How to filrt, please!!?

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2bzy

A big smile.

:)<3

go with the flow. do your own thing. it's a natural phenomenon.

carlos

oh come on
tease
tease
tickle
smile
it'll come naturally

Silly World

With those eyes and lips it should be easy

jepz

if you have nice legs, wear a short skirt and develop eye contact to a person while revealing some of your skin at the same time.

skeptic

wow!!!!!... careful of what u ask 4....

Binibini

have mercy!

tomoyuki

???just be yourself

chhyeahxsummer

Confidence.

piaryel

basic rule: eye contact!!!

PG_13

it is your tricks to invite their attention. show your romantic words.

gurlielash

hmmm...Filrt?

Neivy

If you like someone tell them that you like them, if you know why, which you should, then tell them why you like them.

crayola

KEEP IT ON THEIR LEVEL (APE) MAKE IT SIMPLE AND KEEP IT REAL. COMPLIMENT HIM TELL FUNIE JOKES

Possibly the most important rule to remember when flirting with any guy!
Be conscious of your appearance.
No, this does not mean you need to look like a stunning, blonde Barbie doll. Not every guy wants a plastic doll. It means that you should be elegant and clean looking. You donâ€™t need to be drop dead gorgeous. Be sure that you shower and clean yourself regularly. You should also wear deodorant, shave frequently, clean you ears, brush your teeth and hair, and you could try to paint your nails. Also, try to wear your hair in a style that makes you feel pretty and use a perfume that smells sweet, but is not too overpowering. Being conscious of your appearance also means you have to have some level of fashion sense. You donâ€™t need to have millions of expensive clothes to look cute because some simple fashions never go out of style. Try sporting dark, slimming jeans, a simple solid colored tank or cami, some chunky bead necklaces, or a cute sun dress.
Donâ€™t go overboard or youâ€™ll look like you tried way too hard. Also, donâ€™t wear clothes that reveal too much or youâ€™ll look like a ****, most guys like breasts but it will attract other male attention. Sometimes cover-up, mascara, eyeliner, and lip gloss are helpful to play up your appearance and make you look fabulous. But donâ€™t get too caught up in your appearance, there are plenty more things you need to know.

Achieve the Perfect Personality.
Whenever you talk to your special guy think of the three Sâ€™s: Sweetness, Sexiness and Smarts. Sweetness comes with vulnerability, shyness and kindness. These three factors are especially important because they are what make your hottie feel especially masculine. To act vulnerable and shy try tucking your hair behind your ears, smiling charmingly and batting your eyelashes, but make sure that you practice so it doesn't look like there is something in your eye. Or you could pull your (long) sleeves over your hands and hold on with your thumbs. Then straighten your arms out (downward) and maybe bite your lower lip and raise your eyebrows.
Act Right
There are multiple ways to act flirty, here are some of the best suggestions:

Compliments- Be sure to compliment them on things that are true. Sometimes people will make up compliments just to talk to someone, but that is the total wrong thing to do. You really should compliment on things you really like, so you sound more sincere naturally.

Intense Eye-The intense eye is a trick that models spend years perfecting. You must give your hottie an intense stare that is both sexy and mysterious at the same time. You should try practicing the look in the mirror, and if completed correctly you should feel as sexy as a celeb.

Eyelash Batting- This trick is one of the oldest tricks known to man. It gives you a sweet and vulnerable factor, which guys love because it make themselves feel powerful. Remember to practice this if you intend to use this technique.

Hair Flip and Twirl- If you want to catch a guys attention, flip your hair casually over your shoulder, twist it and then untwist it, tuck it behind your ears, or run your hands through it.

Soft Giggle and Smile-According to polls, a laugh and a smile are the sexiest things a female can wear. If you perfect your smile and laugh to be seductive and sweet, you will find some great results. Practice forcing a natural smile and laugh, it can help through awkward situations.

