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i hardly see any fullstops in ur writings. I'm so blur... |
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peanutz
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Hey, man, wake up. You are being used by her. Get her out of your life and find a more deserving woman. If you like Filipinas, there will be many more much better for sure.
Cut your losses and move on with your life. If you do not want to be in Philippines, go back to the US.
I am sure you know what you have to do. |
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stringendo
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dude, you have GOT to get back to the states!!
seirously,
you have to get out of there! i can help you w/ideas if you want, if you have AIM or something, but im worried for you that sounds like a bad situation!!!! |
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Brian F
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Dude, she did all that to you, and your only answer is to cut down on the money you give her. You are so whipped. Either leave the situation (That means breaking off all contact with her, not just moving out) or stay in the situation, and be her ATM. Oh, and to answer your question. No, not all Pinays are like that, but you already knew the answer to that. |
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Sarge
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You're obviously involved with a gold-digger. Don't dig yourself a deeper hole. Those types of women will simply bleed you dry. They're mere prostitutes. Don't be a sucker. If you like Filipino women, don't look for the poor peasants. There are loads of fine professional women in the big cities. Good luck. |
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luosechi 駱士基
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There's good ones and bad ones in every country. In the States I had a soso wife and stuck it out for many years, then in Taiwan had 2 girlfriends - one good the other a gold digger. Finally married a Filipina, and got lucky. Just drop the bad one and look around for another friend - there's many potential ones around.
Just one more thing to say... once you get married, a filipina will guard you like treasure. I've never seen so many jealous women. |
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Binibini
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not all girls are like that. she's just stupeeed and liar. leave her an find yourself a better woman.
get out of bayugan fast (that's in Mindanao)the closest airport from that place is Butuan so better hurry up. |
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mamang pulis
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just because you got bad egg doesn't mean all are the same. my sister, my cousins,my friends are not all like the same woman that you stumbled upon. |
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papars
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Please accept my heartfelt sympathies.
But the honest answer to your question is: NO !!!
All girls or women from the Philippines are not like the ones you describe. This can be borne from the fact that several westerners, Middle Eastern, Australian and other men are happily married and settled with Pinays or Filipina women.
Gold-diggers like the one you mention, are found in all countries, so the phenomenon is not unique to the Philippines. |
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gorgeoustraveller
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not all filipina girls are like that. You're situation could have happened with any other girl, and nationality has nothing to do with it. |
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siagnon
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Don't generalize it - but you're being sucked by the one you got! If not, her lifestyle is just too classy. It's her you want to live with not her whole family! Seems like she's well experienced. Get lose as fast as you can. |
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Nie
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If you are in the Philippines, DONT TRUST ANYONE! If you think there actions are unreasonable then you dont have to believe its true! |
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ONE! :))
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you gotta go back to the States....question really hard to read and to understand! |
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jench
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Sorry about that but not all filipina's are alike. It's not the nationality that matters but the personality of an individual..it just so happen that you are unlucky with the girl you chose. Poverty is the main reason I see here that triggers her to lie to you. |
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_maldita_
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no it is just a coincidence that she is filipina, she is such a disgrace. |
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SHEMH
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Man oh man...well, honestly, not all girls in my country are like her. So, next time, get to know the girl "better" first before living with her or sending money, etc. |
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i am very sorry for you Douglas,but you know you can always extend help to your girl but it is not your obligation to take care her all family or else you are going to marry the whole family/place..lol!there is a misconception among the brains of the Filipino people,they thought that if you have a foreigner boyfriend,they are expecting that you have plenty of money...it is better for you to talk this matter very seriously,if the the girl loves you she will tell you everything if not,then it is time for you to wake up!there are many girls serious girls wanting to have a serious affair with a foreigner...try to look around...goodluck! |
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vilz
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no! you better help yourself get out on that place soon! you've been fooled by her.. forget on loving her, she just want your money,,, |
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Steve C
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No,, simply not true,,but dangle money in front of desparate people, and they will find a way to take it,and want more. This gal is using you, just like I was used, until the money well got capped. Accept the reality you already revealded you know, and run from her! Philippine custom is,, what I have is yours,,what you have, is mine, and all of my family,,near and far...,,,lots of excuses to need more, and more, and more. She will milk you dry, and throw you out,,so,,run while you can! Been there,,done that! her comments to cops is to sacre you into submission,,, do NOT do it,, cops there are scared of you, and might try to milk money from you,, but, whip the cops's butts, and they will respect you. been there,,done that. Do NOT let the cops take you anywhere, for any reason, at all,,or,, you dam yourself. |
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Melek
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Yo ma man !!! Why dont you just put this to your brain.....
THERE ARE TWO KINDS OF FEMALE ON THIS WORLD:
ONE IS A WOMAN
AND THE OTHER ONE IS A ***** |
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yonip.orig
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Not all Filipinas are like her.You really got a bad egg.you did right in moving out and do better by getting out of Bayugan.Come to Manila and meet other girls.You deserve a break, just dont hate all Filipinas/nos. you will meet the right one. Good luck and take care my friend. |
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jicarlo h
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huh sounds messed up a poor filipino girl using a American man for money. And people say that you were there to use her ha ha that does sound funny. A person might be poor not well educated but we all know what love is and this wasnt' love trust me get out of there before you end up in jail let everyone know when your safe ok |
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cute_texascowboy
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my wife is filipina. very pretty. very kind. very supportive. very sexy. very loving to our kids. very HONEST! very sweet. very industrious! she makes sure our budget will fit our family wisely.
you picked the wrong egg! and that Bayugan town is way too far from civilization. and people on that area would normally take advantage of you.
Go to Luzon island and thats where Manila the capital is on. Educated and pretty girls. |
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myneighborisanass2
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she is so not worth it!!! That's a gold digger right there but I can assure you not all filipinas are like that. I don't get why u have to go all the way to the philippines. There's alot of good filipinas here in the United States. I'm sorry but it sounds like you have some issues with your self and self-esteem. You're worth more than this. You deserve better! |
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Boston Mark
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Put your hand's in your pocket, change your email address and run(don't walk) to the airport. Your being played |
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kuanas
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damn *** this girls doin like that... shame on her!!! dump & charge her for all the cheating lies.... and for goodness sake!!! do not marry her!!! her tribe must not increase!!! |
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jan-na~♥~ and im luvin it
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not all filipinas are like that. well i assume that some non-filipino yahoo philippines answerers here are happily married with a filipina. |
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barrabas
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Uhm, What's bayugan? o.0
lol |
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?
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Open your eyes gold diggers are in every country. You should learn about the country of the girl your chatting with especially if you have been talking to her for 9 mos. What were you thinking? Why are you blaming her? If you cared about her you should have gone to visit her instead of sending money how cold is that? |
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B-nard
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I agree with Asher T. Man grow some BALLS for Pete sakes. Can't you see that she's out to get you for everything that you have. You keep this up, you wont have anything to give. Its best that you come on home. |
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Big P
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I could have warned you in advance about the potential risk of getting involved with filipina's if you asked questions about filipina's before you get there in the Philippines.
Some filipino's get offended when a foriegner speaks the naked truth about the deception of SOME filipina women. |
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