
vintagechic1
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It seem's to work for some, but I would'nt do it. |
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jijo p
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no way
my cousin met her husband online
today they r happily married
so i feel its perfectly cool |
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Carl_the_Truth
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No. The internet is a new way of communication. You can meet someone a block away, or 10,000 miles away. |
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?Cleopatra?
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I don't think it's pathetic. It's their life, so it's their choice. Internet is just another medium of communication for two people trying and hoping to find their partner in life. |
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almighty_malachi
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I think it's pathetic that you have nothing better to do than complain about it. |
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Galbi
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nothing wrong with it. if its true love, then wuts the big fuss? |
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kja63
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Not at all. Who wants to be someone's bar pickup? |
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stilettofan
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Hey, I met my hubby online and I don't see it as anything pathetic...It started as a casual chat which ended in to an evening over coffee. Me and my hubby have something in common that we can talk about and feel comfortable at and the internet was just a way for vent out our boredom that time.
It is more pathetic that some people would use the internet paying up for mail to order brides and hooking up with old, wrinkled and horny men and putting the word "love" as the main reason for it. |
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duffy_ivan
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i met the most wonderful person,that has ever come into my life, on the internet,and 18 months ago i was so proud to call her my wife,and please believe me,it was the best thing that i have ever experienced. |
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wanderer
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you never know where you can find the right one for your life time partner, there's no guarantee if you find in real life (not in internet) then she / he's the right one for you, and you will never know untill you get together with her/him. So whatever the way you find your life time partner... it can be good or bad. It's about destiny. So nothing's wrong to use internet to find your lifetime partner.... just a bit carefull and use your instinct. I met my last b/f from internet, and I think he's such a lovely person, nice, kind, sincere that I can't compare with other my ex bf who I met in real life. |
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qt
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No.. If it works for them, why not.. |
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warrior is a child
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i thought so too before but then i realized that's how life has changed. it goes along with the changes or development. society has to adapt to it as well as our culture and values.
it worked for some.i have nothing against it. but i won't do it. how ironic i could be,hahaha |
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hcsrwg
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Not at all. Nowadays it's so hard to find the right person. You could wait to meet them the traditional way, but if you meet them online, this way you can find more about each other, and not waste your time as if you were meeting someone for the first time. Plus, if you're looking for a specific type of person, just type what you're looking for, and in less than 5 seconds you'll get results. Better than roaming down the streets looking for someone who is actually worth it. |
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?
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Nope it isn't pathetic or wrong. It is logical that you meet a better match the more people you meet. |
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Skoota
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No, not at all! In many Western societies, there are all sorts of pressures that limit the amount of time that people have to find a life partner.
Remember too, that most people who use the Internet to help them in their search for a life partner - usually use the Internet in conjunction with other more "traditional" methods of meeting people (e.g. in nightclubs, at bars, etc...) |
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sheer♥black
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I joined a dating site but I just joined because I like filling-out forms lol, like a slam book. But anyways, That's what I was only after and nothing more. But are you talking in general? because I do find people looking for love through chatting, and here in YA. Those are the tactics that really annoys me. Though as silly, desperate, or pathetic it may be, love can do come in different ways. So I guess you can't blame them for doing those things. |
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i go loony
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not really. The internet is a form of communication so people can use this tool to meet other people. It would only be pathetic when people go dirty on the internet just to communicate with other people. |
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NONAME
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no there lot of people are lonely. |
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Goody M
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No. People who are busy at work use the internet for socialization. Internet is available 24-7 and people can use it whenever they have time. |
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?
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Is it any more pathetic than chasing your cousins? |
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sidbishnoi
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no |
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sansrival
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My cousin met her husband through the internet! Yes, it might seems pathetic but it works for others. However, I wont try it! It is not my cup of tea. |
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Palimos Po @ 12
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hi, miss or sir. someone told me the internet is the devil. do you think that's true? i think so. where else can you go to find all sorts of misinformation and life partners. i don't know, everything was much simpler when i was born 12 years ago when we used smoked signals to communicate. oh well. got a quarter, sir or miss? salamat very much! |
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masterofthecode
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You know what jojo it is pathetic.
In fact me and my partner Stuart (who i met at a star trek convention) think its down right stupid |
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Tanya
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Kinda... I understand that people have less time and chance to meet someone as they get older, but still... I don't think I'd do that... |
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filamusa
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It is unfortunate but also it's a reality of life for many people. Of course I would never recommend the internet for people that are looking for a real marriage based on love. It will be mostly a marriage of convenience.
As long as humans live on earth you will always find unappealing guys that are looking for the best looking wife and you will also find very appealing women looking for the most financially stable men.
The internet is the means in which these types of peoples meet. If you take his wealth out of the equation or if she gets the citizenship she wants in another country then she can also use then internet to divorce him. So it has become ironic that the internet that brings people together much more readily can just as readily end marriages. |
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