I have never flown and am terrified to get on an airplane. Am I justified?

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ilessthanthreeyou

don't be scared. flying is safer than driving.if u are really terrified get sleeping pills and take those. take something to occupy urself on the plane if u think u might worry. ohare isn't the best airport but it is ok. just get there early if u are traveling by yourself and if u need help ASK! good luck, have a good trip!

merlin_steele

I believe that you are. I have the same fear; not so much the fear of flying, as the fear of crashing...hehe I mean, once the plane starts to go down, there's no stopping it, not like a car dying on you going down the road. If I couldn't drive, I wouldn't go. Your peace of mind IS important.

Poopsie the Embarassed Kitten

Thousands of people just like you do it safely every day. The cars are dangerous means of transportation!

Daughtry-luver

I think it's normal to have the fear. I was afraid of flying for awhile, I didn't have the $$ to go anywhere so it didn't really bother me,that is until I finally got the $$ together and decided I wanted to go on my dream vacation to Jamaica. It is scary @ first. But you have to make a decision, do you want to be a victim of your fears and miss out on things you really want to do? I decided I didn't want to--- and my first flight was to Jamaica! Kinda no way out I had to fly home or it was going to be a loong swim home, look @ it this way, you're only going to VA, if worse absolutely comes to worse, you can get home without flying. I think tho you will enjoy it's convenient you'll be there in a matter of hours instead of a day + of driving= extra time with friends/family. There is a book I found that will walk you thru everything to expect on a flight etc Flying without Fear by Duane Brown, you might want to check that out.

Will D

Do not be afraid. You already know that flying is safer than driving a car. If you feel that your stress levels will be unbearable, ask your doctor for a mild sedative to take before you get on the aircraft. Make sure he gives you enough doses for the trip to, the trip home, and one additional dose to take a few days before to see how you react to the sedative. You do not want to take something that will leave you catatonic!

Congrats to your niece!

Will D
Enterprise AL

Annie's World

Flying is safer than driving. I do understand your fear, I'm not thrilled about flying either. For me, the take off is the worst part, but it doesn't last long. You might want to consider seeing a hypnotist to help you prepare.

Terri D

Many more people get killed in car crashes each year than they do in plane crashes. There's just more media coverage of plane crashes. If you don't want to do something that has risk attached to it, then I suggest you don't even cross the street.

FruitCake

No!
There are more car accidents then there are plane crashes.
The hardest part of the the flight will probably be using the plane bathroom (which isn't that bad)!

linda

I am wondering what you are basing your "fear" on if you have never flown before. It's very exciting going on a plane, a holiday and especially a wedding!

Enjoy your nieces wedding and don't be such a scaredy cat.......it would break her heart if you could not attend. Suck it up and experience something new!

Silvatungfox

If you are also terrified to cross the street then you might be justified. The hardest part of any flight these days is the long wait, the necessary security screenings and listening to those who are upset about the necessity of such screenings. A cocktail, and realizing that all the hoopla you have to go though to fly anymore is all about making your trip safe might enable you to relax. Personally I love to fly, I just hate the folks in the airport who think their business is more important than anyone elses. Taking along a good book, and not dwelling on the flight itself are techniques I know have helped others I know who did not care to fly. Another thing they tell me that helps is to have someone go with you that you really enjoy their company doing anything.

Cat

I can understand your fear of flying, but I've heard that really you are more likely to have a wreck in your car than to be involved in an airplane crash.. I've been on an airplane three times..I really enjoyed the whole experience and I thought it was fun... Good luck.

magrlinda

Yes your feelings are justified. I use to be the same way, but i always remember its much safer to fly than riding in a car. Just count your blessing and you will be alright. You will be okay.

Bunny*Run

You sound like my mom when I got married last year in the Turks & Caicos! She had never been on a plane, and has had nightmares since she was five about crashing. She swore she'd never fly... except her lovely daughter had other plans up her sleeve! Talk to your doctor and ask for a sample of Vallium to avoid panic attacks, then explain to your flight attendant that you are a virgin flyer - he or she will be extra-attentive! Good luck - I hope you have a great experience and can overcome your fears - it's a great big world and you can't drive everywhere!

I'm a flight med so I fly at lot, but the worst part of flying to me is the take off. My pucker factor is super tight, but as we level off, I loosen up and have great flights...I now have over 1000 hours of flight time and still get nervous at times...

