Phoenix
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Sorry Jen but he is breaking up with you. Either he can't find any excuse or he does not want you to feel upset so he's choosing that explanation.
I think he is right, you should be with someone far better than him. You already spent time, effort and emotion for that guy who does not deserve it, move on and probe to him that he is nothing but a jerk and you're time is too expensive to be spent to him.
Goodluck! |
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Plumpy Q.
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Pathetic is what it is. The guy might be lying and just be trying to dump you nicely without hurting your feelings, or he might mean it, and if he does, then he might be a threat to himself. But he is probably lying because he is cheating and wants to be with another girl. Im sorry hon. Well move on and get a BETTER guy. a HOTTER FUNNIER SWEETER guy! lol Good luck ☺ |
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job
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because it is very easy to men say that, compare to " were done ". |
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ichingo
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wer on the same shoe actually,someone say me that way too...yeah u know that u can find better than him why not? but this is the question u think u can be happy with that better person? knowing that ur heart only belongs to him...well, some of the guys dont care wat women feels after the break up bec. they can court any girl they want and they can easily get a replacement...
and u can never teach a guy to love u the way u want to be loved. u have to wait for him to do it in his own way in his own time. that is the saddest part of being a girl...anyway, goodluck girl u can forget him just move on... |
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purple gorilla
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Well then. He is probly right. There is someone out there better for you. Give him his walking papers and tell him don't let the door hit you in your butt on the way out. |
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黒いサファイア/Black Sapphire
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Yes, he wants a big break in your relationship... Meaning he's dumping you, or say he found another one better than you... |
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ksire06
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I think everyone does it. Its like I dont want to be with you but I dont want to have drama.
Leaving the dumpee feeling upset about the break up but not vengeful because the dumper said he feels the dumpee deserves better. |
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mypony
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well honey, at least he didn't do the opposite. Take it as a compliment and go on strong....he's right, you are too good for him. good luck!! |
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Bail out BS
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When this happens to you , this is what you need to do, sing this for him as you kick his behind..
"Hit the road Jack , don't you come back no more , no more, no more, no more, hit the road Jack don't you come back no moooore" and when he replies " Say what?" you kick him again good.... |
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n_arent
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He's found someone else and he's trying to break it off without causing drama. Kick him to the curb. He's childish and doesn't want to face the music. |
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swettie l
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absolutely thats a hint.. maybe this guy just dont want to hurt your feelings..but then when you truly love the guy it does really hurt even though he said things nicely...anyways there is no more way you can insist yourself to him coz saying things like this seem decided and determined..aahh its not the girls loss..its him... |
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eezy_jex ®
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Jen.... here is the true explanation for that:
" I really like you before, but I have seen another girl. After this break-up of ours, me and the (another) girl would be happy. And by the way, you could have another bf."
Trust me. Whether you like my answer or not. What I say was true. |
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kuanas
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he knew from the start that he wasn't good enough for you and yet he keeps on messing up....while you are just being you. he eventually choked with his own wrong doings and uses it as a reason to break up with you. you have thoughts like this lurking on your mind that "theres nothing wrong- everything seem right if he just sees the brighter side" and stop adding up to the reason why he can't measure up. swear! you'll scream sometimes why he can't see that you love him & you forgive him for his wrong doings- if only he is willing to work on his weaknesses or issues that needs to deal with, "ours" is not bad afterall...... sigh! been there,done that.
Now i have finally agreed on what he says i deserve someone better and gave him the freedom he yearns before - and almost a year of separation; he bugs me til now that he can't live without me & do not want to lose me anymore.
Pathetic, isn't it? too bad for him cuz iam determine to move on with my life w/out him...afterall..it was his suggestion to break up with me many times before i finally agreed.
I think he is right, i definitely deserve someone better.
draw your conclusions here and goodluck! follow your instincts, they rarely go wrong. |
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jillybilly
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He is just bored of you and is 'inventing' excuses, to leave you. |
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curlytops
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filipino men finds it hard to be honest with their partners because they don't want their partners to get hurt. this mind boggling pakipot style of men makes the relationship worser. i say if the guy says this one to you break up with him you can never force them to tell you the real reason after all. |
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skeptic
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at least he's got th guts to say it 2u.. he's not interested in u... the mere fact that he said "ur 2good 4me".. and "there's some1 out there who is much better 4u"... meaning he doesn't deserve to have u... bottom line is... he's not interested... |
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Bamboo_hammer
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your boyfriend is insecure!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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andre
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whats that? break up lines. just read between the lines. |
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lisa_chris_hays
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Sounds like he had a change of heart. And wants to move on without looking like the bad guy.. Sounds similier to the "I still want to be friends" line :) |
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evolmyfaith
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-Lets face the facts, some people or me or you, may feel ackward in ur relationship, either one's too beautiful or not as cute, and have sincere feelings or know it would be best to end it. (if your smart)
-If your young (which you & him are) option on another candy, desire, sex drives you in and out of relationships.
-Ask the question, why are we together, basiclly is due to sex, having sex, everything else is quite complex, " i love you " does that word compels you to end it with that person. For some reason, men understand what you like (it's like a dessert) those words, you crave for, when you hear it, you stamp it like a ticket, men say it to please women.(pillow talk)
-Oh ya, he wants to break up with you. (my guess)
-Tell him you want to see other men, (turn the table around)
-Not until later on in Life you'll understand and laugh at this event. |
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windblown
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• maybe he just wanted not to say bad things towards you.
• maybe he has some insecurities. He felt that you're too good for him.
• maybe he doesn't love you anymore. |
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Cyn H
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It is the standard break up excuse. Suppose to make you feel better as if it is he who is the wrong person. |
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purple & pink
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do you want the truth? that happened to me like 5 times..oh my god..
a man would never admit with his whole heart that he is the wrong one..he's just being a gentleman, he doesn't want to hurt you a lot..or maybe he found someone else, he just wanted to make it easy for you.. |
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PG_13
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maybe he is cheating you. |
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butler_84
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there are ppl out ther like that
they feel like they arent good enuff
or like they arent worthy
n coz they got so much love they wanna see u do better
go out with a more successfull guy who can treat u better n give u the things he cant
yes it sounds very silly
but ppl like that exist
but it could jus be a regular excuse
i dont know |
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Me, myself and I
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He is a loser and definitely likes someone else and wants an excuse to break up with you, how do I know? Because I did this to a guy as well and said the same stuff and dated another guy the next day! |
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bright red
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he wants to break up but doesn't want you to be hurt which is impossible. just thank him for his honesty. at least he did not cheat on you. he told you straight away, just be thankful for that and move on |
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always b natural
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He wants to break up. Now you have to deal with it. He doesn't want to be with you anymore, so move on. Find someone who wants to be with you. |
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acdelco350
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If their sincere then theya re looking out for your best interest. |
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`_LAYLUUH
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It's just a guy being weird.
And that's his way of breaking up with you.
But that's kind of dumb.
At least he was honest. |
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