Magic Touch- You can learn to brush a guy in such a way that you send tingles up and down his spine. Casually tap him while laughing, rest your head on his shoulder if youâ€™re tired and hold his hand when you're nervous; it will give him a sense of manliness and you a touch sweetie-pie, no pun intended.
Approach him and start a conversation, but don't make it too obvious that you like him. If he approaches you, look him in the eyes as a sign of affection and confidence.
Try to touch him whenever you can, on his arm or wherever else. Don't make it too obvious.
Just barely touch his left shoulder as you reach for something or whisper into his left ear. the left side is linked with the right brain,which is more in tune with emotions.
Play with your hair or clothing.
Once you've got his attention, look him in the eyes and smile. If he smiles back, slowly look down, and repeat. Guys like girls who can show off their smile.
Don't make it too obvious when he's around his friends, unless you know that he likes you.
Laugh with him, and help him to feel comfortable around you.
Find a reason to whisper something in his ear.
Don't try to be someone you aren't. You attract the kind of person you are. For example, don't pretend to be a jock when you're really a poet.
Talk about what you have in common, and ask questions about what you don't. People love to feel like they're interesting. (And heck, they probably are, too.)
Say his name a lot. This shows you're interested in who he is. Give him a nickname so you two have a little inside joke to share. Most likely, he'll give you one, too.
End it by saying "I have to go but maybe I'll see you around soon," or something else you feel comfortable with. The point is make it clear that you're leaving, but if he's interested, he's welcome to pursue you...if you're feeling bold, you can give him your number, or even get his.

[edit] TipsTo look sweet try a simple outfit, such as a skirt and tank, with elegant jewelry, in a pale pastel color. For a more sexy look, go for more powerful colors, such as metallic silvers and deep pinks. Try some big jewelry, smoky makeup, a denim skirt and poof; major sexy cat. Meeow.
Count to 2 before responding to anything he says. [This may help those who tend to interrupt people or talk a lot]
Think "flirt" when you talk. You will automatically lower your voice and sound seductive.
Demand respect! If he talks perverted around you, don't laugh. He will think its okay and talk about that with you more often and begin to think of you just as a friend. If you demand respect, he will give it to you.
If you are sitting across the room from each other and you happen to look up and see him looking at you, don't turn away. Make eye contact and smile!
Likewise, if you are crushing on him and staring from across the room and HE happens to look up and catch you, don't be embarrassed, but don't smile and shyly look away. Then, try to make eye contact with him again, and THIS time, smile! But, if the first time he smiles at you, obviously you should smile back.
Practice everything in a mirror.
Try to be unique
Make sure your guy is worth it, and not just a hot body.
Most importantly, have fun. This is your man, your experience and your life.
Don't flip your hair too much, instead find a small stray chunk and twist it around your fingers.
Try not to make it obvious that you are flirting.
Don't try too hard to impress him.
Be yourself, and add some flirting to go with it.
Auto-erotic touching (touch your lips, neck, chest with your fingers or hands) - it is something people do subconsciously when they like you, but you can manipulate it.
When he is around only flirt with him, not other guys. If he sees you flirting with someone else, he will think you are just a tease.
Boss him around or call him names (in a nice way); anything to make him notice you. He won't take offense to the name calling if he likes you.
Whenever he's around, make sure you're having fun (laughing, etc.) so that he'll want to join in.
Take a break every now and then to leave him wanting more.
Massages are always nice.
Tell him you'd like to see him again if leaving, or mention that you'd like to try one of his hobbies.
Listen carefully to what he says, and let him know you were listening through your conversation by commenting on what he says.
Remember what he mentions in passing (it's the little things that count) and bring it up later as a question. For example, he says "I've got to go home, I'm helping my sister study for her exam tomorrow." Later, you ask, "How did your sister (call her by her name if you know it - it shows you can put two and two together) do on the exam?"
Do your research. If he mentions that he loves baseball, ask him if he watched the game on the weekend, and know the score or something that happened so you can talk about it. If you don't know much about what he likes (e.g. Baseball), get him to teach you something about it - he will feel knowledgeable and important, and it's the perfect excuse to spend time with him.
Don't ever lieto him. if you are sad and he picks up on let him know what is

argonort

be yourself...... smile and make em laugh
you can look like the elephant man but make em laugh and
there putty in your hands trust me

beckham.pelletier

just play with your friend and find out what they like

make them laugh and just go slow

z3b3rd33

errm, same **** peeps sez fo years, tha wurld ovah.

