Should a wife learn how to beat her husband to protect herself in case he becomes aggressive ?

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naserq22

that's bad
if it was should she learn how to fight to defend her self that may be cultural
but learn how to beat her husband that is cruel
It is not acceptable beating wife although it rarely happens but in case this happen i suppose it needs lots of thoughts ,its bad to believe a girl is learning how she could defend herself against husband
it good to learn how to be nice and kind ,gentle and smooth ,to learn how she would manage how to cook how to look after kids
how to to make him smile how to bring joy
how to keep his house honorable
"AN ta7fazahu fee 3irdihi wa malihi"
know when to speak and when no to
and in case she is graduated from such a school ,honoring him but he goes beating her that is a different story
i do not wish ever that she hit back or if she is trained better then she gives him the beat
awful idea

La She

no,it's time to seek divorce
@ noha:a wife beater is always a wife beater, once he did it he'll do it again and again, there's no use of returning back, and a wife should never leave her house, this "person-look-alike" may not even " ye3barha", she should call her parents to come home and then kick him out

but generally i think women should learn to protect themselves

~ Purple Essence ~

Now that's what I am talking about. And they ask me why did I sign in da Karate team. Of course honey, if she didn't protect herself, then who would. A wise decision would spare all dat.

cutegirl1986

First the home should be that of peace and where prayer and blessings come amongst. The home should not be that of the devil. I do understand that some men are brought up that way, seeing what they learned when they were younger. IF a husband does decide to put his hands on his wife, the wife should leave. No IFS, ANDS, OR BUTS about it.Because if a man hits you once, he will continue. As for taking self defense classes that should be mandatory because you never know when an attacker will attack. But if that attacker is your husband leave him for good and if he feels as if he wants to continue stalking you, do J-Lo on his tail and he will quit.

john2u

no body should have to learn anything,if a man beats his wife he should be locked up,if a woman beats her husband she should be locked up.the beatings wont be long stopping when there is a fear of being thrown into jail for a few days and for good mesure a fine.

priestess

yes, self defence, u may need it one day and have to protect yourself

Reikominder

emmm, hard question, not easy one, because also there are men (and vice versa) who beat their wives and the wives keep that inside them which is reflecting after that one their feelings and their kids, but also i dont think that the wife will wrestle her husband, lol, maybe the kids will bring popcorn and enjoy watching.

Seriously, Both husband and wife must be respectful to each other.

younis q

it is more wisdom that each wife learn how she can understand her husband and how she con make him happy and to let him love her.

Radical Vampire

ROFLOLZ
Welcome Purple Aphrodite .. i finished the Karate and Tawkendo ... and Ba all means am training for Self defense Whoeva Could or would attack me ...
Cuz dunno why men Feel as if they are free to do anything Including Attacking women
Look Pasha .. Legally and According to Islam,, It is prohibited to do so But come on if you gonna Do it .. am gonna defense .. No way to leave him do so to me ... but also everything has limits .. and we are not gonna fighting the whole life ... wether to accept it or not
D'accord ?!!!!!!

mesho f

yes they should do that,go ahead

â™¥Lovelyâ™¥ â™¥Diamondâ™¥

I think that the day he starts touching her aggressively, she should use another weapon, the Khol3!
She should never lower her self-esteem and debase herself by interacting in a violent way.
The marriage will never work. Once he hits her, he'll always do and the institution that is supposed to be based on love, understanding, and respect will lose all those corner stones and crumble.
So leaving "belma3rouf " is the best policy.

Tribal Angel

sure .. bring it on !!!!

=D

Venus

A woman should be wise enough not to marry or date a man who could ever think of hitting her (or any other woman).

To women in that kind of situation, in a relationship where a partner becomes aggressive (in any way), I could only give this advice: leave the loser for good.

Aldonbonn

sorry, but she needs LOTS of self defense courses so she can begin to defend her self from her husband

and a woman beating her wife will end the marriage

SBreC

if you have to learn how to protect yourself from your husband you shouldnt be marrying him . you should not have a little bit of a susp. he may hurt you.

samy n

do not beleive on that fatwa thy are empty men who said this ,thy have no real work so thy say that silly things you have only to laugh about thir empty minds

I Am Jack's Wasted Life

What?! An answer to violence is not/should not be violence!

A husband would be considered sinful if he beats his wife.. how would it be okay if the wife beats him too?

I dont know where you get those weird things from.. you should leave reference or atleast mention the names of whoever came up with that fatwa..

I say crap!

Kazarolla

hahhahahahahhahahahhahahahhahahahhahahah...

a man becomes agressive!! hahahhahaha

c'mon!! 60 million husband are getting beated every day by their wives ...

juliet

yes she should

Friend807

GO AHEAD

lady_aya_84

Are you under the impression that Arabic men attack their wives the whole time? Abuse is not the norm, abuse is the exception - and those stories make the news for Westerners to gasp at.

I honestly think EVERYONE deserves a slap now and then though. lol
Wouldn't you agree? :P

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