Why do people get married? ?

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Reikominder

Because one day you will see all your friends married with kids and having a life and someone to raise up, and you will sit alone changing bf every year with some problems and watching TV alone every night, and hearing advices from friends/family that you have to marry, and feel sooo Lonely,

Even if marriage bring problems or many responsibilities but still is better than feeling bad about your life and yourself,

Marriage is a step we have to take in our life, "shar labod menoh" lol

For me, I don't think it will works with me at least the next 5 years. Although I have some good chances now.

Aussie the 2nd

To commit to one another....sad fact is that these days the commitment doesn't seem to mean anything....37 years married !

GlobalMan

There are so many reasons….
-Love
-Social Pressure
- Urge to create a family/procreate
- Companionship or Partnership
-Religion
- Money/ “business merger “

As for me, its partnership, procreation, love….but more importantly, having found someone that makes it worth getting married :-)

Otherwise, I think it can be a major pain in the @ss and a lot of people do it for the wrong reasons….I would rather live single than be potentially miserable and make someone miserable in return...

Barrio Lass

my home economics teacher back in high school said...

People marries for three reasons...

- Companionship

-Sexual Fulfillment and

- Procreation

حلاَمبرا hallambra

Bcoz each of us has to live the own experiences.
You fall in love and then after a time decide to get married to spend the life together.
It works most of the times, but another ones it doesnt.
Many pple advice you to get marry and to be happy the rest of your life., and if you are lucky u'll get it.......but another pple will say dont marry.........bcoz they had a bad experience.
although all the good and bad advices, we take our own decisions and as are inlove dont think that things wont work.
That's why i am telling you that are different experiences for each of us.

EDIT.......
I have to agree with Kate... When i got married, I didnt think about anything else that to be with the guy I was inlove with , and that became my husband 33 years ago (almost 34)

juliet

people married because they want to live new life include bad and beautiful things ,to be with ur partener forever
that's it in think

Josie

Because we were meant to ...
God made us in a way to we have a need to be completed by another person, emotionally and sexually fulfilled, so the best way to get that is getting married. Some are happy in a loose relationship but when you need commitment and we usually do, it is better to tie up the knots in marriage. Of course it does not always workout just fine but, we must try in order to keep from chaos ...
Just to get my point through I will cite some Bible verses:
"Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falls; for he has not another to help him up.
Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
As for me, I am thankful for 27 years of marriage (tomorrow Nov 13) and in spite of our crashing differences, cannot imagine myself single.

Kate (the 10th)

For me it's only one reason LOVE

Je m'appelle Annie, et toi?

to have someone to get on their nerves when you turn old....

Have you ever noticed how sweet old couples argue with each other???!!!

Nessie

people marry cuz they feel like it

.:.:Flowy:.:.

People get married because they want to stick up with the person that they love, and another reason is that they want to have baby or children. Some family have a different tradition, some people get they marriage arranges by their parent in some specific country. So they can keep that tradition keep going.

X-GIRL

to feel secure, I agree with ^ answer to get a life,
u may think that u can live alone , but for how long?
time will pass, people around will disappear from ur life, you need a child, you need a husband to find him waiting 4 u when ur back from work, when your back at night.
you don't want to spend ur life in an empty house do u ?

Aldonbonn

to have a life....to have a kids and a wife that loves u, to give ur life a meaning and purpose and the most important thing that u wont die alone

imagine u living single after the age 40, ur family will be either dead or married and ur friends will get married and will have there own lifes, they may still be friends with u but u will be always alone.....

Judy

C'est la vie je ponse!

sux_2b_ewe

So that they can take the other person's stuff.

Zoggers

CHEMISTRY

JUSTME

I don't know really i guess it just a thing to do

Bélier

To suffer....

Sαмsooмα {ραℒєς†îиîαи ✌ }

for LOVE and COMPANIONSHIP

you can stay single for awhile, but eventually it sarts to get so lonely especially when peope start seeing their friends all married with kids and their siblings and everything, they will feel as if they missed out

also its nice to be with someone u love and loves u, someone to rely on to talk to to depend on to love, its an amazing feeling

also free halaal sex.
enough said

magnatic eyes

for the continous of life

Zach

money and/or love

ambercat

Mostly to go farther into just love. I believe its something alot of people seem to do for the ring and the glamorous amount of money their lover has. It is so sad to see people marry and get a divorce a year after. Knowing that they really didn't marry for the True reasons.
Once you fall in love it is a reaction....a rash decision on truely your divine strength of love that you endure with them. A power of commitment & dedication. To want to live with that person for the rest of your life, to share kids, memories, time over the years when your older with laugh lines to tell how happy they've made you... Love is a precious thing. Don't waste it on something or just anyone that you find, if you found they feel the same way, that is a reason that i wouldn't just say for, its more of an excitement & More than a crush, but sparks &fire are what your soul gets from them, and its the MOST reason why people do what they do.
God made it for one man & one woman to share something. God made us to want love & have a wanting for it... thats why God will always be my first love, but He does not want us to live alone, so He has Someone for Everyone. :)

LeboNEEZ TEEZ

tradition
to make it official
to feel less guilty about having sexy time (even tho u know they bumpin' before they tie the knot)
because religious books say to
because if you dont you'll go to hell and die
to have someone to rely on forever and ever...

Tribal Angel

i dont know =S

marriage sux

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