Just a question for Muslim men & women ..... an embarrassing one ... may be ??

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Reikominder

thx for ur question ya noha, i Tried many times , sometimes i succeed , sometimes i don't, But i wish i got married soon so i can stop those gaze.

Ed3oly ya gama3a fel ayam el moftaraga dey , rabena yerzo2oko be welad el 7alal we banat el 7alal , we yehdena we yehdeekom .

we 7asana 2lela temna3 balawey keteera

sharmel

I've spent time in Muslim countries, and I can assure you this isn't something that I've ever seen as a common practise. I never had the slightest observation of anybody being reluctant to look me straight in the face, walking down a street, or anywhere else.

Adham 1910

4 and in ramadan 1
EDIT: EL7A2I2A HYA 3 NOT 4 BUT I WISH TO BE 4

Sultan Shalfat the Adventurer

4

it is easier now more than ever where I live Alhamdulellah.

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Esoteric

Well I have to tell you the stare factor is really great here in Cairo. I look and I don't look with lust or being judgemental, I just wonder where ever are people going to and what they must face in life.

Only once did I look and met anothers gaze and it stirred emotions in me. Like they say love at first site. Thankfully it was in passing and its like a sweet love story that never happened.

I go on living and doing my daily things without concerning myself on every small detail. There are more important issues pressing on me at times. So I read alot to gain more knowledge and inspiration.

Weird Angel

i 2 and 3.

Kalooka

it depends!
if i like what i see then 1 (for a very short time, unnoticed, just to have an idea, i get embarrased if she caught me looking at her)
if i don't like what i see then 1 (to say Sub7an Allah, laho fe khalkeh sh2oon, kol foola msawesa we leeha kayal a3war)

Mom@do

Franckly, i have alwayes been keen on lowering my gaze but not anymore!, but i'd like to tell you that it really makes a difference like it helps you focus on other thoughts and you become less distracted .. thanks for reminding us perhaps i can return back to this attitude :)

Dr_B2

i absolutely do

4

honestly

Liebe ist Schmerz

yes ... as hard as i can ...

hamdulliah...........i'm number 4, but without the word "hard" hamdulliah :-)

whenever i see a guy that is good looking or even a girl, i say "mashaa Allah" , and see how Allah created beauty in people, and thank Him on making us beautiful.......... then forget about it :D

kim

I am 4

Most of the times I look at a lady it will be a look at a human being free of any other intentions, especially in my business.

In the street and common place I just look away from any lady.

I am living in a place where females are plenty, I am very careful to avoid gazing for immoral purposes, may Allah forgive me for any deviation.
We might cheat people but we cannot cheat on Alla, Ennama Al A3malo Binniyat and Allah is aware of what in our souls.

I hope that many of use will correct their actions and adhere to Islam instructions in light with your interesting and valuable question. Jazaki Allah 7'eir.

Ahmed

number 4...alhamdulellah.

Stevie

1,2,3,4,5 once i saw a fish alive. 6,7,8,9,10 then i let it go again

Hayz's Peach - أماندا & حسن

OK I'm not not Muslim, but my husband is and Ive been to several Muslim countries and have never had anyone to look away while walking down the street. They mostly stair like im an alien or something.....

gigi

bosy and 3ala 7azy en ana mesh bashoof welad 7elwa lama aroo7 el gam3a we ab2a ashoof welad keteer ab2a 2a2oolek ...but sure i will try not to gaze

ya rab yehdeena gamee3en

Ranoush(ppl thumbed me down:p)

4 alhamdulelah....that's why i don't like college in Ramadan..hehehe..
seriously...i do my best and i try to avoid the places where iw ill have a hard time lowering my gaze....and the fact that girls don't look at men like men look at women,but anyway i try not to look at another guy not to let the shaytan play swoop in

Far Away ( Still Lost)

we can all be number one if & ONLY IF
Girls stoped being stupid to imitate the western girls (non muslims) in their dressing style
ya banat etakoo Allah, how will boys & even Men will be able to lower trheir gaze if you didn't help them
I'm dreaming of a wolrd where all girls wear Muslim dresses & boys can't find any thing to look at.

Luv Rulz

4 and i try more and more !!!!

THE-GREEN-VISITOR

Yes, alhamdulilah I do and hope all Muslim women get more modest and Muslim men be more patient enough to do so. Actually this is one of the most critical issues now for Muslims.

mesho f

ksolaris

There's a Muslim community here in Manila, and this has never been the case. They're just like anyone else on the street, except the women use those lovely, colorful veils. As for the women in burqas, their eyes are veiled to begin with, so I don't think there's any need to avert their gaze, and they don't bow either.

I think you may be refering to a different sect. ^_^;;;

Ada Wong

thanks for adding me....:)
i want to tell you that when i walk in the street...i dont raise my sight at all...that my mother says that you appear so shy....and make people notice you....you know it has become a problem for me...that i walk looking almost all the time at the ground...lol

hasafer

I try

Wise Heart

I do and most of the time I succeed. I can say 97% of my trials succeed. Not only in Ramadan but I learned and trained myself starting from Ramadan long time ago.
Very good that you mentioned that also women are requested to do it too.
I ask ladies also to choose what to wear according to Islamic rules. Not transparent, not showing details and not tight.
I ask vieled and non vieled ladies to do that.

blue.dragon

I'm glad that someone addressed this important issue. Jazaki Allah Khairan. Not only should one lower their gaze in the street, mall, or public places, but also on the internet, TV, and basically anywhere, everywhere, and at all times.. Three years ago (when I was only 11), as I was coming out of the mosque during the last days of Ramadan, a young Muslim man was walking towards the mosque and as he walked he lowered his head and looked at the ground, he was wearing a white jilbaab and he was wearing the Saudi Arabian head thing (sorry I don't know what it's called), it was as if he were surrounded by light, there was a glow on his face and I still remember this beautiful sight till this day! It serves as a reminder to me to always lower my gaze, it is also a good modest action that one should always remember to do.

Salloo7a

My dear sister, I bet you posted this question after reciting some Qur'an. Well, I am guilty as charged but I try very hard to stop this behavior. Anyway, I look only at girls who expose themselves in a rude manner, but when it comes to girls wearing Hijab, that's a red line for me.

tal

It's the 20th century things are changing . God has given us eyes we see everything. Lowering ones gaze is becomming something of the past.

zoz

قاصدك يعني النظر وبص امتي ومبصش امتي وكده يعني؟
طبعا لا
او مش اوي يعني لما الاقي بنت مؤدبة ماشيه مدياهاش بالنظر وكده
لما تبقي مزه انا مجبر معنديش اختيار دي حاجه غير ارادية
بس في رمضان طبعا نادرا ما بيحصل كده
بس انتي ليه بتسالي اصلا هوانتي من هواه النظر
ثم هي فعلا للرجالة بس
يعني البنات حيبصوا علي ايه ؟
بلا نيله
انتوا الي عندكوا الجمال والطعامه ربنا يخليكوا لمصر

IM WEAK SISTER I LOOK AT WOMEN. FORGIVE ME.

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