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beautiful mind

you are just feeling lonley where you need intimacy...

Do you have a healthy intimate relation ship with your family?.. i think that this is the most importnat question.. do you spend long times talking with your Mother? is she your friend? .... you have to feel secured emotionally..

try to write down things that makes you worry...and see how much control you have on them.. and wethier or not being able to change them or not? .. and feel comfortable about things that are out of your hands...

try to go out as much as you can... go walking.. go joggin in the club..

HOWEVER: feeling blue is not a reason for not studying.. because your hope in the future must be there whatever happens..

SO: if this has been the way you feel for the past 4-6 monthes, then ask for a sychatrist help.. be honest to yourself and dont let this depression develop into somthing worse in this young age you are... believe me that this could be worse when you go to college.. so face it now..

Abu Aya

A big mistake in your situation is to focus on your sadness and ignore the cause of it.
You're feeling sad because you need a true friend in your life.

So, you can forget about this sadness for sometime, and go fix the real problem.
So now, you need to cheer up. Be happy. Be optimistic. Be fresh.

Here is the solution to your problem:

But don't be angry at me.

Promise...

Ok?

You need to get married.

Go get yourself a husband. Yalla. Someone who loves you dearly. Ask your family and your friends to fix you up. A spouse will be your best friend and best supporter.

And all the depression will go away.

Please don't understand my answer in a wrong way. I want what is best for you. I used to feel like you, but then I got engaged. And there is something about this annoying girl that I got engaged to that makes me feel very comfortable, very complete and less inclined to kick and break things.

Marriage is the answer.

God bless.

Forgive me for my stupid cheerfulness. It's morning and I am feeling fine.

Aster

when I feel blue and sad with no specific reason, only tears can get me out of this mood, so i close my room and turn off the lights and start praying. I don't stop till i get all this heavy loads of sadness burst into tears.

have you read this book don't be sad, "la ta7zan" it's in arabic and i have the english translation but it's not as good as the arabic.

Toka

hey my dearest ,
i am so sorry for theses feelings , i know that it is so hard to say that u r fine and the truth that you are not , but what should your ffriends that you think they are fake do , you are saying that you are fine , tell them how do you really feel so they can help you , i told you before my dear that when you prison your feelings inside it will affects you plz don't hide your feelings and tell your friends that you really need help tell them your feelings and i am sure that you will find a shoulder to cry on . Smile please :)

Pinka

I've been through this and almost everyone did.
if u feel that black without any raisons then it's age :)
if not,then u need to talk to someone who can help u see things as they should be seen and not as u see them.
maybe u feel that u have no friends to talk to u.if so,then where r those who call themselves ur best friends???
so,if ur close friends can't really help u.
then,pick someone in ur life,someone u love and trust.even if u dont know well,tell him/her that u have many problems and that u need help.
and i guess,this person will open his heart and mind and ears to listen to u and will help u feel so much better.and maybe will be a close friend who deserves ur friendship.

mobydek

the previous answers is enough.

â™¥Lovelyâ™¥ â™¥Diamondâ™¥

It is a devastating experience.
I think you have to mix with new people and make new friends. Forget about the fake ones. You are probably more mature now then when you chose your old friends and you'll be able to make a better choice. Don't feel guilty and remember that they are the ones who left/cheated you first.

Adham 1910

check ur mail:)

A.S

Wow , Nesma like u r talking about a huge part of my life ,
what can I tell u exept talking to Allah , he is the only one who will be there when u need to talk , I so can feel u , and I always try to make things better by praying , crying & talking to Allah , u have no idea how amazing I feel after talking to him , it's not just words I'm saying but it's a real true feeling , try to get closer to him , u'll find ur way , and always remeber that alot of people r actually suffering like u, cause if u felt u r alone in that beleive me u'll feel much worse .

the one

don't worry once the summer vacation starts u'll be better

Silly Cow

Smile through the tears

Today you need your mask, put on your makeup, put on your smile.
'How are you today'? I'm OK, I'm fine,as they walk on, OK smile.

No-one knows what I'm feeling inside, take a deep breath as your stomach does a flip.
Just grit your teeth making sure your smile doesn't slip.

Got to go shopping, must feed the kids, there at school, your on your own.
Shaking and sweating, to many people, got to keep smiling, want to get home.

Taxi pulls up, drivers polite, chatting his small talk, usually about the weather.
He helps with the shopping, seems really nice, pay, smile, close the door, that feels better.

Smile fades away as the sadness takes over, put away shopping as tears well inside.
Push them back down, cant let them out, kids home soon, my feelings i must hide.

Feel some relief, shopping's been done, safely home, at least for another week.
Take off my make-up, take off my mask, the shadow falls, the future is bleak.

Sitting in my room, alone at the window, no family or friends, all alone with my fears.
No-one can know, no-one can see, how lonely i am, whats inside of me,
I must put on my mask, i must Smile through my tears...

amish_bootstrap

What I do when I'm feeling blue is I take a notebook and draw two seperate columns with a vertical line in the middle of the page. One the left half, I write everything that is good in my life, no matter how simple or trivial it may seem to everyone else. On the right half, I write everything that is bothering me. Even if it's just something as simple as "Today I woke up on the wrong side of the bed." Then I tear out the negative half, go outside or to a fireplace, and burn the negative stuff. Then when I start to feel blue again, I can look back at all the positive stuff and not remember the negative. I hope you feel better.

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relax

i have the same feelings, try to forget, and hope for the futur

and yes everone will be busy for his/her life, and they won't careabout you, becaue that's not their life.

i wish i had a real friend, but i don't.
you just have to talk with yourself and try to solve things out.

*Fantastic Menna*

u know u need someone can speak with him/her
and u don't know who is that? u need to feel better but u don't have the way to feel that and u want to cry but sometime u can't i know that feels one day i feel that and i was so angry sad and alone and i decided to tell my write what i feel and thinking how to kill that feel i tried
but if u want to speak with someone i'm here for u
i will try by everyway to help u
and i ask allah to pick that feels up from u
ur sister

Moonrise

i suggest that you find means to get yourself out of this state.
they are summarized and written as steps that can be taken, one after the other :
1-try again with your old friends at times when they are free.
2-try finding comfort in relatives who can help you.
3-go out to places you like , and seek innocent enjoyment on your own.
4-seek comfort in your hobbies.5
6 - IF ALL THE ABOVE doesnt work, seek the help of a good psychiatrist , bec you may be suffering from depression.
depression is treated with medicine , and in a short time you would enjoy your life without these blue feelings .

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