Filipino girls?....any good ones out there?

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Johny

There are plenty of good ones mate. They're not all out for your money. Ofcourse you will get those that are but even so its not as hard as you would think to meet decent women there. If you stick to the bigger cities like Manila I'm sure you'll have a good time because its pretty well built up in alot of areas and you would feel in place. Don't do the online thing as its just a waste of time. If you want real results in this world you have to get out there and do some searching. Foreigners don't have problems getting girls because there is a never ending sea of them.

If your out and about one day like in a mall or you see a shop assistant you fancy then stirke up a polite conversation and if it goes well then I'm sure she will give you her number. Most girls are shy to some extent but if you come of as genuinely interested then they will open up more. They do things differently there in alot of respects so it might take abit of time to get a basic understanding.Filipina girls are probably one of the best when it comes to being a good partner. They are loving and will treat you well but they also do keep it interesting in alot more ways if you get what I mean. But yeah go there for awhile and check it out and I'm sure you won't regret it. You can look up a country on the net all you like but that doesn't count for jack until your on the ground there. For me the Philippines is the hidden gem of SE Asia. I go there twice a year for months on end because its just that kind of place where you'll have so many more reasons to come back than not to.

Hope that helped

robert L

Hi Tyler, It's a good question this one. As even an average wage earner from your country you will be a few steps up the ladder from the average wage earner in the Phils. Your obvious foreigner status will make you a target for both street crime and swindles of the heart. At the same time this obvious standing out condition is a draw back it will also open doors for you. I expect you will need only a smile and a friendly hello to get you started with a single pinay on the street. This is a plus for you as the average pinoy won't get much response without an introduction from a friend or relative to represent him as "OK." The pinay is loathsome to be chatted up by guys on the street. [Unless things have changed quite a bit since I was there] If you pay attention with your head and your heart and not just your eyes and not fool yourself because you want the pretty girl so bad, you will be able to tell who is who and what she is after. The thing is, there are so many girls looking to escape the level of poverty the economy subjects them to that you will likely need to work through several. Try to get out of the city. Meet the girl you would not normally come in contact with. If all you do to meet women is go to a tourist night clubs you won't find more than bar-flies.
Look to making friends with some older solid citizens. People you trust and show them as much respect as you have in you. I can't stress showing respect enough. Be polite in ways you never thought you could be. If you are able to display this behavior properly you will get invited to meet who you are looking for. This is not a quick, fast and in a hurry thing to try. Relationships in the Phils are built over time. If you rush into a relationship emotionally and sexually you will regret it severely. The kind of girl you are looking for won't go for being rushed. She will be as careful about you as you are about her.
Poor is not a bad thing. Money hungry is the bad thing. You can find a great gal right off the farm that will bear you children and devote herself to your happiness and serve at your side as a partner as long as you show her respect and romance and devotion as well. You can never see her as some girl you rescued from the poverty of a third world economy. Your pinay will love her country and her food [get ready for that] with undying and unyielding devotion. She will need to go back from time to time to reconnect with her roots. This may be something you are not ready for as you can take the pinay out of the Phils but you can't take the Phils out of the girl. Good luck and happy hunting.

A.W.

NEWS FLASH: Every woman in the world expects the man they marry to support them and their kids, if they have any. It has been the arrangement since the beginning of time. ALL RACES!!

Where is the downside of having a beautiful, loyal, hard working, sexy, Filipina fill that slot? If you're planning to marry a girl from Singapore and just want to sew your wild oats with some cute Filipinas, don't even bother to get off the plane. You are in no position to be looking down your nose at anybody. Your giving all us decent men a bad rep. Good luck in Singapore. Bring antibiotics.

Jaimee seeks HARMONY!

Oh dear Tyler....I hope this is the Brad Pitt character giving thoughts about Filipino women, and not the Edward Norton character..or I would be totally shocked!=P

I remembered you've already asked this very same question few months back. I'm wondering even why you are not in Singapore yet. *frown*

Anyway, to answer your question (and I hope I'm not giving the same thoughts when I answered your previous post regarding this), if you are to search for "dating sites", you would have a mix of choices from dirt poor, desperate, goofing, simply looking for a date, etcetera....You may even be one of those.

The Philippines is a "Developing Country"...it may still be part of the 3rd World category, but the country is in the rise even with too much corruption and politicking in our system. 80% of the Farming population does not mean that all those 80% are poor. This is Southeast Asia baby...basic produce in this region is based on farming.

I guess, at 28 years old, you are old enough to assess the lady you will be dating. There are gold-diggers everywhere, not just Filipinos. So if you are to date a lady whatever race and/or ethnicity they are in...be a good boy and use your common sense before you exclude US Filipinos from the decent ones.

