Am i a LOSER?

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Hell yes!

Actually what you learn through your struggles will be an advantage when your older. This will make you special and unique!

When you say that everything you do turns out wrong, I completely understand. I struggled to get through school. Went out into the working world. Made lots of mistakes, and employers and coworkers sure loved to remind me of that. College was hell, sometimes I'd have to take courses over but I just didn't give up.

Perhaps you have a learning disability--anywhere you live where you can get tested.

Sometimes my expectations are so unreasonably high, I am often disappointed. This roller coaster feel to your life can be very draining.

Center yourself. Make sure you have food, shelter, clothing.
If you find yourself bouncing from job to job, find out what exactly is going on.

You were put here on this earth for a reason. Listen and Observe your surrounding. If you do not know how to talk to people, just be kind and polite and learn as you go.

You might want to talk to a therapist or school counselor. Asking for help might be the hardest thing to do. Humans are like dogs in a way, we are pack animals, and sometimes we need help from others. I know I did. I am not ashamed to ask for help now. They will help me fulfill my purpose in life and that is what is important.

Best of luck to you.

agua dulce

Don't ever say that, sweetie. You are NOT a loser. We can't always succeed in everything we do. We're only human so we often fail too. But inspite of that, hold your head up high and just keep on trying. There's so much ahead of us. Think positive... and it helps too if you pray. Have faith, sweetie. CHEERS!

Flavio B

if you think you are a loser it will permanently injected to your thoughts......... if you can do this things or tasks and able to finish it then it is a accomplishment!!!!

artsupremo

In every undertaking,there are always ups and downs. Don't think of your present loss, it may be an initial step to a better future.

spam

There is no such thing as loser for a person who keeps trying. Life is wonderful, enjoy it to the fullest and if you fail there is still tomorrow when you can succeed. But if you stop trying and discontinue life, then that is the only time you can be considered a big loser.

wildyoungnfree

"You were not born a winner, and you were not born a loser. You are what you make yourself to be." - unknown

the italian idol

uh? yes?

Aref H4

Welcome to the Club!

Nico P

losers are opportunities in disguise

iya

goD created U as winner believe me.just open your eyes and appreciate every single things that surroundsyou,ull realized u are not alooser sis.ive been there but i just sought a bibble and church,IAM HEALED

Bubbles

Your not a loser! Take a vacation and forget about the things you have failed at!

CarolYapTengco

You would never know how close you are at succeeding until you quit. Remember, a man is measured by how he reacts, not how life brings him... Go girl, stand up!!

bdleda

losing doesn't mean you're a loser. but you have to learn every time you lose... don't ever quit. quitters always lose and losers always quit.

still

You are a loser only if you think you are. Otherwise, how can you win when you have already decided that you are a loser?
Please, get up, wipe your tears and start deleting whatever that negative thing that is lurking behind your thoughts. Everyone is born a winner, and it's entirely up to you to continue to live up to that.

Let me tell you, in life, there are more sunshine than rains and storms combine. Cheer up and don't lose hope. Life sucks sometimes, I know, but overall it's great to live.

watevr d questn, love is d answr

of course.. it will just make the success in the future much sweeter..

Bhuwisit

Being a loser is a mind-set.

If you believe you're a loser, regardless of whether you're a high school drop-out or a wealthy multi-millionnaire, then you are.

However, just because someone calls you a loser does not mean that you are one.

The definition of loser means someone who gives up eaily when a plan fails. So for as long as you keep trying (even after continually failing) you cannot by definition be a loser. But if you quit before you succeed, then that's a different story.

Angel-ene

no, you are not.

life battles are not always won.

you lose now, you'll win tomorrow.

life's like that. continue living!

cheer up!

skeptic

honey.. life is what we make of it ourselves.. no matter what it turns out to be.. right or wrong.. it is of our own doing... and there's no such thing as being a loser.. it's just an expression of something... and the way i see it.. you're not a loser but you just need to see things in a different perspective..

johnrobert

yes definitely, everything here has a purpose...you have not found it yet. maybe you should search within first (find yourself, know your strenghts and weaknesses and improve on them).

i dont get it.
llmaoo

joeybo

your not,go forward

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