Jus be urself.

DEE CON JESTED

stare and when they look back sort of lookaway and look back then lick your lips, or bite yor bottom lip! seriously!

anino

Just relax and be yourself dealing with guys... a nice smile and sincere concern is a plus.

numanuma201

Idk never had a"partner"

CONNER

have coffidence in your self. what do you think is flirting? i would smile at him/her alot. and just talk casual. be his or her friend. drop a pencil ask him or her to get it. sit beside him orher at lunch. dont do that all the time though. you'll just give it all a way.

Robear

be yourself!

F riends
L ove
I t
R eally
T ruly

b.johne k

be honest i quess that word is flirt? your so beautiful i could suck you up with a straw works for me!!!!!!!!

some ******

go up to a guy grab his *** look in his eyes then walk away. he will remember u forever and when he sees you agian he will be at your feet

ella

Possibly the most important rule to remember when flirting with any guy!
Be conscious of your appearance.
No, this does not mean you need to look like a stunning, blonde Barbie doll. Not every guy wants a plastic doll. It means that you should be elegant and clean looking. You donâ€™t need to be drop dead gorgeous. Be sure that you shower and clean yourself regularly. You should also wear deodorant, shave frequently, clean you ears, brush your teeth and hair, and you could try to paint your nails. Also, try to wear your hair in a style that makes you feel pretty and use a perfume that smells sweet, but is not too overpowering. Being conscious of your appearance also means you have to have some level of fashion sense. You donâ€™t need to have millions of expensive clothes to look cute because some simple fashions never go out of style. Try sporting dark, slimming jeans, a simple solid colored tank or cami, some chunky bead necklaces, or a cute sun dress.
Donâ€™t go overboard or youâ€™ll look like you tried way too hard. Also, donâ€™t wear clothes that reveal too much or youâ€™ll look like a slut, most guys like breasts but it will attract other male attention. Sometimes cover-up, mascara, eyeliner, and lip gloss are helpful to play up your appearance and make you look fabulous. But donâ€™t get too caught up in your appearance, there are plenty more things you need to know.

Achieve the Perfect Personality.
Whenever you talk to your special guy think of the three Sâ€™s: Sweetness, Sexiness and Smarts. Sweetness comes with vulnerability, shyness and kindness. These three factors are especially important because they are what make your hottie feel especially masculine. To act vulnerable and shy try tucking your hair behind your ears, smiling charmingly and batting your eyelashes, but make sure that you practice so it doesn't look like there is something in your eye. Or you could pull your (long) sleeves over your hands and hold on with your thumbs. Then straighten your arms out (downward) and maybe bite your lower lip and raise your eyebrows.
Act Right
There are multiple ways to act flirty, here are some of the best suggestions:

Compliments- Be sure to compliment them on things that are true. Sometimes people will make up compliments just to talk to someone, but that is the total wrong thing to do. You really should compliment on things you really like, so you sound more sincere naturally.

Intense Eye-The intense eye is a trick that models spend years perfecting. You must give your hottie an intense stare that is both sexy and mysterious at the same time. You should try practicing the look in the mirror, and if completed correctly you should feel as sexy as a celeb.

Eyelash Batting- This trick is one of the oldest tricks known to man. It gives you a sweet and vulnerable factor, which guys love because it make themselves feel powerful. Remember to practice this if you intend to use this technique.

Hair Flip and Twirl- If you want to catch a guys attention, flip your hair casually over your shoulder, twist it and then untwist it, tuck it behind your ears, or run your hands through it.

Soft Giggle and Smile-According to polls, a laugh and a smile are the sexiest things a female can wear. If you perfect your smile and laugh to be seductive and sweet, you will find some great results. Practice forcing a natural smile and laugh, it can help through awkward situations.

