Would you take into consideration the feelings of family&friends if you were to marry a non Egyptian?

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Reikominder

for sure yes, We are family , and She will be one of my family and I will be one of her family ,

Friends is always not a problem , bcoz if they are good friends , they will support u , even if they doesn't agree with u ,

For my family , I will try to c what is their opinion , and respect it , but after all , it's my decision , I will marry her , not them,

And lets give u what the worst could happen:
Maybe my mum say " If u marry her , I'm not ur mum anymore" that's will make me think million times b4 marriage, but I will try to explain and talk to her , but if she insists and I love my girl and she loves me , Sorry to say that , but I will marry her , And will kill myself to make my mum happy abt that , Sometimes , Parents or family are so selfish , But a good mum or dad, will always be supportive ,

max_rochny

AA, I respect you for asking that question. I do not believe that a man or woman should marry just because they have the same religion, or back ground. Marry from your heart, not to please other people, good luck, Max

dreamy

look if she is form the same relagion i will act hard to let them agree ut if it is not i will think and think a lot before i do this
since i face a very bad trobles in marrige form a women having another relagion sonce love may be dissapear by days then booth of man and women will discover how far are they
then every thing is destroyed

7ala is fluffy ?

My husband & i married from the heart, & we did it without even telling anyone. I was in egypt, so my family at home in england, & K's family didnt know till the next day. I was shocked he didnt tell his family beforehand, but they were very open & welcoming about it when i went to visit the first time.
As for my family, i waited till they were sat down before i told them, they were suprised, but they love my man, thankfully, but it would not have mattered to me i love him toooo much.

Ruby

well, for my 2nd time around I had to take that into consideration because I didn't wanna risk being in love again with a non Egyptian and have my family refusing the relationship lol. Looking back at it, I think my family was right. Thank god I married an Egyptian :)

Reggie

its great when in a relationship everyone gets on but sometimes the family step in and have there doubts and are against the persons getting married and its not the same but follow your heart and your head what is for you will not go past you ?and the family will come round in the end mostly ?and when they see how upset you are ?its a new life a new beginning for a couple starting there own family? be happy and take care

claudy_kay

No....I would think that family and friends would not be so controlling. However, wait for 3 to 5 years before marrying to see if their culture is something that you can live with....or him.

midnitrondavu

I would consider what they say, but do what would make ME happy, not them.

Ranoush(ppl thumbed me down:p)

it's not a big deal in my family if i wanted to marry a non-Egyptian..as long as he's a good Muslim and would be able to support our family,nothing else matters.

i think they'd be thrilled that i'd be far away from them...as possible.. :)

THE-GREEN-VISITOR

Probable, not sure, but for me, I prefer to marry an Egyptian girl, I think they are the best ever.

Vicky

The life is yours to live, not your friends' and relatives'.

Clio

Relatives have influences upon a couple. If you and him have a problem with that, now it's the time to discuss it.
But if the family and friends don't agree with you and you know in the future they may interfere between the 2 of you, then you have a problem to discuss with your relatives. Now it doesn't seem big, but in time it will effect your relationship. Basically you have this question: What is the most important for you, for your happiness? What will you do when you have to face those that don't approve your marriage?
In the end, it's you against them all. Can you do it? For how long?
Talk to him and your relatives about what makes you happy!
Good luck!

moonshine057

Take in consideration yes, but they also have to deal with the fact that things have changed and will continue too as well. I It's not easy to choose one over another I'm not saying it's okay either for I don't know all details and cannot say, but if you truly and really believe this is the one then it's sold it's self. It sounds to me like you already know the answer. It's not always easy to see what should be done but don't be discouraged either, for those people could come and see that we are in different times...it may take time for that to happen and you have to be prepared. The heart is hard to say no too in these situations but don't despair it will come out alright. In time you will know you both and your family just need patience

darleneisforever

No, but I've always been strong willed. The only thing to really consider is that it never seems to work out when you marry outside your own faith and country. Too many differences.

Mencken

Relationships suck. The overwhelming majority (over 90%) of relationships end badly. As such, I would never get involved in a relationship that was contrary to my social or financial well being. Why screw yourself over by having a relationship with someone that you're just going to despise a few years from now anyway?

Perry N

No. Only if they were Egyptian

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