Am I so choosey?

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Gbinz

In reality, the person we'll end up with is the opposite of what we desire... You just lack maturity. Love always cought people unexpectedly... love has no standard... when it happens, there's no turning back.

Bhuwisit

may theory: yoo ar subconsyooslee looking por yoor daddy.

Ees yoor daddy tall, punny and religious? Hmm......

yang weemen hoo ar attrakted to DOM's ar lookeng por ah pader pigyoor. Maybe becoos der pader eegnored dem wen dey wer yang end dey seek eet naw, di ba. aminin.

Baboo.

Anna Marinella

Honey, there are men too who prefer intelligent women who know how to spell "choosy" and who don't mangle the English language.

Opposites attract. Need I say more?

`â™¥â€¢Debbie the PINAY`â™¥â€¢

it's perfectly fine to set your own standard. stick wit em, gurl!!

Aref H4

Keep your preferences and standards. And may you find your man. And may you have plenty of offsprings, whose own standards you must respect. Cheers.

Mike's Girl

you're doing just fine, girl. no need to lower your standards. however, i am kinda curious to how exactly do you weigh a man's "genetical capacity" and what exactly is a "good spirituality disposition."

star_gazer

LOOK i think you have a right to be choosey.
DO what my sister did. MAKE a list.
INCLUDE everything.
THEN pray over that list as to what husban your desiring.
IT works because my sister found him ( actually God found him 4 her.)
BESt wishes in looking

SAMD010

Chez, you should never have to lower your standards . . . As if you do and you get nabbed by the wrong man, then you will hate yourself for it later on . . . And this may cause you too much grief. You know that you are quite attractive . . . You can tell by the way that men take a second look at you. You probably have experienced that kind of personal attention most all of your life, since you were even a little girl. Some day some lucky guy will get you . . . It's just a matter of time. I want to wish you the best of luck. You are so maganda though . . . AND you already know it. So, go ahead and be as particular about it as you want to be.

Oliver Natividad

We all set standards and that is our choice. It's just so funny that there will always be ONE person excepted from the rules you set... The man that you love.

é»’ã„ã‚µãƒ•ã‚¡ã‚¤ã‚¢/Black Sapphire

I think not, because you only set your own standard since you're still too young to choose which is better. Maybe some guys think your standard are too high and misinterpret you for being friendly...

Rode|ette Û©

why choose if you can have everything?

Sexy No More

You are not choosy. You're just have a clear preferrence of your ideal man. YOu don't need to lower your standard, unless you are desperate to have a bf or husband.

I married my ideal man and he is as per my standard. 6'2 tall, athletic figure, causacian, no kids, with a very good job, a nice sense of humor, and matured enough to handle me... hahah!

sheerâ™¥black

Well it's a good thing though that you have standards--at least you know what you want. But just remember that it can change when you found the guy your heart says for you--no matter who and what he is. Like what the others said, as you mature further, your perspective on things can change [based from experience ;)].

roderick_young

You should be true to yourself. If you feel you are lowering your standards, then I doubt you will be happy long term.

But I encourage you to keep going out with men your own age, even if you consider them immature for now. You might find that you fill gaps in each other. For example, if you're very serious, and they're playful, it could help for both of you to move toward the middle.

Bato

No offense but I second the motion with Buwist.

Trasher

think you making it difficult, ever heard of old maids. you probably end up with someone just opposite
single life is good .. no one changing tv watching what you want going out and partying enjoy it for a while

Bitter Guy

That's fine ... everyone has his/her own standards whether they admit it or not.

citysurfer

Choosy, in the sense, you're firm on your standards, some choice of yours doesn't make you lower nor higher because its just one thing of you that makes it uniquely yours because you like it that way. All of us wish the good or beautiful things that we want in a bigger picture but somehow we manage to see the good beautiful things in some smaller things that we need really in our lives.

Johny

yeah you are and thats a really unatractive quality guys hate.

eezy_jex Â®

You are not choosy ... it's natural for all of us to pick the best.

Hmm .... I'm more than 5'7" .... Witty and got sense of humor, but most of the time hilarious .... genetica capability? no problem .... I think I'm older than you, but I'm really below 40 ... I am more on the spiritual side .... don't lower your standards.

I think it fits me hehe.

Juan C

same as you...

I'm looking for a girl, not taller than I am, I also look for the inside beauty, as well as the outside (somehow),,, I like older girls (probably 1-5 years older), but it's okay if she's younger or same as my age... I like a very smart girl (not that kind of nerdy), outgoing, family-oriented, understanding, a little bit conservative (not so much, I just don't like girls that are so exposed), and God-fearing...

Purple Tactics

All I'm gonna say is that you can wish for the man of your dreams... just make sure you're also the type of woman on his wish list or you'll end up one day a lonely 45 year old lady living in a one bedroom 30 square meter appartment with old newspapers and cats.
Darwin's theory of natural selection at work.

annabelle p

You're still young and the young are basically perfectionists or idealistic. Give it some more years and maybe your taste for the kind of man in your life will be different. It often happens when one grows older, becomes mature and grows with wisdom and understanding.

purple & pink

yes, don't be so "choosey"... anyway, it's okay coz you're still young. when you get older, you'll realize it for sure. ;-)

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