Is it possible to love and hate a person at the same time?

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papaw

I think if you love someone, you'll love them when they disappoint you or hurt you, or make you mad, Thats just bumps on the road of life. I've been married for many years. The whole time, my wife has tried to change habits and things about me that she doesn't LIKE, but she still LOVES me.

I heard a quote one time that I think might sum this up. A couple had a violent disagreement; (he cheated on her) They argued almost all day, said a lot of hurtful things, but finally, things calmed down. She was kinda crying, he felt like a dog, apologized over & over. They embraced, held each other for a long time. He finally asked her if she still loved him. Her reply was, "I love you with all my heart; I just don't like you very much right now."

atlas (((shrugs)))

No. You can hate something they do, but if you hate them, you've lost the love.

Zaq Q

I would say its possible to love and dislike the person at the same time. Hate is a strong word

brrrrrrrmmmmm

Yes, when somebody you love cheated on you. Its a terrible feeling.

diwata

I think it is possible to feel two very strong conflicting enotions at the same time. But perhaps what you are calling hate is actually anger or hurt in disguise. Such as when I discovered my b/f cheating on me. The love I had felt for him for years didn't disappear overnight, though sometimes I wished he was dead!

Yes it is called marriage

Paix

Anything is possible, my dear!
So yes, it is possible. I can truthfully say that I've been in a situation like that when it came to my relationship with my mom. There was a time when we really never saw eye to eye on things. Naturally I love her - she's my mom, of course. But I did hate her during that time. My point of view differed from hers so much that we had this love/hate relationship going on and it was pretty depressing. It's emotionally draining to love/hate someone at the same time.. thankfully that's in the past!

battgirl

Yes. Right now I am in the middle of hating yet loving my hubby. One more straw and I'll cross over to the H side!

Men can be so annoying! Agree, ladies?

Juan C

you hated her because you loved her...

Nna g

Yes, definitely. Like how i hate my stupid brother, hate his guts. Why I still am in speaking terms with him or stand to live with him in one roof is a what we called love,stupid freaking love.

skeptic

sure it is possible...

Felicity???

99.9% possible.. <*-*>

Aref H4

Nah. Don't believe a word of it.

Light does not co-exist with a Black Hole in any specific timeframe, so would these two opposing forces of love and hate fail to occupy an event horizon.

Joselyn

Yeah, that's why there's the saying "it's better to have someone hate you than love you" because hate is a feeling, so when a person hates someone they actually have some sort of feelings toward them, because if they didn't there wouldn't be hate (does that make sense?). Your question actually reminds me of a Three Days Grace song, I think it's called "I Hate Everything About You" or something like that.

Rode|ette Û©

yes po that's why i hate loving.

welgerish

hmm... loving and hating are very contradicting feelings... but it is really possible to love and hate at the same time... especially, if the person you love seems to not come up w/ the expectations that you are expecting... that's the time you'll eventually hate that person cause of the frustrations... but you can still manage to love that person deeply inspite of all the flaws... that's what you call sacrifice for the one you love... :)

stacigh

Yes.

mcrfangurlâ™¥

Yes, say you just got in a fight with a boyfriend. You hate him because he cheated on you, and you still have feelings for him (that's like love), because of what you two have gone through, like the happy times. You got to go through this situation to really understand the feeling.

Alexander D

Very possible.

farstars86

"I love you, that is y i hate you"
hmm probably possible :))

Kim P

Yes it may be possible.
It could be like your enemy you hated
for several years, but while you were
hating the person you actually loved him/her
deep inside.

[:

Ehh; feeling romantic at teh moment hehe.

meryem25813

sure
be4 i loved a guy so much n same time i was hating him bcz he was saying he loveme even he didnt
thx god im over that

the italian idol

eventually the real thing will come out.

Freo

No. You either love or hate. Sometimes, you might like them more or less....

help

yeah if you love some one to a certain extent you notice all their flaws and that can drive you to hate them

Borat

Jak sie masz! My name Borat. Yes. It possible. Now, you love me or hate me?

It's a boy! 9/9/09

yes ....you love to hate that person, you hate to love that person

k.1994.

of course!!! its called a love hate relationship!!its when u love some1 for somethings and hate them for other things. simple stuff.. =]

Scream. Aim. Fire.

yepp
its always possible
sometimes yooh hate loving them
or
yooh love hating them
=D

Ann C

Ever heard of unconditional love?

Stephanie T

I think that there is one underlining word to describe how you feel but there is mixed words on how to express it on that particular time.

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