Judge me please...?

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Ruby

u did the right thing girl. and yes ur very brave indeed. I faced a similar situation twice before and wanted to take some actions but my husband stopped me right away and made a huge deal abt it after n said it is very unacceptable to do so hmmm. bas enty gada3a ;)

Kalooka

you acted normally. and girl i think you scored ;-)

~ Noha ~

enty sokkar wallahy ya emyyy x x
3ndk 7a2 3la fekra ... shatra :D
bs Ahmed el mafrood b2a howa elly yetkallem fel 7agat dy b3d keda,
i think when u r present with ur fiance in a place,it'd be better if he handles such situations ...3shan msh yez3al ya3ny that you dealt with it yourself keda...i think so ;)

I agree with the Clown
LOLz @ Arabian Dune :D

Ranoush(ppl thumbed me down:p)

tb3n u r right eman...i used to not comment on it and just pay and leave,but someone told me it's my right to do this,it has nothing to do with being cheap....
it take some courage from a girl to do so,my friends till now can not do it....

but yes u acted very normal,it's ur right and u claimed for it...

Arabian Dune

I think you did the right thing. they should know that they messed up and try to get it together.

Did you scare your fiance?? Thank god I'm on your side.

hasafer

you are the same like me , I would have asked for the supervisor of the whole shift and not paying for anything .
ur fiance is a very nice dude , but sometimes people like him get screwed by bad people , it's a good thing that he has you in his life .

yes very normal- well done to you and as we guessed Ahmed is very gentle and kind and didn't want to cause any embarrassment and he maybe thought perhaps someone else will pay for it- but at least now he knows that he truly has a cat that will protect its kittens (i.e a good mother to be ISA that will stand up for her rights of her herself & loved ones)

The Clown

"You want the truth ..... or his cousin.... "
If the truth........ then .. I can say that Ahmed is afraid to ask for his rights......... and that's important in your future life together ......... it's small thing now...... but maybe next time it isn't ......... you must sit and talk to him...... tell him that he must not be afraid from asking abt his rights.......... And you act normal ..... but if I was in your place ........ i will tell her to bring another one......... and next time ya eman....... make him choose better place...........Wish you and Ahmed Happy life together..............

7oda is searching for pure heart

Ezayek ya Eman
I think your mood in that time was upset cuz the place is not quite enough for u so u was waiting for any mistakes to give excuses to leave,
well your act not bad and u do not blame yourself for something does not change your world
but I think here in Egypt we need something good to appreciate the others as it was also the waiter mistake or your mistake either as the waiter is not deserve that cuz for something he does not mean for it
Do not mind just forget it
but next time when u be your fiancee do not care about food or drink just focus about your great relation between u and him and try to find things that will make u happy on your location cuz it is not easy to find the free time or great time
use it in good away it is an opportunity try to look for the good things in your situation and location and u will find it cuz u deserve it

Farah

I have to say you are absolutely right! I would have done the same too. Obviously Ahmad is too kind and gentle. Good thing you have the gus to act in situations like this.With time he will get used to the way things are done here in Egypt ISA and the burden won't all be on you alone.

He's lucky to have you in one way ... but in another way, I actually pity the poor guy! looooooooooooooool I7's 3aleky ya Emyyyyyyyyy ;)

Moonrise

you acted rightly.
i would have done the same thing if i found myself in a similar situation.
your fiancee was probably embarrassed bec you were with him.
men are like that . he feared that you would think he is stingy and doesnt want to pay, or that he is a trouble maker.
perhaps he is gentle and doesnt want to create a row.
but look at you, you handled the situation without being nervous .
you get many stars for your attitude.
when you get married, he will get stars , too.

Hope

Since i know a bit more about yr fiancee, i know that he is not used to the "Egyptian way" just yet, with time, he will understand that there is a certain carelessness in service & attitude almost everywhere in Egypt.

He will see this himself and later on, you ll be the one telling him to take it easy...........

Bass seebeek enty, bardou enta ya gameel wad eskandarani gada3.

Sahar

you acted as any one should act and bravo ya eman, ahmed should learn not to yendereb 3ala afah and kaman yekesef ye2ool aii :)

Amara

ya dear u acted normal...n i think ur fiance ahmad is kind by nature...u did right dat'' nt to pay''...n cafe owner should seriously do something abt it...n next time if u see anything in drink tell owner dat u will report food inspector n u will be gone frm here...best of luck..

Reggie

introvert/ extrovert,opposites get on really well and Ahmed is so gentle in nature and you are so strong and that is why you are so attracted and in love do not worry this is normal and neither of you change as your relationship works take care.

*Egypt*Ø¯ÙŠÙ†Ø§

girl ur fine!!! u look strong!!! keep on bein strong!!
Thats good and theres nothing wrong with it

Spicy Sally

yes you acted normally !!!!!!!!!!!!

Prince of Chaos (R.A.M.)

i would say the same thing if i was in the same situation....so i totally agree with him....you are hard,brave and to the point...lOl...good luck....i hope the best for both of you.

THE-GREEN-VISITOR

I agree with Adham, you should have asked him to do so, yet I think, with his objection for your action, he wouldn't do this as he is a nice dude, so you behaved normally and right.

wewantjustice

why u asking this question u have to ask how do u find my fiancee , he is a very gentil guy thats sur.

Rokaya

i think it was totally normal, no braveness there, just self confidence and knowledge of your rights.
can u marry someone who is less strong than you?
i could not.

norcalislam

I feel that when you enter into a bargain with someone, even if it is so simple as a glass of o.j. both sides must strive to uphold their end. You were willing to pay, but no one at your table ordered a fly! I don't blame you, and your husband seems like a kind, gentle guy. Mashallah.

7atem

I think that he's a wise guy, and you're a maganeeno.. you'll make a good couple

red.tullips

i would do the same thing.you go girl.

The Sunset(regainning points:D)

fen elcafe dah:P
i think u acted normally gidan but i think elmafrood konti t2oli lur fiance to do that

samy n

you are write in what you had done with the waiter as you pay you must have good service and you must do that any where but your ahmed must choose good places not hubhazzar one

dreamy

ahmed is a very gentel wise man try to keep him for ever

relator hallas

I won't forget about the taxi incident LOL, you are so brave :D

â™¥sweetyâ™¥

if i was in ur sitiuation i won't drink it akeed but i'll pay 4 it ur fiancee in right we must control our emotions
feh 7ad gameel awy 3amel lkolo thump down 3mla shakl 7elw bardo thnx 4 that :D:D

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