A lady in the Philippines I have been talking to asked me this?

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ramblinman63

I was stationed in the Philippines and 99% of the women over there just want a free ride to the U.S......please do not fall for this crap....now i not saying all are bad,just watch yourself dude...make sure you are thinkin with the right head.....you have no idea how many times i answer these questions on here.

Brian F

Look if you like her, and want to sleep with her then go ahead. Just be smart about it. Wrap it up if you don't want to wrap then don't sleep with her. Don't listen to that crap that all Filipino woman want is a free ticket to the states. Not all Filipino woman are bar girls. There are hard working class woman in the Philippines that want a good man to love, and be happy with the rest of their lives. My Filipino wife and I have been married for 10 years now.

Jerry O

You leave out a lot of important information in your question. What lead up to this conversation about sleeping together?
Where does this young lady live? What is her Job?
There are a lot of GRO girls that attend church every week so that really isnt a determining factor.
Do you want to get married?
What is your age?
Its great that your visiting her make sure you go visit her family.You can tell pretty quick about her if you keep your eyes open to all your surroundings while there.Look for signs especially how much the topic of your money comes up. But dont be a cheap *** also.
If you guys get along and you both feel like sleeping together then take protection and go ahead. If then you decide to marry her thats ok also as she will be interviewed and go through a physical.
Just follow your heart and keep a hand on your wallet. Use common sense and you will be alright.

If you get a chance Check out the Yahoo Group "PLIP" Philippine Living Island Paradise its full of information that you will need to make the trip!!

Have a great time and relax most of these post are by a lot of people that really dont know what their saying and have limited knowledge of the Philippines.

Jerry O
PLIP

mystery moo

im a filipino too.. used to live there in the Philippines..

just be cautious.. i guess its not just about the race, its reality that come with online dating or something.. some people seemed better than they actually are..

there are a lot of good women there and they know hot to take care of their man, but still a little skeptism wont hurt...

don't get sucked in. she'll fake a pregancy and sue you. you'll be years getting untangled. if you have to find a lady that way, try a dating site: www.matchmaker.com

Sophia C

Uhm... did you pause to think whether it was grammatical error and what she actually asked is: does she have to sleep with you? while you're here. Maybe she's nervous and wanted to know what does it entail - you coming all the way over....
We are known as good English speakers... but sometimes, in chat, understanding and perception is lost in typo and grammatical errors.

I too am 54, however my current gf there is 25. I have been chatting all over the Philippines for 3 years looking for Ms. Right. Women are generally the same worldwide, want security and a ring. I have been cheated there several times as well, so guard your heart and your wallet.There are investigators there that can check her out before you travel. The Internet cafes there are full of filipinas and ladyboys looking for money and older kanos. (American men). The economy there for the most part is bad, too many people and her being a catholic,well most are anyway.. Check out this site. Don Herrington is a retired American living in Cebu and this site can help you a lot. If you have yet to talk live to her on cam and on phone, do so soon. Make sure you see her actually talking to you, as I could tell you so many stories there.http://www.livinginthephilippines.com/
Email me perhaps I can help.
If you have been chatting with this woman for some time and she is now serious with you, I noticed the sex question is a test some pinay do there as they are very experienced in chatting with men. They want to see if you really respect her or are another sex craved lying American. This could be her testing you.

J. S.

An interesting question. Now that people know the age situation, they can stop assuming you are 54 and she is 22. I once chatted with a woman who asked me the same thing, I didn't take it seriously, but if you do make the move I hope it goes well for you.

BlueBox

i say go with an open mind. talking over the phone or through email is vastly different from meeting somebody in person. spend some time with her and see if you both still "click" with each other.

it sounds shady to me that she already told you that she wanted to get married later. without (i'm assuming) even seeing each other in person first? and as a rule, filipinas are not very straightforward when it comes to sex, so maybe there's another motive in her wanting to sleep with you. and all filipinos go to church every week, lol.

best of luck to you. if nothing else, i'm sure you'll have a great time in the philippines.

anoldmick

You sleep with her, and she can legally force you to marry her or pay her alimony for the rest of her life. Stay home and keep your pecker in your pants.

bongcs

Be very, very careful, my man. She could be another bloody, evil Nicole! Stay away from Nicole and women like Nicole.