Michael

NO, youll be allright.

Bill

No you are not justified.

The hardest part is getting through security.

randyboy

If it makes you feel any better, I'm 53 and have never flown. Doubt I ever will.( Funny thing, I posted a question a few days ago asking if anyone else had never flown before!)

IrishBoricua

It's way safer than driving. Let's just hope that one of your plane's engines doesn't suck up a pigeon.

trypticon31

get drunk 1st

dot&carryone.

You won't know until you fly, you may even enjoy it.

blondedude

There`s no hardest parts normally in a flight. You just sit in an uncomfortable seat for a few hours and eat some micro food they bring you, and that`s it.
Greatest part on the other hand is, that if you get a window seat. Then you can watch clouds, mountains, scieneries and other planes in the air. I usually take photos from a window while Im at a plane.

notyou311

No, it is the safest way to travel.The hardest part is standing in line and going through security to get on the plane. After that, it's a piece of cake.

Nobody

Ahhh the visit to O'Hare will probably be more traumatic than the actual flight. Getting there, waiting in line to check your bags, and waiting in line for security are obnoxious.

The only times you really can feel the flight itself is when you're taking off (accelerate in a hurry)... and when you land (brake in a hurry). Otherwise... your ears will pop from the change in altitudes. Probably the biggest worry is having someone either really fat or with a screaming kid sit next to you. Both have happened to me, and these are far worse than anything that's going on with the plane itself.

mickjam

Don't worry. You don't have to fly. You just have to sit.
The plane is pressurized, so you might have a little ear popping but you'll be fine. If you are the type to get sick at heights, watch for your bag, it's right there for you, if you get plane sick.
Enjoy the movie, and the airplane food. It's not gourmet, but people who complain about airplane food are stupid for expecting it to be. Just catch up on sleep. Enjoy your flight.

neurotic41

i do think that you are justified about the flying, only because it is basically the fear of the unknown. the time it took you to type this question, a thousand planes have landed and taken off so the only thing to say is to get on that plane and go.

Lore

Are you closer to O'hare. I went on a trip and took off at midway because it was not as crowded. I assure you you will be fine. I love the part when we take off and the plane is climbing. Look out your window and see. When you reach the right altitude it feels like you are traveling in a car. Should they hit an air pocket don't be afraid. It feels just like a small drop. Fear not it's not a big thing.
When the plane lands the engines will be louder and there is a thump when the wheels come into contact with
the pavement. as you land and slow down further..
Take the peanuts or whatever they offer. Have a magazine to read etc. and you can order a drink.
It's easier if you carry only your purse on board.
Hope I have helped you. Have a good trip.

elementamigo4

ok lisen. i know its dumb, but i pretend little knomes with wings are underneath the airplane holding it up. and if there is turbulence, i just tell my self its seniors day, and the knomes are a little weak today. lol. and i try to remember that there are more than 600 flights a day and all of them are "sucessfull" and try to remmember to look to the flight attendants. they fly every day. they arent scared. thats wat i do. i am scared of flyin to, and i fly ALL the time. Good Luck!

sierramac11

I know a lot of people who have a fear of flying- but I've never known anyone who's been in a plane crash. I don't even know anyone who knows anyone who's been in a plane crash. It's MUCH MUCH MUCH more dangerous to drive!
I know it's easy for me to say because I don't have a fear of it- but flying is really no big deal. In fact I think it's fun and much more relaxing. The only thing that ever is annoying about flying is the turbulance in the air, that's just when the plane shakes a little, but it doens't mean anything- it's just air pockets you're flying through. Just make sure you go in good weather- it will make you feel more comfortable. And everyone who works on airplanes are really sensative and sweet to people who are nervous about flying.
It's for sure something you have to do at least once in your life! It's fun, I swear! Taking off is a little fast like a roller coaster, but when you're in the air you don't even feel like you're moving. And the views are wonderful!
Go for it! =)

Oh and take an ipod, books, or a portable dvd player, it's good to have something to do.

Pursue Happiness

usually its annoying fellow passengers and the struggle of auctually checking in and stuff. apart from that, depending on which airline you choose, it should be pretty enjoyable

Gabe

Airplanes are still the safest way to travel.

Lupin IV

Nope. Its more dangerous to ride in a car than to ride a plane. Thousands and thousands of plane go up and down safely everyday. No terrorists are going to do anything so itll land safely when you go.

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