Is it time for a change?

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HRH Shim

Its obvious that you know what your weaknesses are. I can tell you to start acting the opposite but its no point of trying to be someone that you're not.

Believe me, there are women out there who are turned on by your fierce and kicka*s attitude. Just be yourself but you also need to relax and open up a bit but not to the point of changing your true colours.

Try humour a bit and smile a bit (although I know it might pains you to do it). I wouldn't mind actually to date you... he he... but I already ada "penunggu" and besides I think I'm older than you.

Try to be like your avatar. Although a wolf is fierce and solitary, but it also has a gentle and docile side to it. Try to focus on that for a change and maybe, serigala betina pulak might be attracted to you.... good luck!

Jessica Alba

U want to date me?

★ Cik Yaya ★

omfg you're so sweet..hehe...im speechless..just listen to your fave kak imah and abg anderson okay..=D good luck!
and yes your bestfriend uncle Bean..

anderson

just get along with people and learn thier way of live, thats one way to soacial and getting your self a girl. find your self a new group of friends.or

just drink nescafe and "open up"

communication is the "Key" of solving your problems

Ying Ying

now listen to me...

HAVE A BIG BIG BIG SMILE WHEN U READ THIS ..

:D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXXm696UbKY

dont worry.. life isnt about work only.. find something u relli enjoy to do..Life's blows cannot break a person whose spirit is warmed at the fire of enthusiasm.

Optimus Nate Primal™

lazarus.. lazarus..

This is tHe Time to change..

Jedi Sapien

start playing depan more rather than main belakang

Bean

There are millions of people like you across the world. They are too wrapped up in their work to realise just how wonderful this life can really be.

If you feel nervous or shy or simply cant be bothered to try and chat-up the ladies in a pub/club etc why don't you try a dating agency..~I'm serious..!

They've probably got thousands of ladies in their books with the same type of lifestyle/ attitude as you and you might just find your true love there.

Good luck son..

hushpuppy

lol lazarus, i guess that makes us two.

good luck my friend!

(愛♥Love)

yerp, like a bullcrap...

just go out, get socialize....

thats will do...

and make sure, smiles!!!

ease out ur mind, okay!!!

kimht

sometime the pain of love is part of the fun to feel love

P P

if you can't change the environment, change yourself so that you can changet the environment ...

or change yourself to suit the environment ...

ViRg()

WoW you just described me LMAO=P
Seriously, there're tons of single people all around this great Earth of ours who lead full & complete lives without depending on someone else thank you very much!
"Why fix it if it ain't broken?"
Settling down just for the sake of fear is lame, you're only setting yourself up for further disappointment.
Maybe the right one hasn't come along yet... important thing is you'll know when it's right & when it does she'll be lucky to have you;)
Good luck.

Puan Sri kiki. lala

aiya abg long..how la?
not to worry.. sure u got one..
like yaya's sed, listen to kak shim and anderson..

*tu la ko..never want to belanja me..i got many lenglui amoi u know.. miahahhaa!
*m single oso what.. ok je..but i muda lg than u dats y not wori2 one.. hehehe

Bloed

Sounds like it's time for a change...
Sounds like you need to de-freeze a bit!
You have tried it this way but that doesn't work for you anymore. Seems that you are longing for more. And your attitude is working against you.
This will not be easy and not take place overnight. Take it easy, but slowly try to get more soft and social. Give others what you would like for yourself, for instance some friendly words, less appearance but more friendship and warmth. A bit more friendly attention. You will see that it works!

Its Show Time!!!

don't force your self to do things that you don't like but...if you need try to.. go on time by time and with the right guide..don't be too shy or too excited .....control your mind...ha ha Its Show Time !!! dude..good luck

Dani Filth Malay

nop.. this bs would never ends if u keep going like that (holly crap! shut up!) by the way.., whose dying? i hate to get my feet at funerals

Ct~~ Cutie Of Touches

how old are u btw?...and if u are a girl, pls don't act fierce, guys will run away, same applies if u are a guy too..no one wants to be around fierced or serious looking people cos you will scare them away....and be friendly to others of course

s7evens

You do need a social life dude..

felixspade

Hi wolfy

So you know all along that the source of the problem is being anti-social and thats the reason why you attracted less friends.

Seriously if you really want to have a companion or soulmate fast you got to change your attitude and perspective if you want to attract more prospect in your life.

So
My advice is...

1.Be more open minded (new friends)
2.Be more friendly towards others
3.Smile more
4.Laugh more
5.Be more daring in approaching people
6.Develop strong self-esteem like (people like me)
7.Be Humours (74% people like humours people)
8.sms or mms more to friends
9.Talk bullshit or craps (A form of conversation)
10. Open up yourself to others

The main point is you can choose to be a friendly wolf whom everyone will like (maybe) or the Cold and cool wolf.

Spades

ya_staff

From the way you yped, yes, you do look serious. And the avatar.

Okay dude, if you want to find a lifetime mate do these things:

1)Find someone that CAN accept you the way you are. Cause this will determine the life of you and maybe your wife after marriage.
2)Be friends w/people who are...'joyful'...if you're serious on them they'l not think you're being serious and when you're always been shown a cheerful attitude, you yourself can be that too.
3)Change your lifestyle, slowly, comfortably. Loosen up that tie already and what's with ya room?

Mouse

You should try and socialise more and make an effort to make the best first impression possible. You'll only make new friends if you make an effort. If you can do that, you'll probably have more success in dating etc.

Universal Love+Truth

Hope my comments can help, somewhat.

From the little you mention i gather you may just be someone who is well-educated, disciplined, and of good character. You have good morals, high standard, decent mannerisms and expect your dates to be proper, educated and having positive qualities.

My advice is not to take yourself and others too seriously and to let go yourself when relating to others, esp the opposite sex. Realise that every person has some kind of weakness,but this should not mar a relationship. We need not be perfect in everything we say or do, and therefore not to expect from others. Life should be more fun, humour and some play.

You can gain some confidence in selective reading. Brush up on current affairs, popular historical events, health, interesting hobbies, sports, etc. Attend some courses or learn a new skill. Do physical exercises three times or more, weekly. Present a healthy attitude towards life, mentally and physically. Memorise some great jokes or humorous stories.
You will never fail to sound and appear to be an interesting character, when you are this prepared. Smile more as smiles break the ice and attract others to you!Use a bit more energy, volume or passion when you talk.

Best of luck, enjoy life and happy adventures from now on!

herman loves SKCB

I'll drink to that L,
To our future!

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