mimisnan
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I think that in order to love someone, you have to know them well and that once you feel love for them, nothing else matters.
I do however think that who you choose to know well is all too often and too severely influenced by not only by physical characteristics (height and weight) but also on things like manner of behavior, style of dress, physical disabilities, etc... etc. Consider how much interest you may have in getting to know the school/office nerd, prankster, obese person, weirdest dresser, etc?
Here's an example from my own past; Many ears ago, I met a man who managed the I.T. department where I worked. He was always very impeccably dressed., handsome, well educated, very good at public speaking and he had a very well paying job, even for those times. He seemed responsible and dependable. He would have been a very good choice for any "shorter" woman's date book. He was positively the shortest man I have ever seen that had a normal physique. He honestly could not have been taller than 5'2" and I am 5'8" in my stockinged feet, 5' 10 -11" in heels. My interest was none, zero. I just couldn't get past the height difference.
So I guess that when it comes to the emotion "Love" that physical attributes have nothing at all to do with it, but they can mean everything when you choose who to love. |
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PAul Onizuka
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it doesn't matter what he is physically all that matter is that you him,maybe you should accustom when you're having sex "Joke" |
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dragonlady
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No.. I dont think so.. I ve been overweight almost all my life having large bone structure. My father is half american/half spanish so im quite tall too.. Even during college i weigh about 170-180 lbs and still have a steady realtionship.. I am now married to a very handsome man who loves and cares for me a lot.. when I ask him If he minds that im not model thin he answers that he loves me.. because of who I am and not of how I look like.. but honestly speaking I think personality plays a part too.. Even if i was overweight i was never shy or conscious of how i look...I just didnt care too much what other people think.. As long as im happy with myself then that is what's important..
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Jaimee seeks HARMONY!
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Not at all.
And for the record...the one who's complaining about me...oh dear, I'M TALLER THAN HIM!!!=P |
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Syazzy H
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Dont think so. As long as you they really love each other, there shouldnt be a problem. |
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gary o
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Depends on who is on top
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Lilli Ann M
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Physical differences hardly matter as long as there's strong chemistry and emotional compatibility between lovers.
It's true that some couples look good together because their respective height and weight seem to complement each other but looks could be deceiving. A case in point - celebrity couples.
What is more important is that what is felt; not what is showing (for the sake of just showing). |
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jd
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For thirty eight years I watched my pretty 5ft 2 in 105 Lb wife grow into a 220 Lb beast. Her self esteem and energy went lower as her weight went higher. they way she treated the people around her declined as well.
Eventually she lost all love for herself and for me. She ignored 4 out of 5 grown children and focused on her wild child son. Our oldest.
Yes weight can and will effect a relationship . Even one based on love.
And yes I grew too. I'm about twenty Lbs heavier than when I married her. Gravity has won though. |
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_smile_'s Kometa of Biga-a
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No..
If the guy love you. He should accept you as you. Thin or Chubby. Tall or petite.
:)
-- I THINK you have a problem? :) |
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STL Biker
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Yes weight does have something to do with love and so does the perceptions of others concerning weight and height. Falling in love has alot to do with attraction. |
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xer0blast
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love has nothing to do with everything... love accepts everything... |
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annabelle p
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NO. Height and weight does not matter, what matters is how deep and true is your love for each other. Just as age does not matter as long as both have the maturity to understand what a love relationship entails and are ready and willing to face and overcome whatever obstacles there might be in their relationship. |
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ThinkTank
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Don't worry irog. Not a deal for five years and more should you be willing to renew the contract. |
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FACEZ TOP DOGG
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In the beginning yes, you could for example fall in love with a skinny person because that is your taste.
Then as time goes bye the skinny person picks up weight, but you love the person so you accept the weight that he/she picks up.
as far as height goes is part of your type of people you're in to.
On the other hand you might fall in love with someone completely different to your taste. |
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snigdhakurni
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height or weight related to love ....
no , i think
but a person needs a slim and a person with a good structure they surely look through them
but according to me i think that a person needs to love a person he must first go through the persons character and not his or her physical appearence ....
but you also cannot love a person with a bad structure
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i go loony
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love which means to accept everything despite anything is always easier SAID than DONE... at least to most men... maybe because men's love is often base on somebody else's physical atttributes... it ain't fair... |
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RHEA
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weight and height should not matter at all. if people are in love, they can get past the physical things.
can you imagine how many couples would have separated/divorced if change in weight is a factor in dissolving a marriage??? |
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ββββββββββββ
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I dont find fat girls attractive |
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heartburn
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my 500 pound wife is one of a kind,you cannot ask for more. |
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Jacinto Luis
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It is all in the mind. Love is relative, focus on the good. Weight is just misplaced energy and being short is underdeveloped genetics. If you condition your thoughts to filter the negatives and absorb the positives, the best things in a relationship will always shine through. |
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Juan C
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true love doesn't is not measured in physical appearance... |
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