Are all the good men taken?

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chinaman

I would like to think that every being is destined to attract the type of people they like consciously and unconsciously. No men nor women are perfect, but in spite of the imperfections how can one deal with it and cope and adapt to those imperfections. Certainly it is different story if a person if womanizer or drunkard or something.

I guess, it is greatly falls on the maturity level of both people who are involve. There is no magic formula, no chants, no vigil candles, just pure luck.

You just have to know what you want and devise a plan on how to attract those into your life. Not all people that one meet in a bar could be the best candidate, nor people who pretends to be a church fixture any better than say those who frequent the bookstore. But somehow you have to start somewhere, and most of the time opportunity just comes your way and when you recognize it then it was meant to be.

You should be ready to receive by investing in yourself to be acceptable to others too. Be sincere, be simple, be happy. And even if you end up being alone all your life, believe me no one is truly alone, it is just a state of mind. Someone out there is someone special created especially for you and you alone.

STL Biker

I'm here.

Beetlle

they are around somewhere. we just have to open our eyes and not let the physical stuff get in the way. also, it's there in the person, you just have to coax it out of them. everyone has a good side to them, it just needs to be nurtured.

tearyeyedprincess

yea.. it's either they are already taken, GAYS, in jail, in asylum, DEAD or yet to be BORN.. :P

destroyer

Most are, and if they were not.. big chance is they're gay!

trOLLIE

no man can be good ever.

sol

they are hiding away from the world because they have been taken advantage of by the women who use them just because the are decent human beings.

Johny

There are heaps but women in general love to make it hard for blokes these days.

luosechi é§±å£«åŸº

Maybe it's like they say in US about the gals..... There's nice ones and then there's good ones

czimme3

I know of at least one who's still single...and straight. He's in the US.

pero_102

are you referring to the men that are thoughtful, caring or are you just looking for those compatible to you? Everything has a place suited for their being

Mari

nope..there's still plenty out there..

Juan C

they're seen through their hearts...

[I AM KIRA]BRINGING SEXY BACK

why gay people are soo hot??

because I see a lot of gay people that are hott

-.-

Fwine Slu

All can be good men.

You can turn a man from draggin' his knuckles and carryin' a club to buildin' a fire in a cave.

Anne C

...playing around, till they meet a good woman

alan

ladies had picked them,
no, not all had been taken. their' is always someone better than the last one.

Lapu-lapu arf

I think so...

Because most of my Girl Friends are still looking and up to now they are single.

ratio: 1 guy: 10 girls =p

heartburn

are you looking for me?

Melanie B

There is lots of great men out there. You just need to be open minded. I

Big P

Yes, they are out there but you have to be patient and observe. I think your inner soul will alert you to a suitable man for you.

A man who is really interested in you will want to spend sometime talking to you.He want to get to know you. He will feel something special about you and want to find out what it is. A man with respect for you will be cautious about coming on too strong. He will wait for you to give him the sign "Lets get it on" but don't put up that sign too soon or you will lose the prestigious mystique you have.
Never ever present yourself as a woman he only want to f_ck and that's it..

Trust me, there are men looking for someone special to them.
You will feel the connection when it happens.

jim s

YES WE ARE

A.W.

Maybe your problem is within. Once you become a bitter, mean, man-hater, bee-otch, it's not likely you will ever see any man to come up to your level of expectations. You're looking for all the dis-qualifiers rather than looking for any good traits. One problem is that you are always in "search mode". No man will commit to a woman who is always looking to upgrade. Get real!

ÛÛž Felicity ÛžÛ

Either married or went to a seminary/ monastery to become a priest or a monk.

warrior is a child

oh,i didn't know there are good men?:)

i wish i could meet some.

grandviewstar

There are no "good" ones. Only ones that are less bad than others. You find one with potential, then mold it/him into something that is "good". That's all men are, walking lumps of clay - some are partly molded, some are fresh and easily piable, while others are drying out and a bit crusty (harder to work with).

Good luck finding a nice lump!

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