I hate my Mother!?

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annabelle p

No person is perfect, even you. Don't judge your mother just because she hasn't been doing her responsibility they way you expect or want her to be doing. She is human, after all, just like you and not a robot who, at the push of a button, do your bidding without getting exhausted, without getting sick or even without getting into one of her moods. Please understand that whatever her shortcomings, she deserves to be loved and respected because she brought you into the world because she loves you and wants you with her. And YES, she deserves a gift...a way of showing her your love and appreciation for everything that she has done for you.

Hate is such a strong word to use for the one person who should matter most to you. The person who can understand you and your personality, who would give life and limb to see that you are happy and successful, who would give up her share of the food so that you can have hers and most of all, the one person who can love you without reservations and without expecting any rewards from you.

The baby penguin

no one is perfect...or are YOU?

phoebe c

You may hate her but I bet she loved you..... give her a gift...

jan-na~â™¥~ and im luvin it

think before saying that.

what are the reasons why you hate her? have you been a good child afterall?
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i got this from an email. i think you better read it:

when you were 1 yr old, she fed you and bathed you.
You thanked her by crying all night long.
when you were 2 yrs old, she taught you to walk.
you thanked her by running away when she called.
when you were 3, she made all your meals with love
you thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.
wehn you were 4, she gave you some crayons
you thanked her by coloring the dining room table (or the wall)
when you were 6 she walked you to school
you thanked her by screaming , 'im not going'
when you were 7 she bought you a baseball
you thanked her by by throwing it through the next-door-neighbor's window
when you were 8 she handed you an icecream
you thanked her by dripping it all over your lap
when you were 9 she paid for piano lessons
you thanked her by never even bothering to practice
when you were 10 she drove you all day, from soccer to one bday party after another
you thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back
when you were 13 she suggested a haircut
you thanked her by telling her she had no taste
when you were 15 she came home from work looking for a hug
you thanked her by having your bedroom door locked
when you were 18 she cried at your highschool graduation
you thanked her by staying out partying until dawn
when you were 19 she paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus, carried your bags
you thanked her by saying goodbye outside the dorm so ou wouldn't be embarassed infront of your friends
when you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone
you thanked her by saying 'it's none of your business'
when you were 21 she suggested certain careers for your future
you thanked her by saying 'i dont want to be like you'
when you were 24. she met your fiance and asked about your plans for the future
you thanked her by glaring and growling, 'muuhh-ther,please!"
when you were 25 she helped to pay for your wedding,and she cried and told you how deeply she loved you
you thanked her by moving halfway across the country
when you were 30 she called with some advice on the baby
you thanked her by telling her 'things are different now'
when you were 470 she called to remind you of a relative's bday
you thanked her by saying you were 'really busy right now'
when you were 50 she fell ill and needed you to take care of her
you thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children
and then, one day, she quietly died. and everything you never did came crashing down like thunder on your heart.

if she's still around, never forget to love her more than ever. and if she's not, remember her unconditional love and pass it on. love your mom because you only have one mom in your lifetime

-email from a friend

iceman

If she has done something terrible to you, then no. But by terrible I dont mean petty teenage stuff. I mean hurt you in some serious way.

Otherwise, yes of course she deserves a gift. One day you will probablly realize how good she has been to you.

Saraah

Get her a gift anyway
sometimes its harder than you think to be a good parent

try to understand how she sees things and maybe even sit down with her and talk about how you could relate better with each other.

Good Luck

brown.eyed.gal

NO mother is perfect but she put you into this world, she raised you and the least u can do is get her a little something.
By the way are you perfect???

DeathStar

i NEVER expect this question coming out from Philippines page where mothers are put on a pedestal by Filipinos!

In retaliation, i dont think your mother will dare reply "I hate my child". She will cry in pain when she read your statement.

Any mother in the world deserves a gift and RESPECT on Mother's day.

sherbear6505

yes you should still get her some thing for mothers day because it is your mom

Casey

You may turn the world in rubbles, but she is still your mother and she still deserve respect.
She only gave you life. What is there to say in the card but "Thank You". Thank her for giving you life.

Juan C

no matter what, she is still your mother... be thankful you still have her, some other people don't have one, and even never had one....

???V??? vandalhartz ?????

