Is it true moroccan men would do anything to leave their country?

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Scent of a Man

Dear Humanty,
One truth you must know is wherever you go you can find the bad and the good Im talking about men here.Not all Moroccan men are users and scammers,Im Moroccan flesh and blood,Im married with a wonderful German woman,we are living in Morocco and we are happy,heaven isnt in Europe or anywhere,heaven is above,pls dont listen to some Moroccans here like the one named (Me) and (Muslimah Moroccan Girl),they have got the habit of freaking out people over here.Follow your instinct,follow your heart,no one can better know him but you.
Good luck mate.

Riyen's Mom

lol, my husband is moroccan and I think he'd do just about anything to be in Morocco right now.

I think if you are questioning it, you shouldn't go through with it. If you don't feel like you know the man well enough or feel like he's to good to be true for you, then make him wait until you are ready. If he waits, he's for real, if he is pressuring you then walk away.

There are a lot of men out there, not just moroccan, that will do anything for a green card, just use your brain and trust your instincts.

Sassafrass

There are men like that in from tons of different countries but NOT all of them obviously!!!

Like Sarah said, ignore ME he *is* a self hating Moroccan. Many Moroccan men do seem to "rush" into getting married compared with guys here in the US because Muslims aren't even supposed to date so often it may seem rushed but you have to look at things in context. If the guy is waiting for you to finish school that could be a very good sign. If you are broke and he STILL wants to marry you that could be an even better sign. LOL

As for what Sarah S said it is quite normal when people marry people from other cultures they may take on parts of that culture. Some people do it far too much and end up losing themselves at the same time. I don't find it quite as funny or annoying as SarahT but maybe that's because my parents are from different cultures and they both took on aspects of each other's culture. That's ONLY NORMAL, we live in a diverse society - if you are in a multicultural marriage you are both going to take on things from each other's culture. I still don't get what Sarah S means about women dressing like Arabs....if these women are Muslim then maybe just maybe they are dressing like Muslims. I can easily look at many Moroccans and say they dress like Americans but that's just ridiculous. About Music and other things - it may seem odd but there are plenty of ppl all around the world that listen to music in English and for some reason that is acceptable but for somebody to actually appreciate Arab music (or any other kind) it is odd...maybe the girl actually likes it - in fact, maybe she liked it before she met the Arab she ended up marrying. I know this to be the case in not only my situation but in several other women's lives. I *have* seen women go overboard though, don't get me wrong but I can also say this seems to mostly bother people that are overly ethonocentric and probably shouldn't marry people from another culture in the first place. LOL

reardwen

Tell him you'll only marry him if you can move to Morocco to live.

Casablanca

I would advice you to go live with him at least a year and open your eyes widely by that time you will know what type of person he is

peace

It is a tough one honey..... i dated a moroccan guy (im english) but i was lucky because he lived in spain and had lived there since he was 9 and had no desire to leave, so i knew he wasnt trying to get a visa..... but he did tell me that other moroccan men (from morocco) are desperate to get out of morocco and do so by tricking western women into marriage..... i know a few women who this has happened to..... if you want any further advice, dont hesitate to contact me :)

zuleha-in rebellion

There is no easy answer to this question...the bottom line is,apply the same standards to this relationship that you would apply to any other.

Look for red flags-does he talk to other women a lot? Ask you for money? Just use your common sense.

â™¥ terry g â™¥

Some are like that but many are not. My husband is here in the US with me and we both hate it. People said when we met that he was using me for a green card, so I moved and lived there for 6 months. I loved it and absolutely hated returning to the US. We will tolerate it here for a few years, but plan to raise our children in Morocco.

click2check

i think this guy loves you and he wants real marriage
u said he went to france for work
only those who cant travel will seek marriage to run away
but if he can travel he can meet other women and marry them
i also think that true love is clear
you have to feel it with your heart and brain
just take ur time and you gonna know what he wants
good luck

You met the guy only in the summer and already you want to marry him? lol yeah hes using you. And you should have more self respect. You need to work on your self esteem if you marry the first guy who proposes, espicially one who is obviously just out for a visa and will leave you once he is legally safe to divorce you.

