Is it better to have loved and lost than spend your life with a psycho?

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sheerâ™¥black

A psychologist, yes. A psycho, no.

I'm quite vulnerable when it comes to the issue of losing a loved one. To be honest Inday, I'm quite afraid of psychologists ever since I was a kid, lol. But still, I prefer a psycho...logist. hehe.

tin2

Yeah right...like I have a choice. From one would-be psychologist to another, here's to your good health and sanity, my cousin dear!

Dragon Prince

Everyone should feel love at least once in their life, even if it results in hurt later. For without love what do we have? personally I think if someone can't experience love then they can't experience anything.

Good luck finding your love

Aref H4

It is, they say, better to have lost and lost than never to have loved at all. But I say, bullshit to that!!

I have always loved, and lost, and never felt any better than the last time.

And I believe, I really do believe, that psychologists are the sweetest, sweetest of all persons on earth, even sweeter than the fruits of my "atis" tree. ( Even though some people would rather chop my beloved tree down.) And spending the rest of my life with a psycho, would make two of us.

Er, I mean, two of us sweetest of people - being flocked by ants in our sweetness. I don't know what I'm talking about. I'm blabbering. I'm always like this when I'm around a psycho.
And the sexiest of all sexy psychologists in town, too!

ennaor_12

yes, especially if your life is on the risk..or your sanity.

annabelle p

Certainly.

purple & pink

yes. ;-)

sweet water

No, I'd rather spend my life with a psycho, as long as the science is removed and things are not overanalyzed.

Bopols

Oh no. Life is too beautiful, yet too short. Live it the best way you can. sweetheart.

dating master

idk

Scooter_The_Squirrels_Wifey

I would say probablly...whether you are talking about a true psycho or a pscychologist either one!

Adam

It is better to love and stay with the one you love for all of time.....

even if she is a pshychologist.

smckech1972

love & lost.

John M

I think it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved. Life is painfully dull if lived with the intention of avoiding pain.

hottstuff

Probably better to have loved.

Your Funeral Guy

loose the psycho.

plays_one_on_tv

That depends on you - your tolerance or ability to accept that your partner will frequently break out about the psychological reasons for certain behaviors, emotional responses, or bring up patterns of such. If it's going to make you nuts over the years, then it's time to regret, be brokenhearted and move on and remember the good times you had while it lasted. If you think you can find ways to smile and not take it too seriously while respecting his/her views, keep what you have and be happy in it.

There are really only 2 questions:

1) Do you feel you are compromising who you are when you are with them to an extent you are uncomfortable with?

2) Do the bad days outweigh the good days?

If the answer to either of those is "yes" then you AND your partner need to work to make some changes to your relationship, or you'll always be stuck in that position. If you can't make those changes either singly or together, it's time to let it go.

jace

if you spend your life with a psychotic guy, you must be crazy.

but once you decide to spend your life with a psychotic guy because you Love him.

you will be admired by people of your unconditional love.

bobby

no problem psychologist are most physcos themselves

Bato

I'm a psycho...

I guess only you can answer that...

EDIT:

Wait, now I get it, you're a psychologist! I love psychology and I had a crush before who was a Psych student. I was not able to make my move for I feel something is lacking and situation dictates not to.

I was also close to my guidance councilor during high school, we had and argument and things were not settled due to certain circumstances. She apologized, through my friend, but I was in a "situation" so I was not able to give a reply. I haven't seen her but I'm sure things were patched up a long time ago.

Many say that it's hard to make a move on Psychs (Psychologists) because they can read you right away, but as long as you're sincere then I guess you'll do fine.

I have been teased before by my friends saying I'm a Psycho, as in psychotic, and psychologists are my perfect match. LOL!

Making a move or handling a relationship with one is not really my expertise, but of course I'm always willing to learn.