Would you spend 2000$ for a plane ticket so that your boyfriend?

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badkitty

yes i would.

Brittney Leigh

when my bf and i were together 5 months, i spent 700 on a plane ticket, but 2000, no way.

i wouldnt spend that on someone i was with for 5 years.

Triumph

thats a lot of money to spend just to get laid by some broke-@ss boyfriend!!

Metamorphosis27

Can you meet half way or something? That is a bit much to pay for a plane ticket, not to count other expenses that you may incur. Can you meet at a later date when ticket prices will be lower? I think that $2000 is a bit much to invest in a 5 month relationship, or just take the $2000 and both of you travel somewhere.

I hope that this is not a domestic flight you are taking.

Okay, just read the additional details. No, I think that you should be in the relationship a little bit longer. Don't let him know that you can spend large sums of money like that so early on.

Distance makes the heart grow fonder wait till May. Save the money and buy the ticket now for then.

Charlie

Absolutely not...if he wants to visit, the ticket is his responsibility. And if he is that far away, you have obviously not been "together." Is this an internet boyfriend? Could you be being used? I just read your previous question...now I know you are being used just to get him into the U.S. This is not new, not unique, and not wise. If you want a druggie boyfriend there are plenty in the states already. Sorry to say, but MANY of these people you meet on the internet just want to use you as a ticket to get to the U.S., where they will immediately violate their visa since they have no intention of going back.

Stephi sayz BOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I probably wouldn't because I tend to worry a lot, but if you're in a serious relationship, then I would say go for it and have a great time with him!

Din B

Thankfully it only costs a quarter of that for me or my GF. I will likely do it for her, but we've been with each other a bit longer too. However, it does certainly suck being apart.

pinoy

it would take 2-3 years for my to do that.

EDIT: and DAMN! where does he live? (staying at)

briman232

I was in love with a girl once and would have paid any ammount of money. Sadly, she moved to alaska (wasilla as strange as that is<pallin> just prior to her untimely death. (car accident)
If you are TRUELY in love, and if you have to ask if you are or not than I guarantee you that you are not, then by all means do it. If not, and you have doubts about his commitment to you, then it all depends on the ammount of money you are comfortable throwing around.

tonalc2

You should split the cost of the ticket.

Midori Okami

Only if you're that wealthy and won't regret spending the money if things go south for whatever reason. I don't know your background with each other (obviously), but things can happen in life. And people can eventually go separate ways. Even if you can see a long future for the two of you, you never know what could happen. Instead of asking if you should spend the money, ask yourself, if you two split one day... even years down the line, would it bother you that you spent so much money?

I do like one person's answer, can't you meet half way? You fly to, say, one of the Oceania islands and he meets you there? Besides, if you flew him in... he's be staying with you, correct? Would he have money to eat on while he's there? Or would you have to pay for that to? You also have to consider the time and money to pick him up and drop him off at the airport. And also your work, would you take time off to spend time with him, or will you have to keep working to make up for the money spend? Don't forget your own expenses as well. Even for a one week stay... that turns $2000 into at least $2500.

When I think about spending large sums of money, my mother tells me to do some calculations and research. Consider all expenses, and if he doesn't have the extra money, consider the expenses for two. If he's staying with you, your bills will increase. I'm not trying to lecture or anything... I just want to give you a practical view on the situation.

But like I said earlier, if you're doing very well in your job, you can afford the expenses, and you won't regret spending the money later... Do your thing. You only live once... well, as far as we know.

sweetaimers21

not for 5 months of a relationship. most relationships...even most marriages dont work.. and not saying that yours wont.. but if you do spend the money and end up breaking up you will be kicking yourself when you need money for something else.

kguerrero2010

well maybe if has been a good relationship where we talk almost everyday and tries to make the long-distance relationship work

sexybutt

No. He is just your boyfriend so he has to make the effort, not you! If you're already married you can spend on him. Do yourself a favor and let him miss and WANT you. Filipino guys like to chase women and will surely take you for granted if you are all over them.

ssn004

i wouldn't spend a penny unless we dated for like 2 years

Kaden

hell no! 5 months isn't good enough for that.

Gala

No way. If he wants to see you, why isn't he paying? I think you save that kind of airfare for attending your fiance's graduation from law school that's across the country. After just 5 months - nope. There are plenty of ways to communicate, including phone s*x.

Look at this from the other way--why isn't he paying $2k for you to visit him? I just think there's something wrong here. Sorry!

Reeew

yeah..I guess but in my case girlfriend

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Invasion!

definitely not unless you really love him and he really is poor!
Otherwise, forget about it.

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