Do i look ugly?my 5 bfs were cheating on me or maybe guys are just the same.?

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Big P

No you are not ugly.
I understand your question. I know that you did not have 5 bf's at one time.
Just keep in mind that there are different individuals in this world.
For now and on, when you meet a new man. take your time and slow down, never be in a rush to become intimate right away.
I don't know you so I don't know if I am correct.
The mistakes a lot of young females make is that they give themselves away to the guy they like too soon.
Since you had 5 bf's already. You make yourself look like a "short bedtime story". I am not trying to offend you at all. I am just talking to you my little sister.
Take your experiences and learn from it.
I don't know what kind of men that you are attracted to but you have to present yourself better than before.

Find out what the guys want from you. Just in case you never knew, some men think with the wrong brain (inside his underwear). Try choosing men that think with the right brain.
Just keep it simple.

Mariposa

It's not you and don't settle for less. You are probably falling for the same type of guys over and over again, most of us do.

jewels

Do you think Elizabeth Hurley is ugly, Halley Barry? These are just 2 woman who are famous for being incredibly beautiful. They have other talents, but they were important first for being beautiful. They were cheated on and the world knows it. It is less about your looks and more about the men you associate with.

primamaria04

you're not ugly. They are . Ugly in the soul . Looks don't equate into the picture much when guys cheat , they will cheat on models with old street walkers.A guy who is decent would respect you.

mcsteamyandme

don't lose hope. i've been in the same situation several years ago. like you feel the whole world is against you. i've had 9 boyfriends and after the 9th i said to myself that im done. i should be single and go out with friends. then i met "the one" though i didn't realize that at first. we've been together 11 years now and still happy.. don't worry.. sometimes you just have to meet all the wrong guys to finally realize that someone meant for you.. don't rush. and if say you have a good personality, then it's their loss..

filamusa

5 bf's??? Is one not enough? Well if you have 5 bf's then that means you are also cheating on each one of them which gives them the right to cheat on you. You should not be asking this question....

Rick

Misiu, it is not you - it is them.

Don't listen to anyone who blames you - whether in bed or as a person. Some guys are not mature enough to appreciate a good woman. It may seem like a lifetime to you, but having only 5 boyfriends is just the beginning of finding the right man. You may have to date many before you find the right one. But, you will find him, and he will find you. Don't get too hung up on looks - yours or his - other things are more important. You sound like a very lovely and caring young lady - just keep trying.

john r

i'm glad they cheated on you . That means you must have dumped them and that you are now available

carlos l

i dont it has nothing to do with if ur ugly or not. if u were ugly, u probably wouldnt of have had 5 boyfriends in the first place.

were ur 5 boyfriends 'bad boys'? a lot of times girls will go for those type of guys liking all the excitement they have to offer and in the back of their mind thinking that they can change this guy. when for the most part thats a difficult task.

a lot guys have no problem messing around with another girl even if they are in relationship. i think its its just our genetic makeup. we tend to think with the wrong head.

caro

sounds like you have a tendency to date the same type of guys/bad boys who are prone to be unfaithful. you should assess what qualities and characteristics you really want in a man before getting serious with someone

reijene

you can take the man away from a dog... but you can never take the dog out of a man...

Lola

misiu, the only thing that's ugly is a person's character. you've pointed out that you're thoughtful, caring, honest, loving and a good personality, wow! any guy would love to date you. it's not you, so get on with life, head up high. you're beautiful.

kglover_23

Five boyfriends? Are you seriously talking about guys cheating on you? Did each of them know of the others? If you really have 5 boyfriends, more than likely they are thinking that you are not serious about a monogamous relationship with any of them and that they shouldn't be serious about you either- that the relationship is open to seeing other people.

allan y

you look beautiful.

they probably are jerks.

please check on this.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtD2j9iYSFXuPFDUVLILLAbsy6IX?qid=20070305153911AASA5oY

lushbabe4u

You're gorgeous darling.
Asians always are hot & sweet. (- -,)

Crystal C

You are gorgeous.

pride

My mother always told me that the people I am with (be it friends or boyfriends) is a reflection of who I am. Therefore, if you are attracting losers/jerks then maybe you should rethink what you are looking for in a boyfriend. Maybe you are choosing poorly that's why you always end up being cheated on.

putangnm

maybe you are not ugly but you are not good in bed so they cheating on you and you are boring ion lovemaking.maybe you dont moan loud enough

pingnavarro

Its a common misconception among women that if their bf or husband left them..They always think about their physical appearance or sexual capabilities..Though admittedly, it is a plus factor.Unknowingly to most women, most men are looking for women who can be their life time partner..who care less about sexd and physical appearance.

You think that you have a good personality, etc..etc..but do you think, your bf thought the same way? You should have open communicaiton your your bf..

Try to ask for giudance from couple who have been married for 30 yrs or more..they can be of great help to you..

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