Hate questions are extremely prohibited but don't you worry because I'm not going to report you.

b0dy_l1ke_wh0a

No mothers the perfect mother, you might look at one of your friends mums an wish she was your mum and on the other hand they might want your mum to be theres!
everyone has different views, and when it comes to family because there so close they say and do what they think is best for you!
Yes your mother deserves a gift, how would you like bringing up your child and not receiving a thank you gift

!cantaridas x_0

I also feel a little hatred for my mother. I was not even thinking about giving her any gift nor greeting her this coming mother's day.
But this morning while washing the dishes, i just didn't know what came into my mind. I was trying to defeat the hatred within me. I could feel that in my heart there's hatred, but i still wanted to recall all the good things she had done for me, even just the very small things like when she hugged me when i was crying, the money she was giving me, her sacrifices, her company, even the lessons, and many more.
Just imagine you also want to have a child someday. And just the thought of that creates a desire that you want to give every good thing to your child. The care; the love; the pride to have a good, respectable mother; every good thing. It made me realize that maybe my mother also wanted to give those things to me, ONLY SHE FAILED, for some reasons. And if ever she really have done something wrong that hurt me so much, why not make her realize that? After all, i've also never been a perfect daughter for her. (I actually wrote that on a Christmas card that i sent her before).
Now i think i'm going to do something special, mayber cook for her or what. And greet her, with a sincere smile, a happy mother's day.

melissa

I hate to spoil it for ya, but nobody is perfect...yes your mom deserves a gift....are you the perfect son she wants you to be?

Bail out BS

"Hate" is a powerful word and it would be the last thing in my vocabulary that I will ever use. But its not the gift that make all the difference its the kind words, love and effection for that woman who carried you for 9 months.
Someday you will come to your senses and regret everything negative you said about her.
Just give her a call and show her some respect, this all what she would ask of you, no matter what is going on between both of you.

Ray H

Yes, the gift should be for the one who gave you life.

wildyoungnfree

Your mother may not deserve a gift from you, any material gift for that matter.

What she deserves is understanding, love and care from you.

Wyles S

of course she deserves a gift, think about it, you may say you hate her, but you don't and if you really do, that is very very sad. You should not try to change your mother into something and someone she is not, she is who she is, and you should be proud that she is your mother. And what if she got into a car accident and died, you are saying you wouldn't miss her at all because you hate her? What if something happened to her, would you honestly be happy because you hate her, and then she would be gone? That is not very nice at all, I am so happy, I love my parents very much so.

Ed P

No human is perfect My mother made a few mistakes in life. she is now 93 going blind has Alzhiemers Last visit I said hi mom she replied who are you..??? Think about the good times remember how you got here

Jesse

she gave u birth

where is everybody?

truthfully, i don't think she's expecting one.

yuta

do you want to give her a gift?
if so, that gift should be came from your heart.

i gave my mom a gift. she's not perfect also.

Marie C

She gave you life, didn't she?

Tinkerbell 2009

duh! y would u hate ur mother! without her u wouldn't be born....grow up dude!

Niss

think about all the pain she went through by giving birth to you, im sure you have a couple of dollars to give her the respect she deserves..she didnt just click her fingers and bam you arrived in this world,your mother most likely went through horrendous pain to have you,but im sure as soon as she looked at you,she thought you were worth it tenfold..now its your turn to show her that she is worth it tenfold. so quit this nonsense and treat her right.

Anonamiss (:

Yes (:

If not you'll regret it one day

Vanessa

YES!!!!! every mother deserves a thank you
she probably took care of you and does deserve a little somthing, my mom deseves a lot because she always buys me a lot of things even thought she isnt home most of the time, and is alwmost never with me....
anyways well yah I deffinatley with give my MOM a gift this weekend.... and maybe she wil too

Mother knows best!

Don't say that!

She is your mother , she had you ,and raised you the best that she could .

"Perfect children makes perfect parents"

A mother's gift, is a son or daughter who give a dam about them once in a while , a phone call a visit ,not the presents!

papaw

Have U been the perfect son she wanted U 2 B?
If U can't B the perfect son, should U expect her 2 B the perfect Mom? Warts & all, she's your mom, and the only one you have. She was wiping your butt and cleaning your nose long before you realized she was the one committed to taking care of U. What do you really think U should do?

If she was a mass murderer, locked in solitary for the rest of her life, she would still deserve something good from you on Mother's day. It's not a matter of what she's done so much as who she is!

And I am sure your not anywhere near the perfect son she would want you to be BUT she still loves you.
All mothers deserve a gift EVERYDAY not just on Mother's Day.

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