Why is that ? when the girl is just a friend she is nice funny and cheerful but when she become a girlfriend?

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Kassandra

Sure, it's always the woman eh? Come on Mr. Hasafer...could it be that the man changed and that prompted the woman to change, too? Relationship is always great in the beginning, especially in that stage where you only see the lovely things about your gf and you try to ignore her imperfections only to realize that it will never go away after being engaged with her.

*claps @ kassandra lol*

hasafer -females feel just the same about the way a guy changes
There is a man who has three girlfriends, but he does not know
which one to marry. So he decides to give each one $5000 and see how
each of them spends it.

The first one goes out and gets a total makeover with the money.
She gets new clothes, a new hairdo, manicure, pedicure, the works, and
tells the man, "I spent the money so I could look pretty for you,
because I love you so much."

The second one went out and bought new golf clubs, a CD player, a
television and a stereo and gives them to the man. She says, "I bought
these gifts for you with the money because I love you so much."

The third one takes the $5000 and invests it in the stock market,
doubles her investment, returns the $5000 to the man and reinvests the
rest. She says, "I am investing the rest of the money for our future
because I love you so much."

The man thought long and hard about how each of the women spent
the money. He finally decided to marry the one with the biggest ------------.

Zoser

OK I answered that several times and it applies on females and males as well
When you start knowing someone, you just know his social character, not the real one,,,of course all of us have 3 characters, real, social, and ideal,,,,a healthy person will have the three,, very close to each others (impossible to be exact)...
You will never know someone unless spending very long time with,,,Or Live (sleep,,, not in the sense of sexual relation, but in the sense of seeing him in his/her primitive nature,,,,humans are very natural when they sleep and actually eat) (that is why i always invite them to dinners ...lol)....anway...
sometimes either the person we know , is very smart to hide his real character behind his social one for long time,,,Or we are stupid not to discover the real one on time....

Hope

Sorry Hasafer but who said so??

I think if there is a change it should only be for the better coz now both of them are more secure in knowledge that they like each other and there is more ease and comfort in their dealings which should only strengthen their relationship and increase their love. Not the other way around.

Look honestly if a girl or a man starts acting in a way that is not agreeable to the other partner i think i can safely say that it is not meant to be coz now they are discovering things that they don't like about each other that were there before but coz usually in the start of an attraction one is blinded by his strong emotions that they fail to see the whole picture.

Kitty132

simple: u need ot look hot and sexy and personally attractive to get someone...after u get em..u dont have that self fullfilment prophecy so u slack off...like TOTALLY slack off..it hppens all the time! i hate it >_< ..i mean if ur married it doesnt mean u can just lie in bed eating chips andwatching football 24/7!!!

â™¥ alousa â™¥

A good question :D .... I like it =)

Because ......El Gat balash tel wakde ^^
When the girl is only a friend, she feels free and can make what she wants. But when the seriousness of the matter begins, she wants to show her husband and his family that she is the right one, she's a good girl and she doesn't make any mistakes. Maybe she wants to show that she followed the prestige.....don't know well.... but through this acting she changes herself - maybe without to know.
Of course not everyone is like that..........each girl is different........

â‚¬gÂ¥PTÂ¥â„¢

they act nice till they knock u on ur face ..and live sadly ever after,and one day little fahmy comes and says ''baba baba ,,ana 3ayez a5od ders 3araby''..wenta te2ool ''howa el 3araby mehtag dars ana ashrahoolak''..w hakaza

LOL@AA

~ Noha ~

not all girls.

reifguy

lessons aint free in life ,learn to anticipate, be patient ,observe and wise,men look at women in a way different than women look at men ,u never know how deep the sea is unless u step in it,all u see sometimes is the tip of the iceberg ,woman are great actors they play the role till u fall in the trap then the mask falls off and the real person reveals themselves ,learn to be very very patient ,time can break it all

Kalooka

because they think they owned you..literally

phantompooper

um well I have always remained the same except with people I don't really care about. when i met my boyfriend a long time ago we clicked and when we finally went out we knew we were for eachother because we could say anything and be totally comfortable because our relationship is based on honesty and friendship.
I think girls that are like that don't like their boyfriends, husbands, or fiancee.

passionate

take me and i promise you i won't be this bad ;)
bos ya akh hasafer.
ana ma3rafsh elbanat eltanyeen,laken ana 3an nafsy mesh nawya atghayyar,3ashan ANA DAYMAN BETABEE3TY,we mesh bamassel fy ayhaga.
we law etghayyart ba3d keda,ha7awel aragga3 nafsy,aw ya emma ba2a aseeb elshakhs da 3ashan mab2ash khada3to,mesh nezam maho khalas we2e3 fil afas zay manas keteer bete3mel.
anyway,law le2eetny etghayyart ma3ak,3andak shehadet daman 12 shahr,we momken takhod feloosak tany ;)

Dryest Flame

I'll tell u something many girls act as the best women in earth b4 marriage and even in the engagement time just to get the man then everything change but why i think that's in our society that since u married u have to take care of your husband and since u have kids u have to take care of ur kids only and here come the problem the man at work and the woman at home taking care of kids only not him even if she cook she do for her kids first not him but i think its our society that make the woman as cooker raising kids

but i wanna add something aren't u men also change but sometime to worse isn't ur friend is better than go out with ur family isn't the home became as a hotel

what i mean that both change that's because our priority's change also we women accept all that and try to adopt it but you men always blame

*Â´`*â™¥â™¡Sarahâ˜º Beanzâ™¡â™¥*Â´`*

Thumbs up Kassand

Brit**

when a girl likes you she wants you to like her back so shes nicer but now that she has you she can act more like herself...i guess

Red

In any relationship both people tend to show their best side first. Then as you both get to know each other the more dislikable qualities come forth.Relationships take work & some are worth the effort & some are not.

flvietangel

b/c now that she is invested emotionally in the guy, she has expectations. and when those expectations aren't met, she gets dissappointed or upset. also when people first meet they are on their best behavior to give a good impression. the more people spend time together, the more likely u'll see the uglier sides of ppl.

Nowhere Man.

that's the plan man .........that's the plan .....
otherwise how are they gonna get you ..!!

wish k

i think expectations are a major factor...girls always want more attention,not only girl but sum times boys also does such irritating things

notmygame

she figures she has her hook in you and can reel you in to her ways. typical woman

Noi S

Because then when we are in a relationship we demand more attentions. But I don't think the attitude would become a 360 turn.

oh_jo123

IDK I never have I'm just fun loving and absolutely wonderful so says my husband

SARAH

Coz ur expections become more!

Jasmine

DUDE not true!!!

Eman G (Maganeno again)

best answer for Kassandraaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Moonrise

this happens only when a girl lacks self confidence .
she becomes possessive and wants to be center of the man's life and attentions .

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