And ignore the women on here who are not Moroccan. They have given horrible advise to women in your situation who ended up back on this board usualy a year after there first posting, saying how they were dumped

tystie7743

my answer
i am married to a moroccan man and i'm american. the thing is it is very hard for them to come to the usa on their own. it is easier to go to europe and most of them want to go there if they want to leave. a lot of them do not want to leave if they have a stable family and if they have education. if they do not have education they a lot of times want to go to europe, holland, belgium, france or spain. there, it is better to get a job and they make more money to send home to the family. it depends how you met this guy and how well you know him and how often you talk. do not rush into marriage. tell him you want to live in morocco and be prepared to do it. i spent five weeks there and cant wait to go back. it is a culture shock for sure but its worth it. if he is religious he will want to raise the kids muslim and it is much much easier to raise them in an islam country. go there and meet his friends and family, spend many weeks there and you will see his true feelings. if you have doubt then its probably for a reason. everyone told me mine wants a green card but he doesnt want to live in the usa. sometimes they are scared of muslim hating countries and its a little easier for them in europe. of course there are people who want to leave the country.....just use your judgement. i have no doubt at all that mine did not want to come to the usa and would prefer to stay in morocco if he found a good job or go to europe to be with his family. there is nothing here for him but me. just be careful and wise and make sure you have a man you trust completely and that he is patient and not rushing you to do something you are not sure of. be prepared to go live there. if your man is very poor and has no education and his family is very poor he may be looking to leave so you should be more careful but that does not mean he doesnt really love you. if you still are unsure just go live there, if you really love each other you will live anywhere. and yes the other lady is right, you will take on moroccan traits....its sort of had not to....there are just some things that you will find yourself doing without thinking about it

~~âˆžÂ§arah TâˆžÂ©~~

Sure SOME are like that. Trust your instincts. It is easy to tell when a guy (no matter where he is from) is a scammer. If something he says or does seems suspicious or questionable than QUESTION IT!!!
Really if you use your own senses you can know.

EDIT: ignore ppl like the user 'me', he is a self hating Moroccan. No one here gives advice on what to do, they usually only give you an example from what they actually live....that means who they associate themselves with. Obviously 'me' associates with losers.

And ROFL at Sarah S wannabe statement. She is soooo right. There are women who take on so many Moroccan traits when they marry a Moroccan (I am sure this happens when one marries into another culture too) and it is so strange to me. Converts to Islam often do this too as they confuse some things of the culture with the religion. I on the other hand resisted Moroccan things so much that for a time I missed out on some things that are just plain easier or nicer in life. There is a balance but stay yourself!

bouHAAAAmout

i am married to a moroccan and we live in america. but yes men do anything to get out. they use anything to get out i know that for fact because his cousin did it. how do i know he didn't do it to me his brother was a citizen and could have helped him. right now he hates it here because its not like home at all. we do want to move back to morocco to raise our kids in a muslim nation.

Muslimah (moroccan girl)

saalaams
hmmm toughy, depends how well you know him?
to be honest you cant make judgment on his true character until you spend tiem with him in his surroundings. he could say anything to you on the interenet. its easy to lie when not face to face.
and its truw many moroccan men who are poor and have no education do want a green card/visa.

teh one swho are wealthy and live comfortable dont ever leave unless its for buisness, if they ahve money they all say they would stay beucase you need money to leave in morocco.

only you can know if he is genuine, talk to his family, friends go to morocco and spend a few weeks in his environment. you will get you answer that way.
dont rush into it becuase marriage is not a joke. make sure he is serious adn doing it for the right reason.
i know so many morccan men who marry english girls for papers, sad thign is deep down these girls know it but dont want to confront it. :(
sigh.

good luck. there are nice moroccan men, when you find one find me one too. lol

masalaama

Sarah S

Don't listen to " ME" not all woman on here are dumped after 1 year! I dumped my moroccan after 7 years. But some woman are used for green cards I have seen it so much while i lived there. Some do not get used for papers but the majority do. I have also seen woman who marry moroccans turn into moroccan wannabe's. It is really scary when this happens, they start going by a fake arab name, and start dressing like an arab and they start putting arab music on their myspace pages and all this crap. I am thinking B*tch ur white just because ur with an arab does not mean you are one. FYI arabs laugh at woman who do this. So if it does work out do not turn into some freak wannabe moroccan it's just creepy.

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no that s not true
moroccan men don t do bad stuff like that
so just relax and marry him

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