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Maybe something can happen. Pretty soon. All you got to do is to live the present, not the past or future. Look forward to your future and leave the past behind. Hopefully something great happens *fingers crossed*. This is all for you...I hope something does. Im praying something will happen here some time soon.

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anything is possible but you have to be very careful. i hate the stereotyping about filipinas as dollar grabbers or just want to get out of the country. i admit that it really happnes thats why foreigners need to be cautious. because if you just believe everything bad that you hear, you can also be missing the good one, right? i myself is not filipina technically but i'm born in the philippines. i love being filipina. i love everything about the philippines. in every country, there are the good and the bad. it's just so happen that it's a poor country so people think of filipinas as opportunistic, ambitious and ya know. meeting someone from the internet is like gambling. hey this goes for all and not just filipinas. anyone can fool you. there's nothing wrong to know her better. not because that both of you are christians (some can be hypocrites too), you'll learn in the process if she's just after your green card. right now, it's too early to know. follow your instinct. in this situation, use your mind not your heart. you have to meet her before having plans or whatsoever. good luck! i hope she's worth it.

flingbee

It's a bit too early to tell, isn't it? Why don't you just enjoy the friendship for now and take it for as it is and see what happens. If it does, great and you'll deal with that when the time comes. If not, then you got yourself a new great friend. Don't rush it, especially since you're both living so far from each other. It's difficult enough to start/sustain/develop a relationship in the same city, much less long distance. Live the present, and enjoy it.

ongeemobile

Filipinos,filipinas value friendships like we can't imagine.you can hope but be prepared for friends only.also a lot of Filipinos are "strictly" religious when it comes to pre marriage "courting"

Panther

Love works in mysterious ways, maybe she is the one for you maybe not, just keep going as you are and if it is meant to be then it will happen.

bunny baby

i want to share you something.in christian website i chat a lot. i have friends from the Philippines who also chat a lot in there.most of my friends are NUNS who usually chat their.
don't you think she is a NUN?

we use that site to chat with different racist, country, nationality. to have friends only.

randyvous75

let faith take its course...

Trixie

Time will tell. Just carry on with the friendship and get to know each other better. Don't get carried away with your emotions. Always use your head and listen to your gut feelings. If you sense something's amiss or out of the ordinary, take note of it. You can always sense a person's sincerity if they're consistent with what they say. And if things develop more than friendship, then you arrange to meet each other in person to know if there's more worth pursuing with each other.

Keepingmycool

yep, why not?

rosieC

Have you consulted your crystal ball? Now, who better than you is qualified to answer this question? After all, you are the only one communicating with her. At this stage, it's too early in the game, to predict if something other than friendship will materialize. Oh, what was the word anyway. Is that word, salamat? I gather by met, you don't mean physically, right. How are you planning to see each other?
Have you exchange photos? Guess you're not e-mailing nor IM each other. That's the cheaper way and the faster way. Learning the language helps although most Filipina know how to communicate in English. Salamat is thank you. Mahal Kita is I love you. Paalam is goodbye or Aloha.

Yes if she's single. It's easy to fall in love with filipinas because they're sweet and loving .

i go loony

Well, of course, whatever you desire can be possible. If your feelings start to develop, you can't do anything but satisfy your heart... But whatever your present feelings are, let them be... Just allow it to go freely as it wishes. If it can't go that far, that would surely be the limit and that would be what the two of you are meant to be.. So, accept it...

sliver

well i you have a thing for Filipina girls then go for it! Follow what your heart is telling you. Dont listen to racist people out there you know that intermarriage is not uncommon in the Philippines

dede

yeah why not..enjoy the moments first, dont rush

double_g

yes!!!! but be careful.

eudaemon

You are in a situation much like mine Aron W, I to have started conversing with a girl from the Philippines. we have chatted for a while now and all is going well . I am planning to go there sometime in 2008. I am not sure what I must do to get approval from her family. I do not know if they would object to the idea of having an American as part of their family, I slowly am beginning to care more for her and if she and her family will have me in 2008 we will be married there. Of course I am presupposing our relationship will eventually head that way. The girl that I have been writing to also has offered to teach me Tagalog, and though I have had trouble with it, I will learn enough to say Hello and show respect to her and her family. Another thing you wrote is similar to my situation is that the Filipina I am chatting with lives near Manila. She has lately been signing off with the words "Mahal Kita" which I will later learn the meaning of. Best of all things to you and your friend.

pinoyscrewer

Yes, definatly, persue the relationship, you will not regret it

marylebone

I'd be very careful if I were you. Trust your instincts. Don't spend any money on her .

sen

good luck aaron, but word of caution though... know her well before doing anything rash... i believe some people think that we filipinas are just after opportunity to live abroad but please be careful in stereotyping filipinas bec u dont really know us well....

Roti-Prata

"nouenyn" gave a very meaningful answer to your question.

I run a business in Manila for 3 yrs & it went burst. I've no
major complaints of the Philippino people. But the people I dealt
with are mostly "untrustworthy" type. This does not mean that
all Philippino are unreliable. Of course, there are some good ones around. I'm sure you know that...

I think.....
you must keep your eyes wide open, use your head more than your heart and give discount on all their "promises".....In the final analysis, only time will tell and only you will know...Good Luck.

Anthony C

sometimes people from other countries just do that so they can move to the u.s. but if she's a good person she wouldn't play you like that. if you happen to get close and discuss marriage, i would recommend asking her about staying in the philippines. if she says no, then you know she's just playing you.

allan y

yup, no probs.

Wenielyn

well better not to trust anyone online but then Filipinos value friendship!..

but be careful to the people online..

and for NIGHTHOWLER!...i banned her..
its not true that all filipina doing that but all the people online!!!

ravy2006

no of course , because who will pay the ticket ?

ssangyongs

just be careful, that's my advice. if u really want to court her make sure u meet her first. because online dating with a pinay is dangerous. many many people have been cheated including myself. just be careful now so that if anything bad happen you dont suffer too much

dcw13

Any thing is possible.
But be carefull, most Filipina only want to become US citizens and will do what ever it takes to get here.
I seen it happen, they marry you, come to USA, wait and then divorce you soon.
i wouldnt trust anyone online, especially not an American citizen

NightHowler

Don't be a Dork. People from these countries will say and do anything to get out. She will tell you that she loves you and will marry you...just to get out...End it...NOW.

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