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Beauty is d Beast

I was born a leader. I am the priority. Wait, i'll ask my wife if I can post this.

mared

I used to be in that situation, but I must love myself first before anything else.

annabelle p

Uhuh. My grandkids. I make them my priority now. Understandably, they make me their option. They always have me to turn to and take care of them in the absence of their mothers however, they can forget about me if and when the mothers are around. LOL

Lia

yes, to someone who I'm head over heals for =(

sheel

Hi, sorry i'm not answering your question, but um can i have your email address? Mine is sheel2sweet@yahoo.com

Mary Magdalene is my mom

It happens to all of us. Yes, you are right, we "allow" it.

Graham H

Yes. Because we treat people as if they are what we hope they are rather than what they really are.

kamagong

Parents allow their kids (esp. teenagers) do that to them most of the time.

E=MC2

Yes, and it was terrible! It went on for 2 years, which in retrospect was 2 years too long.

I changed my life and turned myself into a person that I am not, just so I could fit into her life and possibly retain her love.

This was a huge mistake because I lost my "sense of self" my "self esteem" and my sense of "self worth."
These 3 things are the building blocks of a healthy personality.

I got so weary from being in a relationship, yet deep down inside being so lonely.
I will NEVER allow that to happen again.

Here are some things that I learned in that 2 years:

I am a caring loving human being, worthy of the same love in return.

I am who I am, I am not perfect, but my life and my ways are good.

If another does not fit into my life I will move on for the sake of my own happiness and sanity.

Trust your instincts. If the "Little Voice" inside of you is telling you that "things are not right" then they probably aren't.

It is better to be alone than to be in a relationship and be lonely.

Good luck!

Alex P

that is actually what im in right now.... its not very nice huh?

huckabee13

yes, i was stupid.Never again.

kentenooo

i think most people have,maybe you should cut your loses sooner than later

Polly Cracker

tsk tsk not fair!

maya

Surely. My guardian for one. Without him, I don't know where I would be. Probably freezing in foster care but I'm merely his option. He can get rid of me anytime he wants. He didn't even have to take me in in the first place. That's why I'm so greatful to him :)

Android

yes. i was very young then. i attended a birthday party of a friend. when i saw him there, i was very elated. all i wanted was to sit on his lap and let him cuddle me. at the time, he was bigger than life for me. i prepared very well for the occasion. i even wrote some things i wanted to say.

but all he did was dance, dance, move around, and dance some more. sometimes, i would stand in front of him just to get noticed. but he didn't care. he mingled and had photos with other guests and visitors like i wasn't there. we'll true, sometimes we'd spend some time together. but they were only brief moments. and then he'd go around the room. because i was dejected, i didn't really eat much.

after we had arrived home, i cried and told my parents. they explained that he was just a busy man. his name is jollibee. oh, the memories!

but we're okay now. thanks, i finally got that out of my system.

iscikedelic

If you truly care for somebody I think you doesn't care whether you're his number one priority or not.

Juan C

never...

Mickey the zombie

no, im a very selfish mouse and i only care about myself

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