Whats wrong with having a BF and a husband..as long as they never find out about each other?

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'N'

How old are u???????

webby

what's wrong with a friend who tells you she'll pick you up and then she doesn't?
what's wrong with you counting on someone to water your plants when you're away and then they don't?
etc...etc...etc....

You got married = you made a committment = you either honour it or get out, no ifs or buts....
and this goes for both sexes.

notyou311

It is not acceptable for anyone to cheat. You are breaking your marriage vows. Why bother to get married if you are going to cheat?

Samantha S

It is NOT more acceptable if a guy cheats. It's equally bad, either way. Don't you have any morals?

fatma

hey beautiful

everything is wron about it !! tell me what is right about it ??
whats the poit of getting married if ya ganna go cheat !!???

fares

no, it's not acceptable for either.

So, you think it's ok for a man to have a girlfriend as long as his wife doesn't find out?

~Brown Eyes~

It's wrong for them both!
Its neither right or ok or anything for a male or female..
I dont think its acceptable for a guy to cheat thats why you have to pick the right people to date.

Red

I am hoping that this question is a joke, because it shouldn't be acceptable either way.

mortis

whore,
thats what it makes you, or maybe a more fitting word would be sleazy
it is not acceptable to cheat.
this makes you a worthless cumbag ho.

Kate

LOL
First I don't think it's acceptable for a guy to cheat, it's unacceptable for both.
Now, I think having a husband is already a handful, why would I need a BF for????
If you have a reason for having a BF and a husband and you're convinced with that reason, then it's your business, you don't have to justify it to anyone, as long as you're safe and happy in your life...True what the other said about being committed to your husband and what the bible teaches etc...but at the end, it your business and I know God will understand whatever life you choose to live...no human being has the right to judge you or what you're doing bcuz in a way, we've all done something morally wrong and broken rules too.
But don't get attached to the flesh pleasures only, they will never last.

hasafer

loool u r so high

YES YES GO MAMA lol

Kalooka

yeah..right..
it is not acceptable both ways..

Counting Crows

The bible teaches that we shall cleave to our significant other and become one flesh. Can we do that if we are sharing with our partner the same intimate things that we are sharing with some one else?

Whore....comes to mind. He deserves some one who will love him and him only. He has taken a vow to love just you. He hopefully will keep that vow.

How silly to get married if you can't be a grown up.

Hey there

What the f--k is wrong with you? Its not acceptable either way, and you know it. Some being a troll!

SALSA

It's really a question of do you have any morals or not. Will the guilt eat you up? Does your hubby deserve this? Is one man not enough? Do you believe in God? Now you can ask yourself your question and answer it too. It is not any more right when a man cheats.

sofar

you don't love your husband to have a BF and knowing you it one of his friend. why be marriage go to work at HH.

ttmistress

Dear One,
First of all you are committed to your husband by the vows you took when you were married... By cheating on your husband you put both of health at stake... especially if you are intimately involved with the boyfriend..... It is not acceptable for either of you to cheat... there is an old saying, A man can sleep with as many women as he likes and he is still called a man.... But if a woman sleeps with more than one man she is called a slut.... Nothing stays in the dark for long.... Sooner or later you will get caught.... You cannot have your cake and eat it too..... Ask your self why is it important for you to have another man in your life.? And how would you feel if the table was reversed? You need to make a decision because your eternal salvation is at stake....

mysal

No wrong, but they are always fighting eachother in your mind !

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