Filipino Guys, what will you do if you discover on your wedding night that your young wife is not a virgin?

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BBN

i will beat my d*ick black and blue, like crushing the head of snake. you know it ain't useful anymore to begin with...

Spotter 888

Unless you had a contract with her or her family stipulating that she HAD to be a virgin, then that should not be an issue if you really love her. After all, the next night when you go to bed with her she will NOT be a virgin either. How would you feel if after the first night your wife discovers that you are not as long as she thought. Should that be an issue with her?

Why the double standards. Why is it that the female is expected to be a virgin while the male is expected to wildly sow his oats prior to the day.
Is it because, as another answer stated, we males don't want the female to be able to make any comparisins.

To me it would not matter, what does matter is how both parties act and behave after the wedding.

clncarplz

I have 2 answers
First How did you know? Were you a virgin? Do not throw rocks if you live in a glass house.
Second. What difference does it make? What happened before you got together is none of the others business - only what happens after should matter.

I lost my TC Badge >:))

"Filipino Guys, what will you do if you discover on your wedding night that your young wife is not a virgin?Yeah, what will you do? How will you feel?"

u used the adjective "young" wife and virgin... it seemed odd because it seems you're old enough not to be a virgin your self... Yeah what would you do? what would you feel? I'm guessing your not filipino and your praying on filipinas. whats your opinion about this?

setting aside my opinion about perverts.

what will i do? i would love her even more for her past is past. i'm marrying her because i love her and definitely not because she is a virgin!

how will i feel? i would feel blessed and happy that she accepted my proposal to be my wedded wife and willing to share the future with me...

KhK

If two people truly love each other the matters may have disclosed before marriage, this is transparencies. If you love the person then virginity is not an issue but faith, trust, understanding and new life together is.

darcymc

how would you know either way? are you going to hang the wedding sheets from the window?
YOU can just stay living with your mom and dad and looking at your aunt's fat ankles

dave i am

That'll be twice the fun! cause I won't have to teach her everything...

It's ok with me even if I am not aware of her "lack" of virginity...

Bhuwisit

Be grateful that i will be having a great night

Phoenix

I would say that it would be such a pity for the wife if she happens to be a virgin because she can't make a comparison if her husband is a good or a lousy performer.

Now a days, virginity is not that much of an importance unlike fifty or sixty years ago where in a girl's family could lose their faces.

That my finely feathered friend is my personal opinion.

DoubleD

Why should anything be done? You you know how many activities or accidents can tear a hymen? Are you also a Virgin? That shouldn't change love. I find that too many Filipina lie about it, because of the unfair judgment they get from Filipino men.

heartburn

no big deal,time has change.
who is a virgin on their wedding night?

Johny

I'd be cool as I'm the open minded type. But that being said you think you would be honest enough in your relationship to have known that in the first place.

Marlon I.

I would feel okay. Because it doesn't really matter, and that I would have to just put up with being married to a girl who's V-jajay was touched.

I would feel like a chump for not asking before. That of course would mean I'm holding a grudge that isn't my right to have.
If she lied to you about it. That's different.
How did you find out? Are you jumping to assumptions without knowing. Not all virgins bleed you know.

bulastogue

It doesn't matter anymore as long as we are in love with each other

Mickey the zombie

No prob i married her bcoz i love her not the Puke

BMWS GOD

Unless she has had her hymen checked over the years by doctors and its still in tact that is the ONLY way you will ever know barring physical evidence to the contrary(pictures videos). Maybe she said her hymen was broken in childhood by some thing like the usual bike accident. But then you would need a pre accident exam that showed she was a virgin when she walked out the doctors office and another report she had the accident getting on her bike and having the accident 10 seconds later WITH YET another doctors report the hymen was ripped in the accident. See where I'm going here? Even if her hymen not intact but she says she's not a virgin its impossible to know. Women who have has sex once can fake it. She can act scared and push you away as your pushing in.
Plus any guy who has had sex knows never marry a virgin.

Bruno Taroogho

just say to yourself, maybe she rides bikes a lot or is physically active that her hymen broke. these things happen, you know. c'mon it's the 21st century, even the most innocent looking chicks "explore" with their boyfriends, some or most of them.

Nurse Fan

Most Pinay's lie about it anyway. By the time you are married you should have found out already.
For me I could care less, just tell the truth to your new husband.

Juan C

well, if she's been lying to me at first, letting me believe that I'm the first one to touch her, I would feel betrayed...

Hot Head

dick head....... the best defense for an idiot like you is to sign a pre-nuptial agreement, put your wishful thinking in writing!

lancecampeau

I would want to beat up her brother or father

A.W.

I think you got too many hangups about sex. Are you gonna do a pelvic exam after the wedding? If you don't know the answer to this "mystery" BEFORE you contract for a lifetime partner then YOU are stupid.

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