People,I'm feelin so bad right now...can anyone say anything to make me feel better???

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Farah

Sweetie, I have read your questions posted in other sections here, so I think I know what you are going through. You are suffering from low self esteem now and guilt because of what you just underwent. Breakups are never easy, but you can't let it affect you like this. Believe me, you can't spend your life torturing yourself and waiting for acceptance from some guy who has apparently moved on. You have to do the same. I have no idea what happened or how you think you wronged him, but if you have expressed your true sorrow and apology and tried to right the wrong you did there is nothing more you can do. Don't humiliate yourself any further by pursuing a man who is no longer interested. You are worth much much more than that. You are a beautiful human being. It is not what is on the outside that matters, but it is what is inside that counts. What you just did for me, no matter how small you think it is, is very great to me and shows me what kind of human being you are. You are beautiful, worthy, valued and no doubt loved by many people. Believe me I already like you a great deal, and would have sent you a personal thank you message if you allowed it. I know what it is like to have such low self esteem. Believe me, it's strange but just till a few days ago I was like you, feeling unworthy and inferior. A dear friend helped me to see beyond my insecurities, and now I can confidently look in the mirror and tell myself outloud that I am beautiful both inside and out. You just have to believe it yourself, because no matter how many people told me that before it didn't really help till I believed it myself and said it to myself with confidence. There is no way you are going to really feel any better unless you feel better about yourself, learn to love yourself,and believe that you are a truly valuable and worthy human being loved by many people. Just read your own answer to this question. Remind yourself how you used to feel about yourself, and try to get that back again.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aq9JMN1ZRkD7pqeRJC1UBRDty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20070525055942AA2UyQy&show=7#profile-info-0PJPMydiaa

OK, on a lighter tone, just to joke a bit ... you'd better leave this question open till the eye doc you were asking about comes and answers it. He has a way of making you feel better about yourself! ;)

Gigi (i wish i could)

the problem is you dont have self confidence

sure you are loved

we sometimes be in a bad mood and after few minutes we find our selves good again

think life is coctail

DagNaggit limpuladerfy II

I hope you feel better! sometimes I feel the same way,and it hurts ! in reading your question,You are a nice and careing person! Peace

Pinka ......... i dont believe for a second that you are neither loved nor beautiful.

I wont believe it. Im sorry you are feeling bad, it makes me feel bad. We are given choices reason to breathe figure out what those reasons are and you have figured out life.

http://andi-inc.livejournal.com/

I hope you feel better soon. ((((((((hugs))))))))

Sage

You have a very lovely personality and you're appearance is equally beautiful. Or I guess because I've never seen you. But I do know that you are special and unique

candykisses58104

BEAUTY IS IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER!!!!!!!!!YOU CAN BE VERY BEAUTIFUL FROM WITHIN.ALWAYS REMEMBER BEAUTY IS AS BEAUTY DOES .

Love Me or Hate Me

dont feel bad pinka we still love you no matter wat remember we said that we are here for u and our shoulders are free for a friend to cry hope u feel better

relator hallas

Great, i think we should be friends then.

Hope

Hey Pinka sweetheart,

I was just signing off when i read yr question. OMG, first of all i just want you to know that this saddness will pass, nothing stays and you ll feel better isa.

Honey everybody is special and everybody counts and i am sure you do matter to some many people, if you cant find one then you matter to me. XOXO

You know what i am sooooo sure yr beautiful and sensitive and kind, something just tells me yr in a bad spot right now in yr life, when i would feel like you the only thing that would get me off this terrible mood is the knoweldge that this too will pass. Just go close yr eyes, say a silent prayer to God, and then go for a long walk, or listen to some music or maybe even watch a comedy series or film. Force yrself to laugh and have fun, in no time you'll forget yr troubles.

I ll say a small prayer for u my sweetness. take care :-)

MikeInRI

Love is an inside job young lady - when you start to love yourself you will find what you need and all the love will begin to come to you :-)!!!

Mena

I don't like answering such questions and just go
Why don't you PM me, yahoo ID is xman0802003
I am sure, I can be very helpful to you

KÃ¬mÃŸÂ£Â®LÂ¥

Jesus loves you & so do I!

ANGEL

You are special and loved and a very beautiful person--don't ever forget that!

Daraweesh rocks!=) aka Shankooty

God made u and He dont make junk- so ur gorgeous!!!=)
cheer up cutiee, and u like pink like me so ur cool=P

~mariam
member of da EGY family lols

The Sunset(regainning points:D)

Life is short, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile
AND HERE IS A STAR FOR U

look at pictures of ugly people and say haha im prettier than u haha....nah joke dnt do that ...thats evil......just remember that there is no one else like u ...u r unique and if u r egyptian well remember theres nothing better than that!!!! - sorry if ur not....but remember u r what no one else can be...and thats u

Nice

Happy new year, if you feel that bad please go to the holy book and read "Quran" or "The Bible" will feel the happiness you want, good luck.

warpedhybrid

you sound clinically depressed, but when things aren't going too well in life I try to avoid the things that depress me (maybe you should keep away from those who might be telling you those things; and if it's just you being so hard on yourself try being less judgemental and so harsh. even people on death row can't be so many bad things rolled into one human! and you're not there so you're not as bad as you think=)...keep in mind if something went awry ask yourself, "will this affect me in 50 years?"

and as for not feeling attractive you'll eventually meet that special someone. you will! I'm not attractive at all but my husband makes me feel that i am. so until that person comes along hang in there in the love department.

and as a worse case scenario, taking into consideration the horrible things in life others have to suffer and go through should cheer you up b.c. you're not subjected to their pain (hopefully not). I sometimes think of the amazing things orpans w/ aids have to go through and count my lucky stars.

ShivA EL DominiO

im sure we don't need to hear more but im sure too u can't be the worst person cuz i saw such a shity ppl u never like to meet ..so ,,whatever u did just make it right and about being loved if there's only 2 or 3 or even 1 think u r good ,,that;s enough to live with ..good luck and have a nice live that u make only with ur imagination and ur acts ,,

Moonrise

this is low self esteem.
perhaps you werent loved or admired when you were a little girl.
but now that you have grown up, you can make others love / admire/like you by being pleasant to them.
no one should feel bad this .
God has blessed us with many gifts.
we must appreciate what we have and reflect joy everywhere.
start with you name, Pinkie.
it 's a beautiful name that spreads the color of youth and beauty.
life is beautiful . enjoy it .

7atem

I need to hear more
talk.. it'll make you feel better to talk to someone

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