When someone criticizes you ..... you usually?

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sistablu...Maat

I consider whether or not it is constuctive critisism and if it is then I take it as food for thought.
Petty critics don't faze me at all, I have long ago learnt to let their efforts go totally over my head and end up in the dirt where they belong.

Arabian Dune

I usually listen very carefully

hasafer

give him or her a peace of my mind [ if I'm sure of what i do ] if I'm not sure , i gave em my ears

Jâ˜¼E

Shows they care about me............

Eman G (Maganeno again)

Agree with Sistablu plus i just smile n don't say a word

Kalooka

i give them "the" look!

~aXe

consider it a valuable feedback

n try to implement as well

Mischa

This depends. Sometimes constructive criticism is ok as long as you're not being completely disrespected/insulted.

Robin

it depends how much they know me.

Ruby

no I never gt upset when being criticized. I always take it into consideration and try to make the best out of it cuz it cud be something I'm not aware of. but if it is something way off, I just ignore it :D

MOHAMMAD YOU

mostly valuable feedback

SAL

I get upset and implode. It depends on what they're criticizing.

upright n breathin'

I get upset with them. I was in a relationship that I would consider it valid feedback. We are no longer together. ~Thank God, it was exhausting!

7oda is searching for pure heart

sometimes it returns to his criticizes behavior as I do not ignore the advice and think about his behavior for criticize if he want to insulate me and think he is better than me or if he want to advice me
i prefer no criticizes in front of anybody who do that I appreciate him and listen to him

jeckha

i tell em to get f*cked or get really mad on the inside and keep a grudge for the rest of the day. I don't consider it constructive feedback unless i ask for it.

Prince of Chaos (R.A.M.)

there are two kinds of criticism :

1-destructive criticism ...i would get mad if i get this.

2-constructive criticism ....i would consider it a valuable feedback.

a very good question

warpedhybrid

I tell myself "so what?" I basically don't care about others opinions UNLESS they're my husband/aunt/mentor/instructor. to do some of the things I've done required going against the grain (despite others thinking I'm crazy for coming up w/ certain ideas. then when it works they think it was "clever.")

Weirdo gal

consider it as a valuable feedback.

Amara

it depends...sometimes i let them speak as everyone has ryt to speak n whn someone criticize wrongly they i get rude n try to clear their mind...

Helena

It really depends on who the criticism is coming from. If it is heart felt and constructive, I can accept it. If it is from some person I don't know, I just put my hand up and they can talk to it.
The biggest problem with the world is even if you are perfect, people will find every fault imaginable to try and bring you down.

Reikominder

In fact , I always want to know how people think abt me, so I ask them what do u think abt me? ,

If they want the best for me , then I listen carefully ,
If they want me get angry , then shake my heads without attention,

now , What do u think abt me??

Dryest Flame

thank them and i'll try to fix it some say im crazy but i think by that they care im not into hearing that im perfect

Umm Ali

I wish I could say the latter but unfortunately I usually get upset. I don't always get mad though. I think it is my need to please people and when I don't I get very upset.

Ranoush(ppl thumbed me down:p)

neither..hehehehe

no comment..no reaction

just a meaningless look,3shan yefarfaro...muahahahaha

HopelessZ00

First it depends on who the someone is, if it's family or a friend yes I consider it very carefully, and take it as loving advice. But if its someone that does not know or understand me inside out, I consider it and if it doesn't fit then I let it go. Cheers!

the BRUINS baby!

make them wish they never said a word. =]

THE-GREEN-VISITOR

In all cases I'll consider it carefully, but also I think I have a sufficient self-awareness enough to figure out for instance whether what they claim is right or wrong and can reply them accordingly, but basically I won't get upset, if they have a point, I'll work on whatever problems I may have, we are humans after all, not infallible prophets or angels, aren't we? And will not attack or get mad at them, if he/she is a friend of mine, they have given me a present, I should be happy instead, and if they have some hatred or envy towards me, I'd rather work on my problems first, then they will have nothing against me.

Rokaya

depends on the way they criticize. all criticism should be creative - meaning giving a feedback not just complaining.
however even if there is lack of creativity in it after i stop feeling hurt i'm trying to get to the point and to correct myself.

Cleopatra is back

i never get upset being criticized on the contrary i smile at em trying to ask em to say more about what do they think about me i love to know what the others think about me specially the bad things coz i wanna make up my mistakes and make ppl love me so that's why i consider it always a constructive criticism

let em say Im here listening carefully

SPIDERMAN

A true believer never gets upset longer than to pour water on their head.

Pour water on your head I want to bless you - Allah SWT
You are all right there in the land promised and you still don't get it? My goodness!
Go look at those pyramids again maybe you will learn one day.

luffy

depends on what the person criticizes me about. if it's about my fashion sense or anything alike,(especially from strangers) i really couldn't care less . if the person criticizes me when i did something wrong, then it's alright.

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