Be honest. will you feel the urge to find new somebody after you are married?

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|tsme|ah

honestly... No!

but what if its the other way round...?

silenth

I'll be loyal to my beloved hubby...

Nasren7585

honestly, NEVER.

peanutz

No, I will stick to my choice.

I will do what I can to help my partner irregardless of whatever.

Mizz Jen

What was the point of getting married then?? why waste somebody's time?

ā… Cik Yaya ā…

better be alone than unhappy.

kimht

is good to know what you are missing so to help to fill up the gap with the one you have

pau

Why get marry with someone in the first place whom hardly take good care of himself or herself? One cannot use this as a reason to find someone else outside marriage. It is advisable that both couple seek marriage counseller for advice to improve on the marriage.

KangoTraveler

Have I ever personally had the urge to find someone new? Honestly, yes. But that doesn't mean I've gone out looking...

Hopefully you are marrying someone who you have more interest in than just purely physical. Even so, yes, it is natural to get 'restless' after you get married. I used to counsel premarital couples and what I would tell them is this: it's up to you both to make the decision to be married. And then to make it again the next day. And the next.

Also, if one person in a couple takes good care of themselves physically it is much more likely that the other person will as well. That's just statistics. So, since you can't control your partner, take good care of yourself so that you won't be a bad influence on your spouse. If you are the person who prepares the food, prepare healthy food. Also, find an active activity that you can enjoy together and you'll build both your relationship and your bodies.

Here's where I differ from some traditional views. If you feel the urge to find someone new, by all means DON'T tell your spouse. Get over it yourself. It's OK to tell them if 'there's no spark' or something, but don't tell them that you're not attracted to them anymore. That's just asking for trouble. Find something about them that's attractive.

thugballer

depends. in the beginning of the marrige they guy wont think about anyone but the girl but later if the guy gets annoyed or something or tired cuz of the wife then he will check out some people but if there is like fighting and yelling and stuff, he might not take it anymore and leave.

Lost my everything..

It depends.If my wife is good to me and my kids,I'll stay with her.If she doesn't respect me and doesn't take care of my kids,I might divorce her and find somebody else.But before that,I'll try to advice her as hard as I can.

lilly_0578

definitely not...