Are men generally intimidated by?

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agua dulce

This is not a generalization but an objective observation. I think men who have strong traditional values (i.e., those still believing that the woman's place is at home, the man needs to be the sole breadwinner, etc., etc., etc.) would be intimidated by superwomen more easily than guys whose values have been "westernized" - to a certain extent.

But guys, lemme tell you something. There's really nothing to be scared about Ms. Superwoman...coz underneath that exterior of success, intelligence and strong personality lies a heart of a girl. And just like any girl, she cries, she feels pain, she pines to be romanced, she's human. Soooo, what's the big deal? Come and get us....we don't bite.

Adam

Yes, most men can't handle it. They don't know what to do around a strong and intellegent women. Some guys just think it is wrong to have a girl overshadow us. Honestly, I love a girl like that. I think it is a plus factor.

kahlan nynaeveÂ®

i think so...

in college, when men knew that i am from UP, they would become "scared" of bantering with me or would automatically assume that i have such high standards and requirements...

in my first job, my boss who was a guy gave me this advice: "when you are with men, just smile because the moment you speak your mind, guys became intimidated by your witty and snappy remarks..."

i am only 23 and very successful so far, career-wise and all (well, except in the love department as guys really do get intimidated!) some male colleagues are quite appreciative of me and we love discussing things and exchanging opinions but these men, like me, hold executive positions...

i believe that when a guy is not as successful or as intelligent as the woman, he can be insecure but if the guy is in the same level or even higher as the woman, the woman's intelligence and her being successful will earn the guy's respect and appreciation...

Black Hat

NOT ME, or, well, let say, it depends with my overall rating of the woman.

joe

for me, I want someone honest, hardworking, sincere, and looks is a plus too. All the things you mention are a bonus!!

sheesh_kebab

i think there are men who still have think of men as "head of the house" and have the "sole provider" kind of mentality. yup, i think there are men who are still intimidated by stronger and more successful women.

the good news is, i think their numbers are dwindling (they're not dying out, rather, changing their minds or there are more mature men now a days) I know quite a number of men who are turned off by women who don't know what they want and are too dependent.

it's the new millenium for crying out loud. that's why relationships are considered partnerships not "leader and follower".

Adventure Man

Only those who are lacking self-confidence and feel threatened by someone, either male or female, who reflects their own perceived inadequacies by their successes. The fully mature and self-confident man does not measure his own self-esteem by the successes or failures of others and will relish the company of those who have achieved their fullest self-actualization, be they male or female. Personally, I enjoy the company of successful ladies, regardless of their professional or personal stature.

Redfox06012007

It's challenging I think not intimidating.. we love challenges.. we don't like getting easy girls..

Billy

I think some men are intimidated by that. If a guy is confident in himself, he will not be put off by a smart or successful woman. It's only if he's not so sure of himself (or his accomplishments in life) that he'll seek out someone that won't notice his "under-achievement".

Sexy No More

Men with weak personality might get intimidated while men with strong personality will be challenged to get a strong-willed successful female.

I think being a career woman is a plus factor. For example, I met my fiancee and once told me he fell inlove with me because I am beautiful and most especially my brain. (a joke maybe... but i guess he's serious about what he said)

I believe men should not be insecured to be with a successful woman as she will be a good motivator for his future career move.

It also depends to what type of man's personality traits a woman should want in her life.

Michael

only weak men are intimidated by that, you pretty much described my gf

dantee07

It all depends on the guy. IN general, the answer is no. But of course, thee are me n that are.

iscikedelic

I think that in general man always likes to be on top.

Leander

It depends on the men. An accomplished men won't be intimidated. A regular man would also not be intimidated as long as the lady shows signs that it would not get in the way.

Wi-Skier

And strong-willed, successful, intelligent women want men who are stronger-willed and more successful..

Actresses, super-models, and other high-profile women let alone women in general, do not marry down they marry up. This is not a condemnation of society but something innate to our species.

Remember, reproduction at its very basic is very cheap for a man, not so cheap for the woman. A man at minimum has a fifteen minute commitment (and sometimes that is all the commitment a man makes) a woman's commitment to children (minimum of nine months) typically lasts the rest of her life. A woman is looking for a man who can ensure the offspring are going to be well cared for and have the built in stuff it takes for the children to succeed in life. That is to say, the woman does not want the genetics of a person who is dumber, weaker willed, and less ambitious than her to mix with hers to form her children.

The guy with his fifteen minute minimum and sometimes maximum contribution to child-rearing frequently does not care, he just wants to....sow his oats widely.

Of course, we do not consiously think like this when dating and searching for a spouse, but there is much at work in our sub-conscious and society to enforce these "regulations".

vibal

you've described my wife! but of course, she has a soft heart for me.

Mr.Knowitall

a woman bringing home the tocino does not intimidate me in the least. if she wants to take charge, step right up darling. Pay them bills, mahal ko. I am most insecure when faced with chapter 11 bankruptcy.

Carol C

I don't think so men are intimidated by sex.

Cigar Heaven

Too complicated. It all comes down to chemistry. Either you have chemistry with someone or you don't.

The West Coast Avenger

If you got money and can cook, no worries.

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