Should I get along with this feeling or should I fight it?

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Zoser

yes it is very normal sometimes, we always have this feeling when we can not face ourselves, not them, I know exactly what you mean...we tries to be away when we feel helpless and can not defend ourselves, why? because dealing with people generally in all situations carries challenges, even if there is no challenges,, but , if you have the feeling that you can not defend yourself, (even if you do not need) you would prefer (as safety measures) to be away of people...I can not tell you to be strong, as there are things out of our hand which gives us strength... I would say,, try just not to care that much,as things balance itself at the end ,,, just try,,

Bella

sometimes it's good to get away from people but not every day.

if you really could do that , I mean stop talking to family , friends & co-workers if you have a job then go for it , it might be helpful . I believe-on the contrary-that it would help you clear your mind & strenghthen your relationships so , if you really could do it , then go for it for a couple of days & you`ll feel like new.

:o)

Kalooka

i encourage that..sit with yourself for a while to straight things up..
just think objectively, and look at your situation from outside, as if you are someone else, to get a better judgment on things..

M&U

Sometimes yes, but if the feeling keeps haunting you then it could be depression. I think you should work with this feeling, try to channel it by writing things down, or drawing, try to find out what's causing this. Everybody needs privacy and people like to have sometime alone, but if the feeling keeps protruding and you can't do anything about it then I suggest you work with your feelings. Keep an eye on your dreams as well, they'll tell you a lot.

JB_Fan !

No way, if you want to be alone, go ahead. EVERYONE needs alone time.

christine m

Strong feeling and maybe a need. What better company to keep than your own.Time alone to feel and think without outside influence.You may need to be free of subtle stresses of being subjected to others thoughts and opinions and to cut the invisible umbilical cord at the end of that cell phone.To be still and enjoy the sound of your own thoughts.In the old sense of the word,privacy

dance babyy

go with it sometimes you need time to yourself

Ruby

yes go ahead and do that for a little while and see if u will be feeling any better uve got nothing to lose. A lot of times we need to be left alone to reconsider and think abt many things in our life without being disturbed or affected by anyone. good luck

Reikominder

I understand what you are feeling, but just want to say that keeping yourself alone is not good, we live this life with other people and we have to act and react in this life, we have to learn and teach , we have to be a good part in this life .

But also we need some calm , we need time to ourselves to relax and think and try to see what we need to continue our journey, and try to make a plan or even put our hands on our weak points to change it ,

Lets look at Prophet Mohamed , he was sitting alone thinking everyday in a calm place far from people and noise, and in the same time he was working and well known in his community and family ,

We need our private own time so we can be able to manage and organize our life.

Wish you the best always from my heart .

Actuargy

I used to face this problem, and to solve it I used to switch of my mobile for a day or 2 and to stop checking my work's email. This helps me to be better

Mr. X

Go with your instinct.

Henry T

Sometimes, you just need time by yourself. I would try to sever most contact for a weekend or so. ie, don't answer your cellphone, don't check emails, don't go to any parties, etc. If, after a weekend, you still have the same feeling, you should maybe try to take a small vacation by yourself to somewhere you really like. That should help.

Jenna

Sometimes you do need to be by yourself. Finding yourself can be a good thing and it is ok to be alone by yourself for a while. Just be sure that it is not actually depression which in some cases warrants medical attention. Finding yourself and being depressed are very different things and should be handled differently.
But personally I don't think the feeling is either negative or positive.

Hope

Ohhhhh yes everybody needs some ME time every once in a while. It is absolutely normal and even good for you.

dAnApIrAnIs

y is this in the egyptian section?

GElove

I went into that kind of phase without knowing it. I am spending mkore time with family, that I never saw when I was always out with my friends.

Lol I have done alot of shopping in the meantime but still text with my friends, maybe you can try that.

it's really awesome, not having to look my best everyday to impress people and I am concentrating on my academics in summerschool.

Toka

i think u can go with it

it's not a negative feeling at all

PersianBabe LOVEs a Saudiâ™¥â™¥

It is normal and do it if you wish;-)

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