What should an "Eastern Girl" do ?

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Ismaily Rules

Not!!!!
Take it from a guy's prespective. And read the answers of all the guys , you will find out that they all said "no" . Unlike what girls think that honesty here is important, you are better off without that.
I don't mean that you should be a liar. Honesty is good, but I really think that when a guy gets into in a relationship he wants to start something new and fresh, he likes to believe that all the words he is going to hear and all the nice treatment he is about to get, were given to no one else.
So, out of respect for the new guy, don't tell him anything. Guys know. We know that girls may have had experiences in the past. I mean we live in the 21st century. Girls go to college and stuff like that. We don't wanna know about them any way. Sometimes we get nosy, and we want to ask, but u should be wiser any way and live your life.
Cheers and have a nice day

Maro's mom

Look hun,it depends on who are you dealing with,I mean the guy whom you will tell,just be honest with yourself are you smart enough to know exactly how your guy will react to this or you can misjudge,look I believe you better don't mention it specially there is nothing you will get out of telling,but if there is tiny winy possibility he might know about it so go a head tell him it'll be better when it come through you
Good luck Honey

rinah

I think she should tell with all honestly if she was asked. I believe lying and hiding will not lead to good results because she will be with someone who does not like her for what she is (since she hid the truth) and he will not have chosen her on the correct grounds.
I prefer to tell everything with all honesty and if the guy I like does not like it then he's not the right person for me.

nm007_in

with the life partner everything should be clear.

fldrod

Arabic guys don't take it too well when you tell them about ur past experiences. In their minds, guys could and are allowed to do anything, but it's a big NO NO for a girl to have a past. It's kind of frown upon. On the other hand, I believe in honesty, it's the best policy! So just leave ur past behind and go forward. If u really want to tell the guy about ur past experiences, then just wait a little until he gets to know u better. That way he's not judging the relationship based on the "past" but based on who u really are and the "present".Good luck :)

alab

For me as an eastern guy, a woman that does not say anything about her previous relationships is not trustworthy. we are in 21th century, I as men understand that a woman I like is not borne to be with me: she must have had previous experiences.
This way if i know better about her, and she knows more about me, the relationship together has abigger chance to blossom or else there would be a big disance because of concealing issues.

soulfuljim1

It depends. If you are looking for something similar to what you are telling him about, then fine. If you've done something during one of your "experimental phases" which you are no longer in, maybe not. For example, you may not want to tell someone who you are seeking a long term relationship with that you have had sex on every means of locomotion known on the planet if he's not the type to have done such things and you don't intend to continue on such trends. Otherwise, I suggest being as open and honest as possible.

Zeid

just say the truth

Carmenasks

It's generally not a good idea for a girl to discuss her past dating experiences. It won't add anything to her new relationship, but it might end up hurting it. If a guy is open minded, it won't make a difference to him and if he isn't, it might ruin your chances with him; therefore there's really no point in discussing it.

Ali baba and the 40 thieves!

I would say, that you should be honest with the Guy. Don't mention anything unless he asks and when he does don't lie, because lying doesn't get you anywhere except into more trouble! God bless x

Razan

If an "Eastern Girl" going to be with an "Eastern Guy" then things are different. No matter how much that guy is "open" minded, he does not need to know everything, specially if the girl had many relationships.
From an "Eastern" girl to anothr ( i guess ) be a bit discreet.

Suomi

it id does not matter at all your past dating experisnce.
Egypt is not old-traditional country.
Nobody cares unless you wanna marry egyptian man

donia f

don't tell him anything, he will never forgive you!!forget the past & enjoy your new life!!

^Butterfly^

hey girl believe me there is no need to tell ur past to anybody, nobody will appreciate ur honesty, they will blame u...we live with close minded here although our religion is a religion of forgivness, and every person should appreciate the situation of the other...believe me your confession could ruin ur life...just forget about ur past whether it was good or bad...always start a new page...
good luck:)

hazem_sherif_barakat

i thinks u are a muslim girl
and sayedna mohamed sayswhat means that it is very bad to say what allah have disppeared and hidden from ur past and. what u have done wrong and no one have seen u making it then u go telling whatr allah have hidden (allah beyestorek we enty betefda7y nafsek) so i thinks it's better to open a new page in life with i thinks who seem will be ur husband

grace

If you can keep it, no need to tell everything, it might just ruin the relationship.

Psycho

Ismaily Rules is right, don't mention it unless he asks, and believe me we will NEVER ask about these stuff because we know the answer and we know we wouldn't like to hear it.
even if he does, don't answer in DETAIL, yet don't lie, be honest, and also be smart, answer his questions (that I know he wouldn't ask) very specifically, with the less irritating answers possible.

Kalooka

not.

Die

First, move to the US and find a stupid American Man to take care of you. They dont care about your past, they just want to sleep with you. Then you refuse, say you are pregnant, get him to marry you, then divorce him for half of his money. Thats what I did

Hophop

to be frank and honest is always the best way.
better not show the photo cause it is could be used in wrong way through some bad people.

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