Magic Touch- You can learn to brush a guy in such a way that you send tingles up and down his spine. Casually tap him while laughing, rest your head on his shoulder if youâ€™re tired and hold his hand when you're nervous; it will give him a sense of manliness and you a touch sweetie-pie, no pun intended.
Approach him and start a conversation, but don't make it too obvious that you like him. If he approaches you, look him in the eyes as a sign of affection and confidence.
Try to touch him whenever you can, on his arm or wherever else. Don't make it too obvious.
Just barely touch his left shoulder as you reach for something or whisper into his left ear. the left side is linked with the right brain,which is more in tune with emotions.
Play with your hair or clothing.
Once you've got his attention, look him in the eyes and smile. If he smiles back, slowly look down, and repeat. Guys like girls who can show off their smile.
Don't make it too obvious when he's around his friends, unless you know that he likes you.
Laugh with him, and help him to feel comfortable around you.
Find a reason to whisper something in his ear.
Don't try to be someone you aren't. You attract the kind of person you are. For example, don't pretend to be a jock when you're really a poet.
Talk about what you have in common, and ask questions about what you don't. People love to feel like they're interesting. (And heck, they probably are, too.)
Say his name a lot. This shows you're interested in who he is. Give him a nickname so you two have a little inside joke to share. Most likely, he'll give you one, too.
End it by saying "I have to go but maybe I'll see you around soon," or something else you feel comfortable with. The point is make it clear that you're leaving, but if he's interested, he's welcome to pursue you...if you're feeling bold, you can give him your number, or even get his.

[edit] TipsTo look sweet try a simple outfit, such as a skirt and tank, with elegant jewelry, in a pale pastel color. For a more sexy look, go for more powerful colors, such as metallic silvers and deep pinks. Try some big jewelry, smoky makeup, a denim skirt and poof; major sexy cat. Meeow.
Count to 2 before responding to anything he says. [This may help those who tend to interrupt people or talk a lot]
Think "flirt" when you talk. You will automatically lower your voice and sound seductive.
Demand respect! If he talks perverted around you, don't laugh. He will think its okay and talk about that with you more often and begin to think of you just as a friend. If you demand respect, he will give it to you.
If you are sitting across the room from each other and you happen to look up and see him looking at you, don't turn away. Make eye contact and smile!
Likewise, if you are crushing on him and staring from across the room and HE happens to look up and catch you, don't be embarrassed, but don't smile and shyly look away. Then, try to make eye contact with him again, and THIS time, smile! But, if the first time he smiles at you, obviously you should smile back.
Practice everything in a mirror.
Try to be unique
Make sure your guy is worth it, and not just a hot body.
Most importantly, have fun. This is your man, your experience and your life.
Don't flip your hair too much, instead find a small stray chunk and twist it around your fingers.
Try not to make it obvious that you are flirting.
Don't try too hard to impress him.
Be yourself, and add some flirting to go with it.
Auto-erotic touching (touch your lips, neck, chest with your fingers or hands) - it is something people do subconsciously when they like you, but you can manipulate it.
When he is around only flirt with him, not other guys. If he sees you flirting with someone else, he will think you are just a tease.
Boss him around or call him names (in a nice way); anything to make him notice you. He won't take offense to the name calling if he likes you.
Whenever he's around, make sure you're having fun (laughing, etc.) so that he'll want to join in.
Take a break every now and then to leave him wanting more.
Massages are always nice.
Tell him you'd like to see him again if leaving, or mention that you'd like to try one of his hobbies.
Listen carefully to what he says, and let him know you were listening through your conversation by commenting on what he says.
Remember what he mentions in passing (it's the little things that count) and bring it up later as a question. For example, he says "I've got to go home, I'm helping my sister study for her exam tomorrow." Later, you ask, "How did your sister (call her by her name if you know it - it shows you can put two and two together) do on the exam?"
Do your research. If he mentions that he loves baseball, ask him if he watched the game on the weekend, and know the score or something that happened so you can talk about it. If you don't know much about what he likes (e.g. Baseball), get him to teach you something about it - he will feel knowledgeable and important, and it's the perfect excuse to spend time with him.
Don't ever lieto him. if you are sad and he picks up on let him know what is

Mmgirl

Flirting is easy, you just have to be confident in who you are and show some interest in your crush. The best way to flirt is smile a lot and look the person in the eye. Watch other people and learn from them. A lot of it is body language. Open yourself up (no crossed arms or fidgeting) and really have confidence in who you are. Oh and never let someone make you do something you don't want to do.

Andrea P

Don't

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