-Answer-

Check her status in life, a 22 yr. old woman

would'nt be wasting her time with an American

remember, it's a sad reality, but every poor

woman here in the country going out with

an American is merely looking for a ticket

out of this country, anyways, how do you

know she goes to church every week??

take it slow, don't rush things, sleeping with

her will land you in big ****.

â˜…mentaâ˜…

The important part is what you think about her. You said that you really like her, you don't have to answer that question to her now. You can decide that after you meet her. Your fantasies of her may be different from the real world. It may not CLICK anymore.

And make sure that she's 22 NOT 17. hee hee.

luosechi é§±å£«åŸº

No harm in going to meet her face to face, but don't rush with the sleeping bit for a while at least.

I guess I got lucky by meeting my Filipina wife in Taiwan. She was 38 and I 62 at the time. Now 8 years later we still love each other and are happy.

Trixie

I presume that you're chatting to the mom who is 54 years old and she got a 22 year old daughter? How old are you?

The girl is only 22..don't assume much...at this age, she is still unstable and will keep changing her mind..
If you have a problem sleeping with her and you don't like the idea, then tell it to her and she might realize that she has meet a nice decent guy,or any issue that she needs to know..You both can make a decisions..no one gets married alone, whatever she says. no one can force you.
There are lots of Roman Catholic in the Philippines, and 22 is dependent age to live alone. Going to church is a good sign, that she will know her limits about sleeping with you..
There is difference when a woman says she wants to sleep with you,,for a man it means she wants to have sex with you..is that right?
If you think the relationship will click.. then follow your heart...
Yes, Brian is right, don't listen to others about degrading Filipinas.. there are many Filipinas living and having a succesful life everywhere with their foreign husbands. The way you love and respect her..is what you get having a very loving and respectful wife later..
Yes, it is true there are cheaters around..and it's unfair to this girl if this is not the way she lives her life.
Out of curiosity in your past questions...are you really serious about this girl? it seemed like you don't want to be with her in private... just curious....

Happy New Year!

Eros

There are some very good people in Phill, but like any part of the world, there are some people that are not very sincere.
I have learned it this the hard way.
Also most of Filipino English is spoken or written they way they think (not grammatically correct), so it is very easy mis-understood.
Understanding their culture is very important, so on your first visit there, I will not except anything.
If you have any fantasies, please leave them home before you board the plane and maybe you will be pleasantly surprised.
Do except large families and do not forget to bring a lot of gifts and cash, (this is where understanding the cuture is a must!)Credit cards are only accepted in major cities and malls. Also expect to pay extra 3-6% extra if you use your credit card.
Also be careful on some of the provinces you may want to visit..
Do a lot of search on the internet....search...search ...search

trykindness

Philippines is a beautiful country to visit, you will enjoy your experience there. I wiill advice you to go there for a visit with an open heart, do not limit yourself to just one person, allow yourself to meet other people and other women. If you sleep with the girl, you will eliminate your chances to meet others.
It makes me think that you are not sure on what to do, you are confused which is the reason why you pasted this question here. Also, take note, most Pilipino are Catholics and they go to church every week, it does not make them a saint going to church.
Take Care and a happy new year. MABUHAY

Dave Star

Who's 54? Who's 22?

That's A Lot of Nonsense

hahaha...already a pendejo and you haven't gotten to first base yet?

btw, did she say, 'me so hone'?

hahaha...hehehe....

shedevil

I'm from the philippines and I'm a 22 year old. Sounds danger for you. Just be cautious......Not that I'm degrading my race here, but I go to internet cafe's and believe me.... A lot of these women chat at caucasian men because for most of them its their ticket out to the **** hole that they are in right now.

To think that I do wedding plannings and most of my clientele are filipinas getting married to foriegners. Its nastier than you think.....

Shossi

The lady is looking for a meal ticket.

NONAME

my advice is not to sleep with her. even dough she go to church every week. female who say that is just using you.female 22 year wants to sleep with you, her family might force u to get married. there few people who do black magic and spells.

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