Is that true .......... ?

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Ranoush(ppl thumbed me down:p)

i will tell sth even am not married yet but i think that what happens,
love does ''change'' after marriage,the rush that u feel when u meet ur love and all excitation fades,because now u are together and i say this alll the time..men feel that she's not going anywhere..have u seen the movie ''el sellem wel te3ban'' the scene where tare2 el telmisany is saying about his wife,that he doesn't love her much as he did but at the same time he can't live without her..
love does change,where affection and connection between the two of you takes a different road,whic is called_and i can't find an english word for it_el 3eshra...
this is what keeps old couples together,they are used to each other and became each other's world so they can't live each other...
this i think is stronger than love,that love we know..

Salloo7a

Absolutely NOT TRUE
Love increases after marriage and builds up with every good or bad occasion the two partners share together.

Ismaily Rules

E7temal kebeer bardo.

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I hope not!!

Ruby

very very very UNTRUE!!!!!

Love increases and increases after marriage if it was true love. The longer u stay married to that person u love, the more u feel that ur in love with him. At least that is my case and the case of a lot of people I know of. Marriage isn't THE END of a love story, it is just THE BEGINING!!

Deepali Naik

not always.. depends on both...

it depends ya Noony ;-)

Sadly, some would love to marry just for the sake of having "home and family", while others also want to get married only for the idea of having "sex" with the other partner but in a "legal unforbidden" way !! :-s

in both cases, Love will decrease...........for they both might have made the period of their engagement the most happiest period, not for the sake of being happy ever after........but only as a "mean" to reach their "goal", which will be one of the above (in most cases ) !!!

so, to keep this Love "up to date " :D...........you always have to be new, nice, sincere, passionate, kind, different, intelligent, exciting, physically fit.......etc, !! you have everday to be a "bride" to your husband, as well as he, he should be a " groom" to his wife !! ;-)

THE-GREEN-VISITOR

In some cases this happens, no one can deny.

The key?
Here it is!
Unless both spouses keen on the other's satisfaction and do their best to keep their life just as exciting and interesting as it was during the engagement period and during honey moon, then unfortunately, chances are that their happy common lifetime is just the honey moon, may be less!

Wise Heart

I think it has a different shape after marriage. It's also important if we try to understand what do you mean by Love. Love for someone may be a word, a touch or a flower. For some one else it may be a present, a well cooked dinner a certain look in the eye or may be a sense of care and tendency that can't be caught easily.

Sahar

i'll tell you my own feelings after 20 years of marriage..
love increases after marriage a great deal, especially if you started of with love and attraction,
what happens is, the excitement diminishes as when you touch hands you don't get that shiver or tingle, but you gain experience, at first their's the trill of the unknown and of exploring, discovering new grounds,
then you become a pro, you learn your pd by heart, and vice versa, and that for me is a zillion time nicer than the thrill of the first encounters
this said, you go through a great deal of good and difficult times, laughs and fights, but where there is love, love shall always remain, and with the overcoming of time and problems it grows tremendously
each time i hear my husband come home (the way he shuts the door behind him, or when i hear the sound of his keys etc) i am just as happy, excited, filled with great joy as the first day i had waited for him to come home
he's my everything

Gigi (i wish i could)

if it is love based on true love
and if it is marriage based on heart and mind

then love increases after marriage

Maria

For some yes those who cant handle responsibilities, and nope for those who are matured when they enter married life, those who are matured survive the so called 7 year itch ( its when the couple gets tired of each other)

حلاَمبرا hallambra

From my experience after more than 30 years of marriage, I have to say that love not always increase.
When I read some of the replies here, I have seen that many of you said "if love is true..." or " if love is real"......it will increase always.
Sorry but this is not that way.
Almost all the persons that had the freedom to make their own choice, have got married inlove with their wives/husbands.
But, love as everything in life, needs attention, needs to be "feed", and above all, not to have a routine .
Many couples think that bcoz got married, their lives will go for a way of roses. And that is not true.
The reallity of life teachs us that when kids come, many women , in spite of loving their husbands so much, will care more for the kids than for the husbands.... and husbands become jealous from their own kids, or just, some men, in their wish to give everything (material things) to their families, forget the romanticism and the little things that make love grows up.
There arent 2 couples equal.
Many times love decreases, not bcoz there was not love, but bcoz after marriage the couple doesnt care about to add "the salt and pepper" that all the relationships need.

Ahmed

i`m not married ,let me try then tell :P

Adham 1910

it doesn't decrease but it changed from the word"LOVE" to "BEING USED TO LIVE WITH THIS PERSON""3shra ya3ni"

touch from TX

Infatuation decreases, love is eternal and grows. Littlle things you learn about each other help bonding of souls.

Roush

Not true at all! bel 3aks love grows more and more and help both to confront whatever they face.
What decreases after marriage are emotion show off mesh aktar... No frequent compliments (specially after having babies w keda) the conditions prevent you from going out together like before (at least together) but love remains honey, just from time to time you should bring it up so we dont' kill it with our own hands :)

AHMAD FUAD Harun

Dear,

The answer is "NOT" true.

The longer the marriage is, the thicker the love is. The more children you have the greater the love is. Then later you're together you're as one piece. One half of the body is your husband and the other half is you yourself. To the husband, one half of the body is his wife and the other half is he himself.

maya

no love is not decreased infact responsibilities and tension of fulfilling them superpose it

Wish

Actually love desent decrease, but the responsibilities and proirities get changed. So we are not able to give enough time to it and this makes feel that it has decreased. But if there is enough understanding between two the life runs smooth.

✿Purple✿

No, it's not true. It actually grows :)

warpedhybrid

No! never thought i could love someone more even though i've found more irritating things about him over time =) i don't think people need to treat it as if you NEED to live with that person 24/7. I'd like to live across the street or as a neighbor to my husband b.c. we are complete opposites (he likes different decorations in the home and there's really nothing in common w/ us but our love for one another). When we lived close by one another it was more tolerable b.c. it's as if we were still dating. No need to see the ugly side of ppl. day in and day out. I like my music loud and dance around and beat the drums @ "strange" hours and he's a pretty typical person w/ a scheduled and predictable life. I'm also disorganized and he's a neat freak, but we've been married for 8 years and 3 kids later my love has definitely grown for him to points that i thought impossible. and i think it has helped that we've lived in different countries and cities at points of our marriage and dating time. always ended up back together. and it's sweet if someone shows up at your front door to take you out somewhere and spend time w/ you when you thought they'd be in another part of the world!!! =) just make marriage non predictable I say! just because you say, "I do" doesn't mean you have to act as if you're stuck in a submarine w/ your spouse for the rest of your lives. I just really value personal space and personal time. one day my husband will live across the creek from me and there will be a bridge that will either be up or down (when it's down it's a signal he can come over and spend time if it's up and uncrossable that means he can't!). I'm serious! and i do know of a successful marriage of a jcouple in berkeley who have been married for over 30 years and live across the street from one another.

Cutie Toty (Hakuna Matata)

OH MY GOD

NO OF COURSE NOT

someone

for some people it does.but it depends on the love

shabbirbhutta1950

It is not true all the time. In most cases love increases after marriage. That is not love that decreases.

I love ﷲ

sometimes it doest but sometimes it doesn't depends on the person

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