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Ronald Duck

I'd just say she's abnormal. Are there still the likes of her in these days ?
The age of virgins in this century is getting lower and lower.

Who wants to know

Unrealistitc. If no guys ever kissed her, there must be something wrong about her. I can see some people want to save their viginity before getting married but never kissed a guy is not real. She must be a stuck up,ugly and lives in a la land but she thinks she is beautiful and no one can touch her, she should plan to live in a nursing home all by herself. I would question her mental health.

Bhuwisit

I won't necessarily scream 'psycho alert' but based on past experiences, i will almost categorically yell 'high maintenance' or 'serious emotional/intimacy/trust issues'. Certainly 'no fun killjoy' may also be an apt description.

I mean seriously, why would any supposedly mature and secure ADULT woman deny herself some simple life pleasures like kissing or even holding hands, for crying out loud? Please don't hide behind the cloak of the Catholic Church to answer this one. Why would anyone repress such normal behavior and feelings and worse yet, impart that pain to others when they date them?

Can you say masochist too?

elouish

I think she should already have her love.

Jordan S

i think its cute... :D

UXB

This is a "STARTREK WOMAN" - where no man has gone before!

I think she is so inexperienced that her expectations may be a little too high in her first relationship. She hasn't had the little disappointments and frustrations that previous relationships would have given her. She may be quite a bit disappointed when she finally does gets a man!

She may not care for the first man she finally gets because he does not fulfill her fantasies! The longer she waits to have her fantasies fulfilled the harder it will for an ordinary man to meet that demand!

Any serious guy should let someone else take this car out for a road test or two before a committed relationship takes place!

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Or perhaps her fantasies do not include males at all!

Big P

No I don't think she is a psycho.
I would have to know more about her to find out what her conservatism come from. I would assume that she was raised with a high awareness
of the world around her or the entire world. We are not all meant to think and live the same way.

I know a young 23 year old man who sold his life to serving god by spreading the gospel of Jesus to the lost and reaching out to people just as Jesus did. He is not interested in dating at this time.

Ignorant people creating rumors that he is gay and hiding in the closet.
I guess this is part of the trials he must face when serving God sincerely.

Yak Rider

The virgin part is fine, I don't blame her the way things are these days. It's the rest... never held hands, never been kissed ... part that would worry me. There's some deep psychological problem and I don't think I'd want to deal with it at all.

Extremely admirable. She has been true to herself and would be someone to walk with.
People that think with their crotch have nothing to offer.

Spotter 888

Two things. Either she is overly cautious with the men she dates or she hasn't really found Mr. Right. After all, there is no set age for someone to start having a relationship. Some start early, some, later in life. Others have multiple relationships, one after the other.

You see, if a woman has her first love at 30 vs. a woman who had it at 21, does it make her less "normal"? I don't think so.

For love comes from the most unexpected places.

Juan C

it's called "waiting for Mr. Right"...

neat chic

Nothing psycho about it!! definitely. It would be quite hard to believe that she had not held hands with a guy though, however, for a conservative lady whose values (and beliefs) are intact, this still could be possible. And about the viginity thing, well remember this: for a virgin lady to go out there and be like anybody else, it will only take one night. But for aggressive girls (too available so as to get away with being tagged as uncool), to become a virgin, never again!

payatstephen

If she is a true Filipina brought up in in the true Filipino culture then it is admirable...Try and read Dra. Lordes Lopez' book "The Psychopathology Of The Filipina"

Lilli Ann M

I can appreciate that she's still unattached and has had no serious commitment at that age but I cannot fathom that she has had no physical contact (whatsoever) with the opposite sex. I can also accept that she may still be a virgin but never been kissed/never held hands, that is far-fetched.

Nowadays, when you go on dates (even the most casual ones), light kissing and holding hands are inevitable.

I don't really know if I find her admirable. If at all, I find her incredibly out of this world.

Westchester P

psycho

J@ps

We all have certain moral, cultural, ethical if not religious beliefs that we hold to. And some do have a thing for what is now call as single-blessedness, but for the not for the most of us mere mortal beings.

So whatever beliefs you hold on to if that is what is keeping you on this lifestyle, then I commend you. Holding hands & the kissing thing you can do with the opposite sex without being malicious or being overly sexual about it though. So that part you can probably experience less you be labelled as a little bit weird, especially in this day & age.

Big B

Love, sex and eventual marriage come to people at different times in their lives. Its nothing to be shameful or embarrased about - its all in the timing. You could meet 100 guys and sleep with them all and still never find the right person until u reach 200.

How many people you have been with really doesnt matter. Only teenagers and people who havent grown up mentally only care about that kind of stuff. For people who are adults - mentally as well as physical - love comes to you when its meant to happen.

Mawia

Not a problem.

She is at an extreme advantage, likely to have reached maturity without the sexual, emotional and health complications that many others have had since they were 13. She is also likely a mature individual; confident, possibly accomplished in one of the fine arts or a sport or in advanced studies.

Too bad there aren't more young women like this is in the world.

@@love@@

Hi, maybe she enjoys dating but doesn't want to commit and compromise.

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