
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What will you do? |
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Kate
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I don't think being a virgin is important as long as she will be faithful to you from the time you met |
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Roge` C
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Well, nowadays you can't really expect the one you love and want to mary to be virgin. What is important though is the fact that one lie rearly goes on its own. One lie brings more lies to cover it up and a deep and sincere relationship cannot be build on false fountains. Go to the root of the problem and if you can't solve it I'm afraid you will not be happy in that relationship. |
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she
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Of course this is a serious matter. You have the right to forgive her or not to. In either case you should be mature about it. If you forgive her you should not bring up the issue when you fight, if you don't forgive her she has a right of privacy of this matter. In other words, you shouldn't go around telling anyone anything about this matter.
Remember that when she told you it was because she felt horrible about what she did. It took her alot of courage to tell you this and she knows that you'll be mad at her but she believes that deep inside you there is forgiveness.
She must loves you so much that she brought up a topic that was forgotten but she couldn't keep it from you.
It's up to you to do what you want but have mercy in your heart. |
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Don H
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I would laugh and say that's nice honey, would you like to go out for ice cream.
I have a bit of trouble understanding a thought system that this would matter in.
Love and blessings Don |
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Øلاَمبرا hallambra
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I dont think to be a virgin would change the feelings if both love each other. That was something happened b4 you meet her...so if you love her have to accept her as she arrived to you. |
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jack daniels
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Once a liar always a liar, if she had been honest up front no problem love conquers all, but to start a relationship based on a lie , the trust breaksdown and the future becomes a living hell. |
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ABANDONED
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her not being a virgin is not the problem, but the lying part is. |
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KG
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Life is short.....and you only get it once so forget it........ |
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LANSANA K
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send her to the doctor for new make over |
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lord
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I agree with eve. just wana add one thing.
its not about her premartial sex, its about the lie, and the fact she has doubts about my reactions concerning such an issue ( which means she did not really know me!).
and donot wana brag about it, whether sewed or not, i can tell, if its the first time or not lol.( guys ego thingi ha?!) |
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Kalooka
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kill the doctor who "sewed" her |
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