Carl_the_Truth

The PI is a poor country.There is a lot of poverty there.Women out number men something like 4 to 1.But there are tons of nice Filipinas there. You run the risk of a gold digger with any woman you go out with.You can be used by a woman from any country.
Simple, tell them you don't have much money !

Margie K

I'm telling you frankly you don't have the attitude that a filipina who is looking for a good man can accept. Read your post closely. You are not serious.

â™¥ diamond â™¥

There is poverty everywhere. What you are looking for is a rich Filipina.
I'm sure you will have fun in Singapore too.

Alessandra M

I am half Filippina
the guy I dated I thought was a janitor
he told me that he wanted to do a certain job and it sounded like he was going to be a janitor
found out later he was a dentist
is not my fault

and anyway,
why do some men want girls? for sex
so if it is NORMAL for guys to want girls for sex, why is it bad for the poor Filippinas to want a man for money when they are being used for sex?

I am fortunate to come from an educated family, I am not a golddigger
but if a man is searching for a woman because of her looks then he should not be disappointed if in return she wants money

When I pick a man, I will be honest and cut the crap
I look for a man who is smart and good looking
if they are not good looking or smart, then I do not care if they have money I will not go out with them

some Filippinas prefer money over looks
they will date a fat man who has money

a lot of guys out there would never date an ugly girl
so they are looking for looks
why does a guy come up to me at the mall if he does not know me and asks for my number? because I am good looking to him.

if you mind dating an ugly girl with not a lot of breasts, then don't be suprised if a woman wants money from you

you want something shallow, then they want shallow in return

you always attract people who are like you in your life, quantum physics

Anne C

it is indeed a developing country, and there will be girls that would go in for you because of your money (as it would happen in any part of the world, if I may say). But there are a lot of good and decent people in there too. How to meet them? Be decent, go to decent places, and talk decently..treat people with respect and you'll be respected (not because of your money) but because you are deserving of it.

PS> my apologies for the few unpleasant responses that you've got..the tone of your question might have been taken in by some as a racist remark from a an insulting s3x tourist -- which I am sure you're not.

Do you think American girls aren't sitting in wait for the guy with the right kind of financial future?
Why would any woman want a man that doesn't? What ever his race.
Yes many are looking for the rich foreigner but many wouldn't have one.
If you are looking for a good girl for a true long term relationship you have to spend time with her in her world . Not on a computer where you can't see how many she is talking to.

iscikedelic

I THINK YOU'LL KNOW THAT, YOU'RE OLD ENOUGH TO GRASP PEOPLE'S INTENT.
THE QUESTION IS WHAT IS YOUR INTENT?

B Byrd

Well with the cost of living for Singapore compared to the PI you may wish you were back in the PI with a poor woman spending your money!

There are other forums that might help you out a little.
http://www.go2phil.com/

Get used to having people in Asia assuming that you are wealthy! That's just the way it is, if you have the money to fly halfway across the world to their country you must have some moola!

Good luck!

Fidel Joseph A

What can I only say are the good qualities of most Filipinas as I have a mum and sisters although they're no longer living in Phils.

Let me point out first there are many Filipinas around the world happily married to other nationalities and for sure with you'll also going to meet someone you deserve.

Just an example here in Australia the richest woman is a Filipina widowed to a mining magnate.

By the looks of it amongst Aussies married to Filipinas as less likely to have divorce.

Just one basic rule of thumb common sense dictates many indications if a girl is up for something else other than have an intimate and loving relationship with you. Just be careful though.

As they say be a Roman when in Rome. Filipinos as easy to get along with although there are many strange stuff in the culture but if you make her feel of your genuine intention I'm sure it'll help.

Many years back when courting a Filipina girl you also need to court the family and in your situation just be careful it might be costly.

Good luck!

Reyna D D

what do u want a girl to expect from a man... security and the ability to feed a family. and life long support.
thats one of the main reason..apart from love and responsibility..
when u say poor..yes they are poor.. there are girl all over the world who are poor and looking to get out of poverty....it isnt they fault that they see money first.
well if u feel filipino girls are in for ur money.. how come u are not getting any girls from ur country?

vermaizcool

hell no!!!!

heartburn

our economy is not base on farming,it is on prostitution.
find a singaporean girl,not a filipina.
they don't need you or your money.

Purple Tactics

You can come visit the Philippines and I'll let you screw my cousins.
They'll call you Joe, will be expecting the occasional handouts of one dollar bills and they'll all say "Me so horny" all the time.

- "What do we get for 10 dollars?"
- "Everything you want."
- "Everything?"
- "Everything!"

Duff

First off learn how to spell P-H-I-L-I-P-P-I-N-O!!!
And do you even have money for them to see you as?

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